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In reply to the discussion: I am heartbroken about my friend. [View all]Croney
(4,674 posts)He went to his daughter's house for Thanksgiving, his sister was there and looked out for him, his BIL got him food, and he was brought home again safely (apparently.)
Most houses are chaotic at Thanksgiving, if there are many people. Is it possible your friend was content to sit and watch the festivities, knowing he couldn't really participate in his condition?
Dynamics of a marriage are sometimes hard to analyze from the outside. The question is, is your friend happy?
Four days without PT happens around holidays. If he needs it, he certainly should get it going again.
This is just sort of a Devil's advocate response. Just looking at the situation from a different point of view. Your friend is very lucky to have you in his corner, and if you feel the need to call senior services, I hope they are able to help.