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pampango (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:38 AM Original message |
BBC: Why do men shout at women in the street? (Hollaback!) |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:51 AM Response to Original message |
1. it goes deeper than just yelling on the street, and unaddressed, will not solve the issue |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #1 |
78. Maybe we could just pass a law banning all talking or staring in public. n/t. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #78 |
82. because there is no middle of the road, like learning or evolving or civil. rollin eyes. nt |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:36 AM Response to Reply #82 |
92. In a free country, not everyone wants to "learn" or "evolve" or "civil" (whatever that means). |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:40 AM Response to Reply #92 |
96. and some white boys feel superior yelling out the n word. nt |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:45 AM Response to Reply #96 |
99. Like I said, let's just pass a law banning all speaking or staring in public. That will deal with |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:46 AM Response to Reply #99 |
100. your post is irrelevent. nt |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:48 AM Response to Reply #100 |
103. Okay, just trying to help. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:49 AM Response to Reply #103 |
107. you are NOT trying to help :rofl: n/t |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:52 AM Response to Reply #107 |
109. Sure I am. Everything I propose takes care of the problem as perceived. Does it not? |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #109 |
234. So you think guys yelling things like "hey baby come sit on my face" is not |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:12 PM Original message |
I'm getting the impression that you cannot discuss an issue without putting words in other folks |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
243. I am speaking of things that have actually happened to me (and many other women.) What I |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:49 PM Response to Reply #243 |
246. I've listened to men talk about children being raped and heard one say |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #246 |
280. I bet there are far more men like Charlie Harper of 2.5 men |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:31 PM Response to Reply #280 |
284. Maybe you are right - it's a matter of expectations versus real life and when their |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 02:39 PM Response to Reply #284 |
289. I find 1 in 3 to be hard to believe |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 12:44 PM Response to Reply #289 |
296. I invite you to research the subject. I only know my own experience and the research I have read |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 01:53 PM Response to Reply #289 |
298. . nt |
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freshwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:25 PM Response to Reply #246 |
283. Nearly got into fights with male coworkers who said these things when working construction. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #283 |
285. Thank you so much! Oh, bless you for fighting back! I hope your spirit spreads to |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 12:08 AM Response to Reply #246 |
294. You must hang with a different crowd... |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 12:38 PM Response to Reply #294 |
295. They were assholes I worked with and yeah I had nothing to do with them outside of work. n/t |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
244. says the guy who played the Victorian/Puritan card in his second post in the subthread |
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meow2u3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:11 AM Response to Reply #234 |
262. If any dork told me, "Hey, baby, come sit on my face", I'd come back with... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:26 PM Response to Reply #234 |
268. Deleted message |
LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #92 |
142. I imagine respect for the individual... |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:06 PM Response to Reply #92 |
159. Well - Where to begin! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:11 PM Response to Reply #159 |
163. the thing |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:45 PM Response to Reply #163 |
208. Ooooh - you got me! Pardon me while I hum a few bars of Hank Williams "I'm so lonesome I could cry" |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:38 PM Response to Reply #159 |
206. Well - Where to end! |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:09 PM Response to Reply #206 |
228. I feel badly for any women |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:06 PM Response to Reply #228 |
241. Except none of the women I live with live with a misogynist, though they do live with someone who is |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 09:09 AM Response to Reply #241 |
257. I'm quite sure |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #92 |
179. Just a wild guess--you're a guy and never been subject to the kind of comments being discussed here? |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:49 PM Response to Reply #92 |
233. In Victorian England women who went out by themselves were assumed to be whores |
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Generic Other (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #233 |
279. I remember being picked up while sunbathing on a dock by two teenage boys |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:42 PM Response to Reply #279 |
286. Isn't it though? To be honest when some men make posts that show they obviously don't |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:09 PM Response to Reply #92 |
276. And that is why we have laws against hate speech - because |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:18 PM Response to Reply #276 |
278. Amen. I wish the US had laws against hate speech the way the Europeans do. There are some |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:48 AM Response to Reply #78 |
106. stupid, useless, strawman n/t |
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apocalypsehow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:52 AM Response to Reply #106 |
110. Gee, that's not a very nice thing to say. Perhaps we should pass a law.... n/t. |
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Kingofalldems (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:30 PM Response to Reply #110 |
133. At it again I see |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #78 |
136. That has nothing to do with this conversation. Not wanted. |
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catabryna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:09 AM Response to Original message |
2. It's called a cat call... |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #2 |
