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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:06 AM Original message |
Baby murdered with hair dryer |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
1. oh gawd |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:12 PM Response to Reply #1 |
24. Reading that story |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. But she shouldn't go to prison for it. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #26 |
44. I agree with all your points. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-14-11 07:32 AM Response to Reply #26 |
103. I didn't think she should go to prison... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
3. With young parents like that you need some kind of help to come in. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:12 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Amen |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:13 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Those people are usually known as "parents" |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:51 AM Response to Reply #5 |
16. Not everyone has access to 'parents' - |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:54 AM Response to Reply #5 |
19. and to hell with everyone who doesn;t have them at the ready, right? |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 02:48 PM Response to Reply #19 |
51. You said that, not me |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:13 PM Response to Reply #51 |
61. you assume 19 year old has a sister or pal who'd be much help? or local community organization |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:23 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. You seem to be making your own "huge and ignorant assumptions" |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:36 PM Response to Reply #63 |
69. no, i am pointing out your assumption that there was help readily available is a big leap |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. Agreed. The early months with a first child can be very overwhelming |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:13 PM Response to Reply #13 |
25. I'm a first time parent |
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rurallib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
37. our daughter just had her first about 6 mo. ago |
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sasha031 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
6. how horrible, it's obvious they didn't have heat |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
7. Sad all around. |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
8. This happened in KS |
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REACTIVATED IN CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:23 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. The article states that the apt. had heating problems |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:25 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Sad |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:54 AM Response to Reply #9 |
18. It must have had electrictity since she was able to use the hair dryer. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:26 PM Response to Reply #18 |
36. electric heaters can also cause babies to overheat |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:45 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Electric heaters also cost money. Some people on this thread seem to think that people improvise... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. indeed |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 02:53 PM Response to Reply #39 |
52. Electric heaters cost money? So do hair dryers. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 02:57 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Obviously the person in the OP had a hair dryer on hand. And you'll get a break when you give a few |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 02:59 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. She also had working utilities in the apartment, according to the |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Do you live in an apartment? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #56 |
67. I've lived in a number of apartments over the years. However I fail to see WTF |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:37 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. landlords will downplay complaints if they can get away with it, |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:46 PM Response to Reply #71 |
78. If your apartment had no heat, would you take your kid's clothes off, |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:50 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. i'm not willing to judge or guess at what mistakes Id make as 19 yo Mom |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:48 PM Response to Reply #79 |
95. 19 years old is an adult. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-14-11 12:18 AM Response to Reply #95 |
102. do you have a point? |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:15 PM Response to Reply #52 |
83. Hair dryers are much less expensive than space heaters |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:50 PM Response to Reply #83 |
96. You can buy a small heater for less than 20 $. |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:06 PM Response to Reply #9 |
22. If there was no heat or limited heat, the last place for warmth is a bathroom. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:25 PM Response to Reply #22 |
41. why? Our bathroom is rather warm (perhaps b/c it's the only room without an exterior window) |
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SaveAmerica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:17 PM Response to Reply #22 |
62. Our bathrooms are the warmest rooms in our house, 1 small space plus 1 heat vent |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:16 PM Response to Reply #9 |
28. My first assumption |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
11. babies having babies |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
12. This is why you don't cut heat assistance to the poor. |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:47 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. +1000 |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:52 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Thank you |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:08 PM Response to Reply #12 |
23. . |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:15 PM Response to Reply #12 |
27. Where did you see that in the article? |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:23 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. It is an example of the type of things people resort to when they |
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fascisthunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:39 PM Response to Reply #27 |
38. it didn't need to be |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:21 PM Response to Reply #12 |
31. This is my response, as well. |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
45. There we go. It's not the way anyone would choose to make the point. Sadly, |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #12 |
57. No, this is why idiots shouldn't reproduce. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:03 PM Response to Reply #12 |
87. Yeah. |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
15. That is completely fucked up! |
