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Cant trust em (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 02:53 PM Original message |
Were you self-sufficient at age 18? A post about aged-out foster care youth. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
1. Not really. |
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county worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
2. I graduated from high school in 1964. I got a job at a grocery store and was doing pretty good. |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:38 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. I also graduated from high school in 1964. I got a job at a local real estate office right |
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sinkingfeeling (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. I was married at 19, dropped out of college, and was the sole bread winner. 19 is one year older. |
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saigon68 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 02:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. I was Killing kommunists with a little help of older NCOs |
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county worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Where you like me and could not get a booze ration card? |
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saigon68 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:34 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. Yes it was galling |
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Gaedel (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-17-10 06:36 PM Response to Reply #16 |
46. And in TET 68 |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. Not really. Enrolled in college so support was combination of parents and financial aid |
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Johonny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #5 |
20. +1 |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
6. In los angeles, the support lasts until 22 or so, financial support or group homes |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. Yes, because unlike most 18 year olds they generally don't have parents or other family to lean on. |
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Cant trust em (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:11 PM Original message |
Are those county programs, or are they done by non-profits? nt |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
14. county / government |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
8. I graduated high school at 17 |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
9. I graduated from HS at age 17, and was in basic training 4 days after |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
11. I was, by necessity, self sufficient earlier than that by a few years. |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
12. Married and had child by the time I was 16. Husband one year older |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
13. Nope. I was sucking on the governnment teat in the marine crotch. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
15. Yes, I was working full time supporting a young family before I was 19 |
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Nay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
18. I was, back in 1970. It was a bit easier then, because wages were |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
19. Hardly. I was in college racking up student loan debt with no idea how to take care of myself. |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. I should be more specific - I was on my own and somehow survived, but it wasn't pleasant. nt |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
21. Not completely self-sufficent until I was 19, however... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
22. yes. actually, 17. i started school early. graduated at 17. went on my own, fall of next yr. nt |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
23. Sort of |
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racaulk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
25. Nope, not at all. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
26. Not even close. I'm barely self-sufficient now. |
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Jumping John (597 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
27. Well to note that a foster child may not be as well adjusted as a non-foster child also. N/t |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 03:58 PM Response to Original message |
28. Once CPS can't make another dime off of them |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was, but times were different.. |
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zabet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
30. Yes. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
31. Yes. |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
32. I retired when I was 16 |
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Crabby Appleton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:19 PM Response to Original message |
33. Yes, on my own at 17, and then in the US Army at 18. nt |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
34. Yes. Of course. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
35. Didn't you know that everyone on the internet was self-sufficient by age 16? |
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1monster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
36. Pretty much so. I did go to a college that insisted that girls under 21 live on campus, |
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kelly1mm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
37. Yes. Moved out at 16, in the army at 17. nt |
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intheflow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
38. I dropped out of high school at 17 to have a baby. |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
39. You raise an interesting point. |
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jp11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
40. No, but our foster care system isn't about getting people established it is about doing the |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
41. There is federal money available to assist such youth with college |
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PJPhreak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 06:45 PM Response to Original message |
42. I "Aged Out" from the Foster Care System at 19 in 1977. |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 07:09 PM Response to Original message |
43. I left home at 15, but I wasn't self sufficient until some years later.... |
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Fast Dude (146 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-13-10 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
44. Yes, I was |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-17-10 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
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