13. I have never needed therapy for street harassment, but there have been incidents where it has |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:13 AM Response to Reply #2 |
32. I always thought those were called "compliments" |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:16 AM Response to Reply #32 |
34. "Bring that over here so I can get a piece of it" doesn't always feel complimentary. |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #34 |
115. Good point. That's sorta rapish, really, isn't it? |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #115 |
167. It's a lot more along the line of what I've had yelled, said, whispered and called to me on the |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:45 AM Response to Reply #34 |
266. Or grabbing the crotch while saying "yo baby suck on this" - not a compliment. n/t |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:35 AM Response to Reply #32 |
38. There's complimentary--and there's gross. You seem unable to discern the difference. |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #38 |
114. What makes you so sure I'm a man? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:14 PM Response to Reply #114 |
118. is your profile accurate? LOL n/t |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:17 PM Response to Reply #118 |
194. Must be a default setting. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:56 PM Response to Reply #114 |
219. Did I claim that you were? Please point that part out. nt |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:24 PM Response to Reply #219 |
222. You said, and I quote: " Men who can't tell the difference aren't worthy of my attention." |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #222 |
237. It was directed to gross males, Apparently you think you fit into |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 04:56 PM Response to Reply #237 |
290. I'll take that as a compliment. Thanks. |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #32 |
49. NO. This is disgusting and a way to shame and humiliate women. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:01 AM Response to Reply #49 |
55. it really is used as a tool to. i dont get that women dont get it. |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:13 AM Response to Reply #55 |
64. Yes. This harassment never leads to sex, so it is a way for men to wield power |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #49 |
116. Geez, I guess I should stop saying stuff like this to guys then, huh? |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:31 PM Response to Reply #49 |
121. I can think of many examples in my own life, where it went the other way |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:26 PM Response to Reply #121 |
171. There was a SCOTUS case where men were sexually harassing a heterosexual man at work. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:00 AM Response to Reply #32 |
54. not usually, no |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:13 PM Response to Reply #54 |
117. Sounds like there are some instances it would be a compliment. Please elaborate. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. obviously I can't speak to every situation |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:29 PM Response to Reply #119 |
120. .... and, so what if it was intended as a compliment, or not? |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:46 PM Response to Reply #120 |
123. definitely arrogant, and can also be threatening -- the thing about the "compliment" issue |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:46 PM Response to Reply #120 |
124. I LIKE YOU. Great response. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:12 PM Response to Reply #124 |
128. thank you, thank you so much :-) n/t |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:35 PM Response to Reply #119 |
204. Let me run this one by you. "(slurping sound), Looking booty-licious today" |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:36 PM Response to Reply #204 |
205. obviously not |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:44 PM Response to Reply #205 |
207. How about: "You're sooooo cute!" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #207 |
209. if you are interested in a woman, how about talking to her like a ..... |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:08 PM Response to Reply #209 |
212. How about if you whisper it instead of shout? And what if you are passing her vs the other way aroun |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:23 PM Response to Reply #212 |
216. how about |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:21 PM Response to Reply #216 |
221. Because it makes some people feel good when you pay them a compliment. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:51 PM Response to Reply #207 |
210. Shagbark Hickory, what's your point here? I think may actually be in agreement ... |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:12 PM Response to Reply #210 |
214. I'm not ready to make my point. I'm still trying to determine what consititues a |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:15 PM Response to Reply #214 |
215. okay, good luck with that n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:30 PM Response to Reply #214 |
217. and just how cool are you.... hey baby. gold chains, too? nt |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #214 |
301. you clearly don't get it... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #301 |
302. after reading this whole thread |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #32 |
143. I don't care for such compliments from strangers |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:20 AM Response to Reply #2 |
72. It is not intended as a compliment |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:31 AM Response to Reply #2 |
89. It's Not That I Need Therapy |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:25 PM Response to Reply #2 |
131. I recall an occasion when I was with a group of children at a local playground. A very pretty, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:35 PM Original message |
i wish the men that defend this would read this. or even care about this girl. nt |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
181. I wonder how the men who defend this would feel if they saw a video of their wife, sister, mother, |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:46 PM Response to Reply #181 |
218. Or their innocent 12-year-old daughter! nt |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:23 PM Response to Reply #181 |
232. I Still Doubt They'd Get It |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:27 PM Response to Reply #181 |
245. One TV show took recordings of men's catcalls and played them for their wives and mothers |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:50 AM Response to Reply #245 |
254. OMG that's awesome. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:52 AM Response to Reply #254 |
255. there ya go. my rule isnt mom, but same concept. it serves well. nt |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:38 PM Response to Reply #131 |
