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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 09:09 AM Original message |
"The Beauty Bias": The pressure of appearances on women. |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
1. step one to free yourselves from male dominance: wash your face |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:58 AM Response to Reply #1 |
11. It sends a strong message to women - being with teenagers - that you are not naturally adequate. nt |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 05:38 PM Response to Reply #1 |
50. I'm not convinced it is even "to please men". |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 07:22 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. that is certainly true. i have seen more posts where women go after |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
2. And don't forget...if a woman DOES sally forth in sensible flat shoes while her hair grays |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #2 |
41. +1000. And let me add this... |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
3. there's not much visible gray hair on NYC's upper east side, either |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:37 AM Response to Reply #3 |
17. we hear, here on du, the blasting of 70 yr old women that have audacity to have wrinkles. |
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athenasatanjesus (592 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
4. I blame how the corporate media keeps passing off sex peddling as feminism. |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
5. Hey!1 Ya otta feel the CONTEMPT that my male buddha belly gets!1 |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 12:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
22. I like a bit of middle aged |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:42 PM Response to Reply #22 |
42. Well, I thank Zeus for people like you, but there *is* a difference between "puppy" & "buddha"!1 |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:35 PM Response to Reply #5 |
38. They're just jealous! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
6. I'm just happy there are that many female Senators |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
7. "men walk around largely unplagued by their imperfections" |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:49 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Exhibit A: Dick Cheney |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:51 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. And he was regularly |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 07:03 PM Response to Reply #10 |
52. Yet he was still a huge "success" in life |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
9. I don't believe the opening statement is true. |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:54 PM Response to Reply #9 |
27. I was going to mention her, as well. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. she looks like my mom did. at 59 mom was talking facelift and i saw no reason. |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
12. Men are also more apt these days to pick themselves apart. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:06 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Yes, the "Men's Health" magazines at the checkout counter are no better than those for women. nt |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:31 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Are men passed over for jobs because they don't have a six-pack? |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:42 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. I agree women have it worse but overall we are getting more |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 12:07 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. people hear my age and tell me i look so much younger. i tell them no, a healthy whatever age i am |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:14 PM Response to Reply #21 |
24. I agree. Women should not have to be ashamed of their age. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:34 PM Response to Reply #19 |
36. That was the case with me - I'm red-headed. Turning 50 finally has me looking |
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Gaedel (802 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-24-10 08:21 AM Response to Reply #36 |
56. Fighting in the tropics |
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HappyMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:28 PM Response to Reply #15 |
34. Hear, hear! |
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phasma ex machina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Men these days are also more apt to get face lifts, use botox, ... |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:40 PM Response to Reply #12 |
40. Companies don't spend hundreds of billions every year on advertising because it doesn't work. n/t |
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K8-EEE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
14. I really have no idea how much is "pressure" and how much is my choice |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:01 PM Response to Reply #14 |
29. You would if two very large babies had ripped your abs apart. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 07:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
53. That kind of hernia can't be repaired |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:31 PM Response to Reply #14 |
35. I think the standards of looking 'good' really vary. I don't do the make up thing, or fancy clothes |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
18. The only thing she says men are judged for is something they can do nothing about |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
20. "(A) woman will spend, on average, $13,000 in her lifetime." |
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K8-EEE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:10 PM Response to Reply #20 |
30. Haha I probably spent more than that on hair & makeup by my 21st b-day! |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
31. On the one hand, that is f'd up. |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:17 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. What's a Sephora? |
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calimary (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:40 PM Response to Reply #32 |
48. Sephora is a cosmetics store with a range of stuff. |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:20 PM Response to Reply #20 |
33. Multiply that by a factor of 10, and I'll believe it |
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tech9413 (294 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
23. I guess I'm the outlier. To me the sexiest part of a woman is |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:19 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. point is |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:37 PM Response to Reply #23 |
39. I know men just like you. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:47 PM Response to Original message |
26. In this guy's opinion the sexiest thing a woman has is a lot of grey matter. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:34 PM Response to Reply #26 |
37. You THINK you do. I'd bet many "natural" faces have foundation, mascara, and lipstick. |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
43. One actress stands out for leaving her gray - 'Activia' lady, Jamie Lee Curtis |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:00 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Come to think of it, Katharine Hepburn's hair never got dyed. Like a lot of redheads.... |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:10 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. But not in movies... |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
46. I am 61 and proudly going gray. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 05:24 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. Since my husband calls mine "silver", and I don't want chemicals in my scalp/blood, I'll keep the |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
47. males in entertainment getting plastic surgery and younger and younger ages |
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Heywood J (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 06:58 PM Response to Original message |
51. Aesthetics aside, considering that make-up seems to be increasingly |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-24-10 06:53 AM Response to Reply #51 |
55. They've already discussed the huge amounts of lead traditionally found in lipstick. nt |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-24-10 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
57. I don't wear heels, and I'm short. |
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