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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 01:01 AM Original message |
You must be joking: Open letter to the "Tiger Mom" |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
1. I liked this part particularly.. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 01:41 AM Response to Original message |
2. In my experience, it was my Chinese friend's fathers who were way tougher than their mothers. |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 02:34 AM Response to Original message |
3. I'm torn. As a kid, I'd have hated it. As a parent, I have to admire the results. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 06:10 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. It's hard to argue |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 07:03 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Here's the thing, though |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 08:59 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. Two generations ago, parents reguarly and frequently engaged in behavior we now term "abuse" |
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vim876 (268 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:09 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. What if you knew... |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:25 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. +1000 |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
18. Shocking! |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I would no more call my child garbage than I'd hit him over the head with a hammer. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Really? You'd call your kid "garbage" and threaten to burn your toddler's stuffed animals? |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:45 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. +1 |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 08:50 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Warren, I'd compare my daughter to Sarah Palin if it'd guarantee she'd go to med school |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 08:59 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. and some of us despise football and those who pretend it's about "manly men" |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:03 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. That's sad. |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:08 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. I don't claim all coaches are that way. I know for a fact that some are |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. I didn't say you claimed that. It doesn't matter. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 11:29 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. She should regret it. What boggles my mind is why anyone would pay for her "advice" |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 11:28 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. I'd pull my son out of any football team that called him "garbage". "Manly Men" don't do that |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:41 AM Response to Reply #24 |
32. My stepdaughter's mom = overly critical, rigid, demanding and inflexible and my stepdaughter is a |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 12:02 AM Response to Reply #15 |
27. I'd call that identification with the aggressor, not love. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
31. You seem to view your daughters as tools to make up for your shortcomings and prove your worth |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 09:32 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. I want what's best for my kids. If that's sick and sad, I'll own sick and sad |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 10:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Don't be surprised if one of them rebels. |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-03-11 12:00 AM Response to Reply #44 |
45. Nothing would surprise me less. |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 10:07 PM Response to Reply #11 |
43. Seriously. So sad. +1 |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:10 PM Response to Reply #3 |
21. There's tons of middle ground between "Totally Permissive" and "Totally Inflexible". |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:11 AM Response to Reply #3 |
30. you do know India is not China, right? |
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OmahaBlueDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 09:31 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. Actually I do know that |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 06:46 AM Response to Original message |
5. The farcical thing is Chua confuses correlation and causation |
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Prometheus Bound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 03:40 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. Exactly the point. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 12:07 AM Response to Reply #5 |
28. I am pretty sure not every child of a professor succeeds in school. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 03:10 AM Response to Reply #28 |
33. Are you pretty sure that they are exponentially more likely to than the children of hotel maids? |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 07:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
35. No doubt. |
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MattBaggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 12:47 AM Response to Reply #5 |
29. "IQ is highly heritable." |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 03:12 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. It's that whole science thing. Try the Google. |
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MattBaggins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 08:46 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Every Science course book I have used and every professor |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:29 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. You should get your money back. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 04:39 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. It is. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
10. This "Tiger Mom" bullshit is just more media-fed noise to sell to neurotic, self-doubting Merkins. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
14. It's a shame THIS mother was the one with the article, |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 09:11 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. That's a good point. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-01-11 11:48 PM Response to Reply #14 |
26. I think it's an oversimplification to say "most American Parents" do or don't do anything. |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:58 PM Response to Reply #26 |
39. There are huge differences in parenting styles around the world |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Feb-02-11 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
38. Make 'em or buy 'em, kids are a crapshoot |
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