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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:27 AM Original message |
Advice, please -- my 14 y/o has tried smoking pot and I just found out -- |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
1. It's a hard decision to make, although taking away her |
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WingDinger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:03 AM Response to Reply #1 |
65. Trust her to make the right decision. Tell her it is her choice. |
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IrishBuckeye (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:32 AM Response to Reply #65 |
70. Kids need guidance like you've suggested but also boundaries |
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WingDinger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 12:29 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. That is your boundary. That INVOLVES you. And yes, even evil cigs. |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
107. I was recently given very good advice about my 15 year old.... |
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FSogol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:39 AM Response to Original message |
2. Concerning the other girl's Mom: If the positions were reversed, would you |
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Tace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I Agree |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 05:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
160. ^ Sound advice ^ n/t |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
3. Be honest. |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:50 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. ++++ (nt) |
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izquierdista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:06 AM Response to Reply #3 |
15. Yes, be open about it |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:11 AM Response to Reply #3 |
29. YES!!! |
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BolivarianHero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:58 PM Response to Reply #29 |
142. Bingo... |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
5. Don't make a big deal out of it |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
6. An A student is someone with a lot of self discipline |
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TeeYiYi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:45 AM Response to Reply #6 |
24. +1... I love this answer... nt |
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joe black (514 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:53 AM Response to Reply #6 |
59. Good advice. |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 03:37 PM Response to Reply #6 |
92. I agree with everything except your subject line. |
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enough (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
7. Good idea not to freak, and keep your husband from freaking too. |
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TeaBagsAreForCups (320 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
9. Proceed with your response... |
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Fast Dude (146 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
10. Buy her this month's issue of Seventeen magazine |
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ReverendDeuce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
11. I agree with the rest... treat her as an adult. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:32 AM Response to Reply #11 |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
12. One thing I would suggest... |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
13. Tell her to only buy from people she knows and to be careful where she smokes |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:44 AM Response to Reply #13 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:47 AM Response to Reply #50 |
53. internet... and du.... lol. the absurd is embraced and cheered. i prefer to ignore |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:53 AM Response to Reply #53 |
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NightWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:53 AM Response to Reply #50 |
57. True, but a lot of kids don't buy the "it's bad for you" line |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:56 AM Response to Reply #57 |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 12:33 PM Response to Reply #13 |
75. And don't carry it on her. |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:05 AM Response to Original message |
14. I wouldn't be so concerned with the pot..... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:37 AM Response to Reply #14 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. that is the concern. anyone is going to say tried it once. i am never going to believe, |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:01 AM Response to Reply #41 |
64. Obviously since I didn't write the OP, I don't..... |
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conscious evolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
16. Time for a lesson about the US Constitution |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
17. Congratulate her... |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
37. Exactly! |
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N_E_1 for Tennis (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
67. This is the best advice... nt |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
82. Well said and excellent advice... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:00 PM Response to Reply #17 |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #94 |
104. You're not paying attention. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
18. firstly, i would have sat, with no repercussion or threat of punishment or anger to hear |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 06:47 PM Response to Reply #18 |
114. seabe, we have to meet one of these days. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:06 PM Response to Reply #114 |
118. lol |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:26 PM Response to Reply #118 |
125. it's a date! |
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Lochloosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
19. Check with your local YMCA. I looked and they have martial arts programs. |
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nenagh (657 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
20. Maybe a story would help.. |
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NikRik (185 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
21. have 15 year old Daughter... |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:46 AM Response to Reply #21 |
25. you can pass out from smoking weed |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:50 AM Response to Reply #25 |
33. it's true; I saw it on a TV ad |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:20 AM Response to Reply #33 |
36. right |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:27 AM Response to Reply #33 |
