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Edited on Mon Aug-08-11 04:05 PM by susanwy
My fingernails are bleeding trying to hang on to the Middle class rung of the ladder. At least the republicans could send me a dozen roses after fucking me a thousand different ways this last month.
My retirement savings - tanking, my two kids college money - tanking. It will take years to recover, and I don't have years. I moved some retirement $$ into interest only accounts (50/50) before the "compromise" bill passed. I saw it coming, those fucking Neanderthal knuckle dragging republicans wouldn't compromise and I knew at least one CONSERVATIVE rating agency would down grade anyway. I'm 47, so any changes to Medicare and SS will directly affect me and there isn't enough time or wage gains in my future to overcome the gap that will be created.
My debt - yea, shoot me I have credit card debt. Some of it because once in a while we break down and take, you know, a family vacation. Then when we got ahead a couple of years ago I paid for a vacation for my DYING sister-in-law and her family, because no matter how much I get discouraged, my life does not suck near as bad as my poor nephews, their dying mother and their struggling father. But then my husband got sick - two months no work at all, and slow going to get back to full time. But after only four months in the new job, he had no sick leave, no disability pay. Thankfully his boss is a good human and held the job for him. He is back to work, but we used our credit cards a bit and paid a little less on the balances to pay the medical bills (thank God we had decent insurance). Now because of the stupid TEA BAGGING insane fucks, my credit card rates will go up...so some bank executive doesn't have to give up the Bentley.
My job - hate it, but I worked really hard and I am one month away from earning my graduate degree - all at night - all while taking care of my parents and raising teenage boys and working full time. What is it going to get me? An economy where getting a job will be tough, and where leaving a job will be equally as hard without a darn good reason. OH, and I am an evil government employee who is sucking this country dry. :sarcasm: I know I'm lucky to have a job, but I'm also sure the Republican dominated legislator in this state will use this manufactured crisis to cut my pension. So I will probably stay, with my controlling boss and no upward mobility opportunities ever (they cut my supervisor's job to save $$ and now I do the old supervisors job, plus my own).
My Mother - suffering today in the hospital because everything but her heart and her brain is falling apart, but mention dying with dignity, and you get labeled a harbinger of death. Yet, HER MONEY for assisted living and nursing home care she saved responsibly like the fucking republicans told her to, will run out in about a year and Medicaid payments for assisted living and nursing home care will be slashed. My sister will have take her, but her heartless republican husband won't pay for home health care. And my sister, 56, can't retire because her stupid fucking republican husband won't pay for her health insurance until she is Medicare eligible. The man has a cool 1.5 million in the bank, and OIL revenues coming in hand over fist, but he can't let my sister retire, even though he has been retired for 15 years. My sister worked for the last 15 years so they could have heath care for the family including my beautiful niece.
My Father - being cared for by a hack doctor because others won't accept Medicare patients anymore. Going blind from glaucoma, but God forbid he be allowed to use a plant that could relive his suffering and slow the progress of his blindness. My sister cares for Mom, I care for Dad.
My Husband - votes republican, buys the lame stream media rhetoric that the "Government is evil" and both parties are to blame. He never pays attention, never gets angry about it and says things like "I don't want my money paying for some guy down the street who is too lazy to get insurance". Our marriage is bucking under the stress of finances, health care and the future of our children.
Finally, my kids - my beautiful children. All grown up....products of no child left behind. Unsure of what they want to do in life because they never got an opportunity to learn how to learn, to explore careers and interests, always taking the required courses and have to take the tests - never inspired. One did well in HS, bombed out of college, the other did poorly in HS, nailed his ACT/SAT with high scores, but does not have a high enough GPA to get into a four year school. I try to kick them out, get a job I tell them...but what jobs??? My older son is finally working but worried about the safety violations his TEA BEGGAR boss has in the company warehouse. I'm worried about his safety...but do I tell him to quit after months of trying to find a job? We have left our children a worse country then we were given. We ought to be ashamed, I know I am....
Fuck it - I need a beer - I need to turn off the TV and stop watching my retirement vaporize, pay what I can on the mountain of bills and finish writing my graduate paper. Then, when my parents go to their great reward, cash in what is left and leave this fucking country to the right wing. They win, I lost.
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*edit sp/grammar errors*
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