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TigressDem

(5,125 posts)
75. Even with all I have said, I know sometimes we lose friends by being true to our own values.
Sat Apr 16, 2022, 12:29 PM
Apr 2022

Every time I speak to my son who is under the thrall of the fake news providers, I wonder if I would be better off without him in my life.

Truth be told, the answer is Yes.

As a parent I thought I taught him to think for himself, question things and reason it out. However, there is propaganda out there being put together like billion dollar block busters and promoted like WWF.

He's "thinking for himself" by not believing what I tell him just because I'm his Mom and he "should" trust me. He believes I am being duped my the MSM with "fake news".

But I watched a clip he sent me about "workers bringing out suitcases of votes after hours" on a PC and read what the investigation into those claims uncovered. The video was spliced with normal activity from the morning dumped into night hours. I saw from one second to the next that there was NO SUITCASE under the table and then there was. I explained all they had to do was change the time marker on top from AM to PM.

I've told him the BLM "vandalism of the Lincoln Memorial" was a tag line down the stairs 50 or so feet away and that the video circulating of actual damage was a fraud put out there. Unfortunately the "LIVE" cameras happened to be down or I would have shown him the impossibility of the damage being true by showing him the statue in tact.

I have to work for a living. I don't have as much time as I need to disprove all these people who are actively working to undermine our justice. I still try, but I feel like I come up short if I can't convince this one person.

I do make progress here and there with him.


But it's like having a relative who got taken in by a cult and trying to deprogram them while they are still attending meetings.

Very well written Walleye Apr 2022 #1
Walleye beat me to it. Very well said! Thank you! Jm7603 Apr 2022 #2
... Faux pas Apr 2022 #3
Perfection... SheilaAnn Apr 2022 #4
That's great. IrishAfricanAmerican Apr 2022 #5
Any Trump supporter who actually would read this... luv2fly Apr 2022 #6
That was my thought too - too many "big" words. Totally Tunsie Apr 2022 #9
Did you say would or could? Will need a dick...what? usaf-vet Apr 2022 #29
My thought, too. geardaddy Apr 2022 #40
What inthewind21 Apr 2022 #43
Superb. NewHendoLib Apr 2022 #7
I think calling someone your friend and then insulting to hell out of them... LakeArenal Apr 2022 #8
I definitely agree - they can't be close friends womanofthehills Apr 2022 #10
I would love to know what you said! renate Apr 2022 #12
She wore a 'Let's o Brandon Tee to an after church function. 'Nuff said. 634-5789 Apr 2022 #65
We WERE friends, until Qanon got their claws into her brain. 634-5789 Apr 2022 #11
Gotta agree. BlackSkimmer Apr 2022 #17
I had a friend that shared the most vile, hating, racist post on Facebook ... aggiesal Apr 2022 #25
Same deal here. Hateful racist used to be decent human...then TFG showed up a switch was flipped. 634-5789 Apr 2022 #32
Hate to say it inthewind21 Apr 2022 #44
Exactly. nt SunSeeker Apr 2022 #54
That's still a major change, from private fascism/ racism, etc, to proudly sporting these beliefs. Jetheels Apr 2022 #76
yep. gratuitous. venting, yes. friendship .. ? stopdiggin Apr 2022 #39
Totally agree nt Raine Apr 2022 #68
That's what I call speaking truth to jackals. dchill Apr 2022 #13
This is Codifer Apr 2022 #14
Bravo! SoCalDavidS Apr 2022 #15
Your former friend probably took this personally FakeNoose Apr 2022 #16
What was your intent, to tell the friend off or to change the friend's mind? Hassler Apr 2022 #18
Bingo. BlackSkimmer Apr 2022 #58
The writer is not pretending these people are redeemable. hay rick Apr 2022 #62
The letter is sort of a 4th step by proxy. lagomorph777 Apr 2022 #69
The line that really stuck out to me: hippywife Apr 2022 #19
My encounter with an anti-vaxxer looms bucolic_frolic Apr 2022 #20
Sounds like a well thought out plan. Phoenix61 Apr 2022 #24
Unless you're compromised, don't rush out for the 4th. oldsoftie Apr 2022 #27
Do you count Fauci as a "real doctor?" wnylib Apr 2022 #42
Fauci doesn't recommend a 4th shot unless you're compromised. oldsoftie Apr 2022 #50
And yet, Fauci himself got a 2nd booster, wnylib Apr 2022 #51
Well, you certainly fit the description of "compromised" with 3 existing issues! oldsoftie Apr 2022 #52
So do a lot of people over 50 which is why wnylib Apr 2022 #59
I jumped right onto the 4th vaxx: lambchopp59 Apr 2022 #53
My bank teller: "I kinda wish they'd leave up these plastic shields" oldsoftie Apr 2022 #61
That must have been eye opening! Totally Tunsie Apr 2022 #66
Fauci is the BEST, and I'm 70...seen my share of shady doctors. 634-5789 Apr 2022 #64
Love love love this! Joinfortmill Apr 2022 #21
That is excellent, FoxNewsSucks Apr 2022 #22
Well said PatSeg Apr 2022 #23
What a wonderful insert inside my Christmas cards this year. NoMoreRepugs Apr 2022 #26
I understand the feeling behind the letter. And history will prove it true. However..... TigressDem Apr 2022 #28
Being suckered by propaganda is no excuse. Lucky Luciano Apr 2022 #30
True. However, it is an explanation. And today's propaganda is like a waterfall, drowning logic. TigressDem Apr 2022 #71
They know (the truth), they just don't want to know. Jetheels Apr 2022 #38
You don't have magical powers to "know" what others know or don't know. TigressDem Apr 2022 #72
You could always confuse 'em a little at the end. calimary Apr 2022 #67
You know there is a reason many people follow the example of Jesus Christ. TigressDem Apr 2022 #73
Your friend would not be able to read this truth. Their eyes would roll back into their skull and Jetheels Apr 2022 #31
Why then DownriverDem Apr 2022 #33
I have heard not a single person voice this sentiment stopdiggin Apr 2022 #41
Then THEY are as brainwashed as idiots following Dump. TigressDem Apr 2022 #74
This basically says ....... you Rs are stupid & ignorant KS Toronado Apr 2022 #34
Most of the ones I know are willfully stupid and ignorant. hamsterjill Apr 2022 #55
Wouldn't blocking her have been easier? Loki Liesmith Apr 2022 #35
Well done! PatrickforB Apr 2022 #36
nicely put llashram Apr 2022 #37
Beautiful. Saving it. n/t Saoirse9 Apr 2022 #45
And she found this insulting, did she? BobTheSubgenius Apr 2022 #46
Reminds mme of something that happened to me around 2005 DFW Apr 2022 #47
Good job, well done. Escurumbele Apr 2022 #48
If only they could read it ... but they're too stupid. ificandream Apr 2022 #49
you sent this to someone you Tickle Apr 2022 #56
K&R onecaliberal Apr 2022 #57
I agree with it but it's too harsh to send to family I haven't written off yet. I copied Pepsidog Apr 2022 #60
Count your blessings...... Hulk Apr 2022 #63
K&R Demovictory9 Apr 2022 #70
Even with all I have said, I know sometimes we lose friends by being true to our own values. TigressDem Apr 2022 #75
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