138. Rec. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:35 PM Response to Reply #2 |
135. Have you noticed, though, that even the hottest 45 year olds |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:20 PM Response to Reply #2 |
230. Consider This: |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
3. Maybe the culture I grew up in is different |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:22 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. the saddest of the post is that a woman needs a man to let her know she is attractive |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:30 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. I see nothing sad about that |
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cullen7282 (30 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:56 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. I agree with you |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:08 PM Response to Reply #10 |
213. Welcome to DU |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:47 AM Response to Reply #10 |
253. post 131. what we are talking about. how do you reconcile what you say |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. you said yourself, if you dont get it, you look in the mirror and say, what is wrong |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:08 AM Response to Reply #14 |
28. Sorry sis |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:09 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. ya, lol |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:44 AM Response to Reply #28 |
41. We are all mammals and primates, for sure. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:25 PM Response to Reply #41 |
195. Just the truth |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
62. I would imagine that since animals... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:56 PM Response to Reply #62 |
200. Humans are able to override their urges to throw feces at each other. |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:26 PM Response to Reply #62 |
223. "since animals defecate when and where the urge strikes them" |
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GillesDeleuze (841 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #14 |
79. out of my love for feminism, ignored. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:24 AM Response to Reply #79 |
84. out of my love for expression.... wtf? nt |
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octothorpe (358 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:26 AM Response to Reply #84 |
86. How dare you have an opinion on things. :P |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:32 AM Response to Reply #86 |
91. i hear ya |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:34 AM Response to Reply #7 |
18. The other day, out of the clear blue sky, I was approached and complimented on the pants I |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:35 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. if i see something i particularly like |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:57 AM Response to Reply #18 |
43. by a man or woman? |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:19 AM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Does it matter? |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:32 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. not really |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:34 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. me, too. and yet, no answer. i anxiously await, lol. nt |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:37 AM Response to Reply #48 |
93. You Omitted |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:42 AM Response to Reply #93 |
97. lol robin |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:37 AM Response to Reply #18 |
50. The other day, my mother complimented me. |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:03 AM Response to Reply #4 |
26. "i think that is where i have the biggest... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:06 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. of course not all women play the game |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:16 AM Response to Reply #27 |
33. we can agree |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:29 AM Response to Reply #4 |
46. +1 |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #4 |
73. That's a good point |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:19 PM Response to Reply #4 |
129. You're forgetting about guys like me. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:32 PM Response to Reply #129 |
134. if it were women doing it with the intent to embarass or demean you |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #134 |
151. Oh, I know the gross stuff would get old really fast. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:09 PM Response to Reply #151 |
162. i learned years ago with little ones.... when i think something nice about someone, say it out loud |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #162 |
177. I'll keep you posted. |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Now That is an Interesting Pespective |
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OneTenthofOnePercent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
5. 'Cause they're hot? nt |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:25 AM Response to Original message |
6. we (men) are all out of intelligent ideas on how to meet women.. |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:15 AM Response to Reply #6 |
65. Street harassment never leads to a date so that logic makes no sense. I know you're kidding |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:07 PM Response to Reply #65 |
202. yeah.. its a Jerry Seinfeld skit |
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RevStPatrick (564 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:31 AM Response to Original message |
8. Why? Because we are monkeys. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:05 PM Response to Reply #8 |
157. That is one of the truest statements on this thread, and men, in particular, need to chew on that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:12 PM Response to Reply #157 |
164. difference is... he sees it as an excuse and compliment, lol. you see it |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #164 |
176. LOL, you're right, he does probably see it as an excuse. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:03 PM Response to Reply #176 |
191. Guys, that teenage girl thinks you're really gross. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:01 PM Response to Reply #191 |
201. I completely agree with you. It's creepy. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:36 AM Response to Reply #191 |
248. I love ya, seabeyond, but on this we must disagree. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:45 AM Response to Reply #248 |
251. congratulations.... |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:13 AM Response to Original message |
