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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:26 PM Original message |
Parents keep child's gender secret |
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Veronica.Franco (752 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. strange choice ... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
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slay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:54 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Truly judgmental of you |
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vandelay (48 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Nice of you to judge me, also. NT |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:08 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. You see calling them "true idiots" and calling your post "truly judgmental" as somehow similar? |
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Exultant Democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:12 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. As they say, "judge not lest ye be judged." |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. Deleted sub-thread |
progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
22. You're still here? |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:28 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. Lol /nt |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:20 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. Apparently I posted too soon. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:30 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. I sent in the order for that one |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 12:26 AM Response to Reply #38 |
49. Ah, crap. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
3. I remember a story about a british couple who did the same thing a couple of years ago |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
4. fans of Saturday Night Live? |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
5. I surely don't want to "get to know" these people. |
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slay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:56 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. With that attitude I doubt they would want to "get to know" you either |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I'm just not a fan of these bombastic grand gestures- |
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slay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:14 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. I can understand that |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:20 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. That's fine- |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:25 PM Response to Reply #11 |
29. Weird that simply withholding information |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:38 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Not entitled- |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:48 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Part of our makeup? |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:01 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. Perhaps not- |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
6. Good attitude, but wrongly applied n/t |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. I know a lady who's gender was not known by her father till she was |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:14 PM Response to Reply #7 |
20. Sex |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:27 PM Response to Reply #20 |
40. Gender is a set of characteristics distinguishing between male and female, particularly in the cases |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 05:28 PM Response to Reply #40 |
45. Because it's biological sex that's at question |
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Lionessa (842 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
12. What an excellent idea. Makes it impossible for anyone to |
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Abq_Sarah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
13. From the article: |
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Lionessa (842 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:10 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I got that kind of crap, told I'd never let go, I'd be a controlling bitch |
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digonswine (463 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:22 PM Response to Reply #13 |
28. Yes-young children are known for excellent decision-making. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 12:33 AM Response to Reply #13 |
51. Who else would make the choices |
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Lionessa (842 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. On a humorous note, I wonder if Storm is the middle name |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
16. I have the same policy with my dog. And my cat. And my goldfish. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:54 PM Response to Reply #16 |
74. People always assume my dog is a "she", because he's pretty. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 11:20 PM Response to Reply #74 |
79. I assume all calico cats and honeybees are female |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 02:12 AM Response to Reply #79 |
82. But.....do you demand they answer, when you ask if they are male or female? |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 08:02 AM Response to Reply #79 |
92. Genetically speaking, all Calico cats should be female. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 08:43 PM Response to Reply #92 |
107. Except for a few XXY males, who are almost always infertile n/t |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-24-11 08:08 AM Response to Reply #107 |
108. Which is why I said: "Absent any other genetic abnormalities..." (NT) |
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Very_Boring_Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
18. Very sad. The parents are using their child as an experiment |
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jp11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 06:15 AM Response to Reply #18 |
58. That's my feeling as well. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 06:00 AM Response to Reply #18 |
87. All children are experiments |
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babydollhead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 07:36 AM Response to Reply #87 |
91. parenting is surfing the learning curve...perpetually |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
23. Whatever |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
25. I like this. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 06:02 AM Response to Reply #25 |
88. agree |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 09:06 AM Response to Reply #25 |
97. Well, that kid Storm is a boy.. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 12:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
102. I agree, more power to them. |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
27. I feel sorry for the kid |
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themadstork (797 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:29 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. Children are inevitably instruments for expressing their parents' social ideologies |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
32. "Storm"? Obviously female. |
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saras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
36. I just don't see the issue |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:17 PM Response to Original message |
37. Their call. I say, if they want to make a sociological point, use a bumper sticker |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
