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Nordmadr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 12:52 PM
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Why can't I stop myself from reading tragic children stories?
Edited on Wed Nov-23-11 01:10 PM by Nordmadr
...and why do people hurt small children? I just read the story about the little girl found dead in a creek, still in her car seat; and presumably murdered by her father.

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/nj-toddler-found-dead-stream-15013228

These stories rip my heart out yet I can't stop reading them and wishing I could have somehow helped. I just fail to understand what can make a person do these kinds of things.
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get the red out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:12 PM
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1. I feel the same as you
I heard that one on the news when I was home for lunch. Over and over I hear these stories and read them, people killing babies. I don't understand at all. It is like these people aren't even sentient.

I can't stop reading them either, I guess I'm always trying to find some answer "why?".
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Whisp Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:17 PM
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2. I used to do that. I just can't anymore.
and avoid most topics on that.

Its not at all that I don't care - but it physically makes me feel sick to hear some of these stories and I can't see that helping anything.

I know a lot of people that can't stop, it just seems a part of curiosity and human nature.
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Greybnk48 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:23 PM
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3. I read them too, including that one, and then feel
sick all day. And it's stories like these that rattle my anti-death penalty resolve.
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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:25 PM
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4. I was never able to have kids..
I cannot tell you what it does to my soul when I read this stories....
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:25 PM
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5. ...
:hug:
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:30 PM
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6. I have to deal with people hurting kids as part of my job.
I read things I really wish I could erase from my mind, but I cannot.
All we can do is try to help the ones we can.
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Nordmadr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 01:34 PM
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7. I couldn't do it. I'd end up in jail because I would hurt those people
very bad. Maybe that doesn't make me any better.
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kickysnana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 06:27 PM
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8. At one time I watched Little House on the Prairie and that was a weekly sob fest.
Somewhere along the line I guess there was enough real world tragedy that I didn't need that fix anymore. (sigh)
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Lilyhoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Nov-23-11 08:21 PM
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9. I do it too.
I go to CafeMom and they always have an awful story about some poor child. I don't know why I read the articles, yet, I do. Like the one you just linked to. I am sitting here nursing my child being very thankful that his father and I love him.
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