11. Reminds me of that thread I started a few months ago...the one with the cartoon... |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:25 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Excellent! |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
126. Indeed. eom |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
12. The problem, too, is that it so quickly and so often goes beyond "hi gorgeous." If someone says "hi |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:18 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Yeah, the "hey what's wrong with a compliment?" crowd are a little ridiculous for this reason |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:51 AM Response to Reply #12 |
23. That's exactly it--as I posted below--the offense is in the eye of the receiver as it should be. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:19 AM Response to Reply #12 |
71. Exactly. There's really no way to respond to this. |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #71 |
74. +1000 |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #71 |
303. Oh I snapped back once, and the idiot threatened the guy I was walking next to. |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:48 AM Response to Reply #12 |
105. Yep To The Asshole Part |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:29 AM Response to Original message |
17. This stuff is especially bad for young girls who are just trying out |
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kctim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
20. Isn't there something important |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:59 AM Response to Reply #20 |
25. If you think it's trivial, then you haven't dealt with the worst of it |
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kctim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:32 AM Response to Reply #25 |
37. Sorry |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:44 AM Response to Reply #37 |
42. just human nature for a guy to yell out... come suck my dick. a guy cant stop himself. |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:17 AM Response to Reply #42 |
68. Thanks, seabeyond |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:30 AM Response to Reply #68 |
87. always the way. and if not that, jealous, asexual, prude and so many other comments |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:08 AM Response to Reply #37 |
59. harrassment has nothing to do with human nature, and I fail to see why this is unworthy of attention |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:31 AM Response to Reply #59 |
88. Because "kctim", a male, presumably named Tim, who lives in Kansas City, says it's unworthy. |
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kctim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:42 PM Response to Reply #88 |
141. Such powers of deduction there |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:46 PM Response to Reply #141 |
145. but you did suggest it isn't important and that it doesn't truly matter |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #141 |
147. "...little marches..." |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:48 PM Response to Reply #141 |
183. Was it a waste of time to bring attention to sexual harassment in the workplace? |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:17 AM Response to Reply #37 |
67. Cultural mores do and should indeed change over the course... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:43 PM Response to Reply #37 |
182. It is cultural, a learned behavior. Not "human nature". |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:50 PM Response to Reply #37 |
272. "trying to change human nature" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #272 |
275. as far as we know, caveman day might be more respectful. we assume. but then, we dont know |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:16 AM Response to Reply #20 |
66. I guess systematically blaming women for men's behavior or not allowing them ownership |
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kctim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #66 |
149. Nobody blamed women |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:21 AM Response to Reply #20 |
75. There's some relation |
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geardaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:47 AM Response to Reply #20 |
102. Says the person with the Quagmire icon |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
21. There's a distinct difference between a compliment and a catcall. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:57 PM Response to Reply #21 |
150. good point Mineral man. also some 'cat calls' are exactly that... psssssst click click click |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
22. There's flirty and there's obnoxious--and IMHO, the line is in the eye of the receiver. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:53 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I remember an airline flight. A flight attendant handed me a cup of |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:32 AM Response to Reply #24 |
36. Hey--I love "Red" too, even though my ex didn't! My ex did the same, actually--only |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:41 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. Yeah, but "Red" is so 1990, you know. |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #24 |
173. There is a big difference |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:33 PM Response to Reply #173 |
178. Of course there is. Did I even hint that there wasn't? |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:52 PM Response to Reply #178 |
185. The OP |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:54 PM Response to Reply #185 |
186. I didn't write the OP, and I wasn't replying to it, either. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:32 PM Response to Reply #173 |
196. Really - suppose the person on the street said |
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polmaven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:10 PM Response to Reply #196 |
229. Well, |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:28 PM Response to Reply #22 |
132. I think shouting at a woman like that is rude. |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
29. Can doodz just shut the EF up? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:10 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. welcome to du |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:22 AM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Deleted message |
3lyford (22 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #29 |
148. angry at men lady is angry |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:03 PM Response to Reply #148 |
190. damn right I am angry |
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3lyford (22 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:49 PM Response to Reply #190 |
197. be more specific |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:55 PM Response to Reply #197 |
199. welcome to du..... nt |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:16 AM Response to Reply #197 |