38. heheh. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
22. When mine were that age I told them they could smoke all they want at home |
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leftyladyfrommo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:41 AM Response to Reply #22 |
30. Luckily I don't have kids. I would have just asked her pass the joint. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:39 AM Response to Reply #30 |
44. LOL I was tempted to tell them they had to share. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
23. Just remind her that she could go to jail because of it and might not be able to get a job. |
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here_is_to_hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:51 AM Response to Reply #23 |
27. "It really is just as dangerous as drunk drivers" |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:35 AM Response to Reply #27 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:38 AM Response to Reply #40 |
42. this is part of the issue we have with our kids. we give them false info then expect them to believe |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #42 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:44 AM Response to Reply #47 |
49. that isnt the argument. you said pot impairs the same as alcohol. it doesnt. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:45 AM Response to Reply #49 |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:17 AM Response to Reply #51 |
66. Buh-bye! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:01 PM Response to Reply #66 |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:14 PM Response to Reply #95 |
97. Did you read what she posted? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:03 PM Response to Reply #66 |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #96 |
98. And so now you're going to bully me? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:24 PM Response to Reply #98 |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:19 PM Response to Reply #96 |
99. I don't quite follow what you are saying... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #66 |
115. fortunately she was deleted before I got a chance to come back here. |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:08 PM Response to Reply #115 |
119. LOL, there were two of them... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:28 PM Response to Reply #119 |
127. WTH was she talking about? |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:39 PM Response to Reply #127 |
131. Well, he/she was an upfront sockpuppet and seemed to think... |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:42 PM Response to Reply #127 |
133. It seemed to be one person... |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:07 PM Response to Reply #133 |
135. I've never encouraged the gals to smoke pot -- but |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:43 PM Response to Reply #135 |
137. There ya go... |
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The_Commonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 10:55 AM Response to Reply #153 |
156. You again? |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:54 AM Response to Reply #42 |
60. Weed definitely impairs me - for at least an hour after smoking my reaction times |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 06:48 PM Response to Reply #27 |
149. lol, I sat at a stop sign on my way home |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 10:25 AM Response to Reply #149 |
154. that is funny. even funnier, i have done that and i wasnt stoned, drunk or anything else. nt |
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justabob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:39 AM Response to Reply #23 |
43. convictions affect financial aid for school too |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:43 AM Response to Reply #43 |
48. this is what i make clear to kids. it is a huge factor to them. they have 4 cousins |
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BolivarianHero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 12:07 AM Response to Reply #23 |
143. Incorrect... |
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stellanoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
26. Take her phone away and she more than likely won't tell you squat until she's |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
28. Talk to her about the consequences |
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uncle ray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
31. she'll probably be teaching you more about pot. |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
32. Hey there's a War On against that evil shit |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:59 AM Response to Original message |
34. If my husband was away with my 14 year old daughter |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #34 |
46. I had to reread the op twice. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:05 PM Response to Reply #34 |
117. even she is not naive enough to bring it on the plane to Grandma's. |
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Donnachaidh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
35. so taking her on her word is not enough punishment? |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
52. Be honest about it but say its for adults. That's what i plan to do. |
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Sheepshank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
54. Respect |
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BakedAtAMileHigh (900 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
55. you should thank her for not drinking herself into a coma |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:29 PM Response to Reply #55 |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
56. I probably wouldn't tell the other parent |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 12:39 PM Response to Reply #56 |
77. That's a very dishonest and dysfunctional approach to parenting. n/t |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:38 PM Response to Reply #77 |
80. k thanks. |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 03:43 PM Response to Reply #77 |
93. Dishonest? |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 11:12 AM Response to Reply #93 |
146. I'm sorry. I misunderstood the post when I read it the first time to mean the father. |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 06:37 PM Response to Reply #146 |
147. Oh I see |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
61. Don't tell the other girl's mom |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
62. First Off, She's Probably Lying to You (Scared) |
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FirstLight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
68. ...about telling the other kid's mom.... |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
69. Asking for advice on an internet forum will get you a million different replies. |
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libmom74 (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:43 AM Response to Original message |