39. IMHO it is interesting |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:44 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. I find the "I'm using my kid to make a point" thing a bit... I dunno- over the top? Distasteful? |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 01:02 AM Response to Reply #43 |
53. Oh the practice of point making using one's kids is broad and pervasive well beyond this couple |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 02:55 AM Response to Reply #53 |
54. It's not exactly fair, though, to compare amateurs like the folks in the OP |
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Evasporque (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
42. Survival does not require strict gender roles |
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Lucky Luciano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
44. Very silly, but not my problem. nt |
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JoePhilly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
46. "Storm?" ... "Storm?" ... why not just tatto a target on the kid's head and call him/her/it ... |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-21-11 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
47. and what if Storm had been born intersex? |
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KitSileya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 12:22 AM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Finally someone brings in intersex! |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:25 AM Response to Reply #47 |
63. That was my first thought, that Storm is likely intersex |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 11:18 PM Response to Reply #63 |
78. And even if not, her/his parents are making more space for those who don't fit in the box |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 12:31 AM Response to Original message |
50. Dumb, dumb, dumb! |
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Zorra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
52. "Normal" is way overrated. Hope the kids grow up to be healthy and happy |
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Union Scribe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 03:35 AM Response to Original message |
55. Anyone read City of Glass? |
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Luminous Animal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 04:58 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. People. Don't raise your children to be christians. That's an experiment of fantasy. |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 03:52 AM Response to Original message |
56. I think this is kind of cool |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 06:22 AM Response to Original message |
59. Another example of parents using their kids as experiments |
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al bupp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
60. Life imitating art? |
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Zax2me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
61. Dumbest parents in history |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
62. babies aren't always born either male or female |
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Exultant Democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:57 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. absolutly, far better then forcing a square peg into a round hole if that is the case. |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 08:44 AM Response to Original message |
64. In 15-20 years, a therapist will be getting rich off these kids - |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
65. Setting aside the kid's wellbeing... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:38 PM Response to Reply #65 |
71. exactly |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
67. "It's a baby". I think it's hilarious. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:34 PM Response to Reply #67 |
70. yeah, I agree |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:44 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Not saying they alerted the media, just saying that |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
68. Our 2 girls played with trucks and medieval swords, and wore brown and red... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
69. many people seem to assume this is a recipe for disaster, but I'm not sure why |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
73. It's interesting in theory... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 10:06 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. Keep in mind, this is a 4 month old baby who does not yet have a gender identity. |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
75. The real issue here is... that is an awful name for a girl or a boy... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 11:01 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. I am really curious as to what kind of jobs these kids are going |
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Cid_B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 04:27 AM Response to Reply #77 |
84. I'm sure they can join a commune or commit crimes or something... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 06:06 AM Response to Reply #77 |
89. customer service. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 11:33 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Not too bad compared to the propensity of some parents to name their kids after-- |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 05:11 AM Response to Reply #80 |
85. I know |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 12:50 PM Response to Reply #75 |
101. I think it's a fantastic name... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 12:56 PM Response to Reply #75 |
103. That is actually the name of a homeschooling philosophy. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-22-11 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
81. sounds like they have read a lot about stereotyping and socialization of genders |
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jtuck004 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
83. I suspect these are going to be some of the strongest, well-adjusted people |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 05:35 AM Response to Reply #83 |
86. I also say, good for them! |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 09:13 AM Response to Reply #83 |
100. I think they should go all the way with it if they are going to do it.. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 06:24 AM Response to Original message |
90. Why does anyone feel owed the right to know this kid's gender? |
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HappyMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
93. Whatever. |
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logosoco (372 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
94. This story is interesting to me... |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
95. I really don't have much of a problem with this. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
96. They are raising their kid based on a fictional book |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 01:32 PM Response to Reply #96 |
104. Parents the world over do exactly the same thing. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 04:33 PM Response to Reply #104 |
105. you have a pretty damn good point |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
98. I'm surprised the two older brothers haven't spilled the beans yet. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
99. What awful parents! Teaching their kids to have an open mind. How dare they! |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-23-11 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
106. wow. weird thing to do. |
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