247. I very much would lump doodz together. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:40 AM Response to Reply #247 |
249. I commit at least five violent crimes a day. |
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Evolve_Already (154 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 09:02 AM Response to Reply #249 |
256. Hah! |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 09:24 AM Response to Reply #256 |
258. Not uncommon. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #247 |
299. Question. How is anyone supposed to take you seriously |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 01:50 PM Response to Reply #197 |
297. Sometimes it's wiser to read instead of posting. |
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lostnfound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:40 AM Response to Original message |
39. Whether unpleasant or not, there are environments when it's downright threatening |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #39 |
80. Sadly, I've been in the first situation when it turned ugly |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
45. While I was never physically threatened, |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
51. WOW. There are a lot of unenlightened folks here. My response: |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:05 AM Response to Reply #51 |
57. most men who openly stare, yell, whistle (or worse) aren't interested in getting laid |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #57 |
60. I think I am going to make a separate post with that OpEd so it gets seen |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:40 PM Response to Reply #57 |
140. I think you're only half right here. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:51 PM Response to Reply #140 |
146. i think it is ultimately to feel empowered, but i agree with all you say in the post |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:07 PM Response to Reply #146 |
160. Why we don't feel powerful? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #160 |
165. then |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:56 PM Response to Reply #140 |
187. Yes, you bring up good points. |
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CrispyQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 06:03 PM Response to Reply #51 |
211. I've been on DU since 2004 & have only put three people on ignore in that time. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
52. Three comments about street harassment |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:18 AM Response to Reply #52 |
69. Asking for a smile is the worst. Great comment. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
53. For the most part they don't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:07 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. thank you man, for setting us women straight. all those illusionary experience we have |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:11 AM Response to Reply #58 |
61. I imagine that if someone |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:18 AM Response to Reply #61 |
70. So it's OK to ignore the culture that allows "some" men to think this is OK? |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #70 |
81. Interesting straw man |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:48 PM Response to Reply #81 |
125. Are you really trying to argue your offense to "all men" clearly, we know not all men do this |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:59 PM Response to Reply #125 |
153. Oh, trust me. I've been around here for a long time, and EVERY SINGLE TIME this discussion |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:04 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. "It's like demanding that anyone in a discussion about race issues" |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:05 PM Response to Reply #156 |
158. Hahahahaha! |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #153 |
170. You are so right. They won't acknowledge privilege either. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:03 PM Response to Reply #125 |
155. Broad-brush stereotyping is not a minor detail |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #61 |
77. my immediate response would be, .... yes, lets talk about this issue. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:25 AM Response to Reply #77 |
85. First off would you mind |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:37 AM Response to Reply #85 |
94. for the most part.. they dont. wrong. nt |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #94 |
152. So you believe 51% of men do this? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:19 PM Response to Reply #152 |
166. thru out the sibthread, you were pulling away from your original statement i addressed |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:31 PM Response to Reply #166 |
174. Not at all |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 05:09 PM Response to Reply #174 |
203. Dear Watson, I believe you when you say that you would never do this. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:20 PM Response to Reply #203 |
231. How hard would it have been |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 02:26 PM Response to Reply #231 |
300. Oh, heavens to betsy. Watson is "offended" by the title. |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:38 AM Response to Reply #61 |
95. Not equivalent |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:44 AM Response to Reply #95 |
98. i have had that, too. where men in the group takes on the guys that are asses. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:01 PM Response to Reply #95 |
154. Wait there a second |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #154 |
168. yes... i address women when presented with an issue. often. especially |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #168 |
172. So people you know personally |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:32 PM Response to Reply #172 |
175. yes. a woman in grocery store. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:34 PM Response to Reply #175 |
180. Yeah why is it that all women do that? |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
56. I've had my share of traumatic street harassments. They can be very threatening. |
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jtown1123 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #56 |
63. You are exactly right |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:22 AM Response to Reply #63 |
76. Thanks. Good article. nt |
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octothorpe (358 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
83. That actually happens a lot? |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 01:40 PM Response to Reply #83 |
122. Yeah, it happens a lot, and it's lousy. n/t |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #83 |
169. It does. Depending on the study, between 50 and 100 percent of women surveyed have reported street |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:50 PM Response to Reply #83 |
184. To teenage girls and women in their 20s, every day. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:10 PM Response to Reply #184 |