71. I think |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
72. Have you talked to your kid about drugs before now? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
73. Gulag |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
76. I think that how you and your husband feel is much more important |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:27 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. looking at |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 11:09 AM Response to Reply #78 |
145. Unfortunately we did not raise her and her environment was not stable |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 06:48 PM Response to Reply #145 |
148. i had total faith |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 05:23 PM Response to Reply #76 |
111. This presupposes mom will eventually decide to tell dad. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 05:25 PM Response to Reply #111 |
113. it sounded to me like dad has daughter away from environment on a vacation |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:15 PM Response to Reply #113 |
120. you've hit the nail on the head again, seabe. Thank you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #120 |
122. . |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:27 PM Response to Reply #120 |
126. I misunderstood, apparently. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:29 PM Response to Reply #126 |
128. yes -- a couple times last month, apparently. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
79. I'm the worst person to ask |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
81. I find Oreos and Fig Newtons are my favorite "munchie" snack. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 02:16 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. oreos i can go with. fig newtons, ... too dry. only with a huge glass of water. nt |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
83. Did she break a specific rule? One with clearly defined consequences? |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
84. ground her, confiscate the pot, send her to her room, and light up. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 02:17 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. I keed. I keed. Kind of. ... lol lol. nt |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 01:57 PM Response to Original message |
85. More seriously, the legal consequences with implications for student loans, college apps, and jobs |
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lib2DaBone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
88. Go easy on her.. no big deal... |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
89. This is the first time pot has been an issue? |
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Mother Of Four (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
90. I have four teens ... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 03:31 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. that is what we do. we talk about it, all of it, often. open discussion. we see examples |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
103. Be grateful that it's not tobacco, but you might give |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
108. Meanwhile, people on DU want to legalize pot for recreational use. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 05:04 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. i have alcoholics in my life, that have totally destroyed their lives living in hell or have died |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:18 PM Response to Reply #109 |
121. we have some potheads and some alkie in the family. |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #108 |
123. delete. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:31 PM Response to Reply #123 |
130. that comes off harsh, dude. |
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asdjrocky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:40 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. Your're right. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:09 PM Response to Reply #132 |
136. Kewl. |
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uncle ray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 08:00 PM Response to Reply #108 |
134. why don't you spare us? |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
110. Well the first thing you should immediately do is... |
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The Midway Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
112. Some good advice here, some not. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
116. Most importantly, don't overreact. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:22 PM Response to Reply #116 |
124. That's my inclination. Thank you, TO. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:12 PM Original message |
Can I suggest something? |
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boston bean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
129. It is not your responsibility to tell the other parent. It will cause pain for your daughter. |
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crazyjoe (921 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
138. why in the world would you come to du for advice about |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
139. Not aware of potential penalties? I think I'd take everything with a grain of salt - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 10:12 PM Response to Reply #139 |
140. She needs and she wants parental guidance and structure |
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Tsiyu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-14-10 11:06 PM Response to Reply #139 |
141. I'm not an authoritarian but I try to understand them |
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Douglas Carpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 02:46 AM Response to Original message |
144. when I lived in Santa Cruz in 1980 there were parents buying their kids bongs for birthday presents |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
150. 149 people responding to you so far. Right on DU! |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-15-10 07:22 PM Response to Reply #150 |
151. Perfect. OP would do well to read this post. nt |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 10:30 AM Response to Reply #150 |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 10:57 AM Response to Reply #155 |
157. The point, which you obviously failed to grasp, is *not* to compare marijuana to heroin or alcohol. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 11:00 AM Response to Reply #157 |
158. Deleted message |
elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 05:33 PM Response to Reply #150 |
159. Yep, DU rocks. |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 06:19 PM Response to Reply #150 |
162. Best reply in the whole thread! |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-16-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
161. If somebody can get pot to daughter and friend they might also supply more dangerous drugs. |
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