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beyurslf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
20. Ya know, it seems like a really crazy way to keep your baby warm, but |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:57 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Seriously? You think you can stick a hairdryer next to a naked child |
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beyurslf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:18 PM Response to Reply #21 |
29. A hair dryer next to a bassinet with a baby in it and a blanket over it? |
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KansasVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:23 PM Response to Reply #21 |
33. Hind site is always right. Lighten up! |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:01 PM Response to Reply #33 |
55. WTF are you talking about? |
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AngryOldDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
46. Read the warning tag that is attached to the cord. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
30. "Murdered"?? |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:37 PM Response to Reply #30 |
47. I agree--I hope there's a lesser included charge of manlaughter |
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KansasVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
32. This was an accident. Not 2nd degree murder. Prosecutors are out of control to me...... |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
35. Horrible story. |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
42. I smell a coverup -- her story doesn't wash |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:39 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. I don't buy that. She allegedly told police she "killed" her baby. |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 02:07 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. But we don't know what happened between THEM between 11:30 and 3AM, do we? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:10 PM Response to Reply #50 |
60. I guess her confession isn't enough for you. Must be a man to blame, somewhere. n/t |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:30 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Given the circumstances, no, it's not. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
43. How horrible |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
49. I am suspicious -- babies usually cry when burned. |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #49 |
73. maybe they couldn't hear over the noise of the hair dryer |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-14-11 09:45 AM Response to Reply #73 |
104. maybe, but I would be able to hear my baby cry over a hair dryer. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
58. "Murdered" is a completely inaccurate and misleading term. |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
59. This is horrible, but she didn't "murder" her baby. |
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thelordofhell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
64. Was there an oven in the apartment? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:32 PM Response to Reply #64 |
68. That apartment had working utilities, according to the property |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:37 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. the mother's lawyer said they had heating problems |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:41 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. And yet the mother took the kid's clothes off and the kid had just the diaper on. |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #74 |
81. yeah, that is strange, why remove the clothes if you are trying to keep the baby warm |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:07 PM Response to Reply #68 |
91. "Working utilities" really doesn't mean much... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:09 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. My heater works, but when the temperature outside is less than 10 degrees it can't keep up. |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #64 |
72. That's what we used to do in our old NYC apt when the super |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:17 PM Response to Reply #72 |
84. i had read that this is incredibly dangerous, but I did it anyway too. |
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XanaDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:40 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. Yeah, it was an old gas stove, too |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:55 PM Response to Reply #85 |
86. me too! glad we're both okay! |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:04 PM Response to Reply #64 |
88. People shouldn't have to resort to using the oven for heat, either. nt |
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Desertrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
65. "Murdered" seems a bit over the top. |
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11 Bravo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
75. This was NOT a murder. Murder requires intent. Has anyone seriously claimed ... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:44 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. You are not correct that second degree murder requires intent. |
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11 Bravo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:58 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. You are correct. I looked it up and murder two is a "non-premeditated killing ... |
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Incitatus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 07:26 PM Response to Reply #80 |
98. Yes, at best this is a case of involuntary manslaughter. nt |
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jtuck004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
76. It would only have taken seconds to hold your hand in front of the dryer |
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cate94 (573 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
82. This baby wasn't murdered. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:05 PM Response to Reply #82 |
89. I agree. I couldn't send this Mother to prison although I would... |
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cate94 (573 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:31 PM Response to Reply #89 |
93. Yes, I think she will need lots of help. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
90. The mom is also 19. I wonder if she's a product of "abstinence only" education. |
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Beacool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
94. What killed this baby is ignorance. |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 10:51 PM Response to Reply #94 |
99. I was just about to say something similar. nt |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
97. this is horrific |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
100. I've used a hair dryer many times to get our baby to sleep |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-14-11 10:47 AM Response to Reply #100 |
105. But have you ever left it unattended |
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Terra Alta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-13-11 11:02 PM Response to Original message |
101. This is not murder. |
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