192. no |
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Dash87 (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 11:55 PM Response to Reply #184 |
291. Machismo cultures are really creepy in this regard. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
90. I miss it. Most of the whistlers and cat-callers were very cute as well. |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
101. its a power thing - making women 'things' |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:48 AM Response to Reply #101 |
104. i can hit it. on du often enough. an "it". men saying it to be cool. are the ones not |
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Dash87 (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 12:04 AM Response to Reply #104 |
292. That always ticked me off, seabeyond. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
108. they are delusional.... |
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Dash87 (404 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-27-11 12:06 AM Response to Reply #108 |
293. I think it's more of a power thing. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
111. I'm a guy, but I've actually had this happen to me, and perhaps |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 12:06 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. you have told this story before fishwax. it is so good hearing it from you |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 12:12 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. I should also add that |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:23 PM Response to Reply #111 |
130. They found you attractive and then felt *gay* when they realized you were a guy. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #130 |
137. shhhh, |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:38 PM Response to Reply #130 |
139. yeah, I think that was definitely part of their reaction |
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CrispyQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:02 PM Response to Reply #111 |
274. Thank you for sharing. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
127. .. because the male-supremacist culture has long taught them that they can.... |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
144. I will always believe street harassment is about entitlement mentality, desire to abuse power, |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:00 PM Response to Reply #144 |
189. Great post. nt |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 08:05 PM Response to Reply #144 |
227. I agree. nt |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
161. The issues are a bit mixed up: the expression of exhuberant lustful feelings is not the same as.. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
188. Fantastic! Yet another feminist issue brought up at DU, where it will |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:11 PM Response to Reply #188 |
193. or it is all about the men wanting to do it so really doesnt matter how a girl/woman |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:38 PM Response to Reply #193 |
239. That is it EXACTLY. We women are "things" and not humans. n/t |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 04:53 PM Response to Reply #188 |
198. Or that we should ignore our distress and focus on World Peace |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #188 |
235. If I had a dime for every male who said of my experience being raped as a child, |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #235 |
236. I don't understand anyone who could say that to you. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 09:33 PM Response to Reply #236 |
238. Sexual abuse of children is epidemic. I just kind of assumed that the |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:00 PM Response to Reply #238 |
240. You are right to speak out. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 10:12 PM Response to Reply #240 |
242. Thank you so much. I'm 49 now and hopefully closer to death, and it is at that moment that |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:45 AM Response to Reply #235 |
252. I had a (now former) "friend" |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 09:56 AM Response to Reply #252 |
260. Thank you. I am horrified that "friend" would say that to you and I am glad you shut that |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #260 |
261. it is odd. i cant make judgments on the behavior. but i get what you gals are saying |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:39 AM Response to Reply #261 |
265. I've read a lot of literature about child sexual abuse, and there is one |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:46 PM Response to Reply #265 |
271. A few comments on that story and your takeaway from it. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:11 PM Response to Reply #271 |
277. Thank you so much for this post It warmed my heart. Especially when you |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:58 PM Response to Reply #261 |
273. male response |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #273 |
281. wow |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
220. A man blew a kiss at me on the street last week. In FRONT of my husband - |
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Kennah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:31 PM Response to Original message |
224. Reminds me of an old joke |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:33 PM Response to Reply #224 |
225. +1. now |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:28 AM Response to Reply #224 |
263. Consider the beer commercial as the source of the ridiculous notion |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 10:34 AM Response to Reply #263 |
264. and it has got to be said |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-25-11 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
226. Most of the time, those very same guys would be furious if it happened to one of their own- |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
250. Young black woman came up to me crying a little while ago... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
259. This is why I carry PB blaster. |
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Butch350 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
267. Cause it's hard to hear with the traffice noise?? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
269. Just suck my dick already, bitch,” |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 02:01 PM Response to Reply #269 |
287. Great article. I wish she'd gone to the seminar and asked why |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 02:06 PM Response to Reply #287 |
288. i get where the disrespect comes from guys/men. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
270. Never understood it myself |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-26-11 01:23 PM Response to Reply #270 |
282. All I can think is, they want to make women feel scared and threatened. Guess it makes them feel |
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