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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:54 PM Original message |
Men who batter think other guys do, too |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. Projection and social conditioning. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Yup. My ex couldn't figure out why I eventually couldn't watch |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:01 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I always always hated that show. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:02 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. yup. nt |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. It's an apt metaphor for the lives of a lot of girls and women. |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:19 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Yea, but didn't Ralph usually end up making a putz out of himself on every show? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:24 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. Oh, yeah. Sure they did! |
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RagAss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:22 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. I don't remember the show that way....Alice always made an Assclown out of Ralph.. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I think you remember right. |
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RKP5637 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:23 PM Response to Reply #2 |
22. I know exactly what you mean. I used to like the show years ago when a kid, but then when I saw |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Yep. Jerks come in all shapes and sizes. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
3. men who go to strip clubs say ALL men do it. men that obsess on porn say ALL men do it |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:08 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. That's broad brushing |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. i hear ya. and thanks for the post. and you are right. bottom line, we hear it on du from men |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
28. Hey I'm a guy and I seriously hate going to strip clubs. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:14 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. exactly |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:04 PM Response to Reply #28 |
47. My friends are amazed when I tell them I've never been to one. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
5. Makes sense to me... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:07 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. wow pipi |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:58 PM Response to Reply #5 |
29. I don't know how old you are. I'm 54. And there was a weird thing |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:17 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. "Ricky spanked Lucy ". yes. i cant hear john wayne today without thinking |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. The 70s is when I said fuckit, too. I was twenty in 75. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. dont know the movie. yup, that is the woman |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
7. Because they want to believe in the common evil? |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
8. I am very, very fortunate with the men in my life - I thought the OP |
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RKP5637 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
16. My sister was abused by her husband. I had long talks with her and she |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. see, beyond my comprehension too. i dont think i have even had a man |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
9. Nothing new there. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:13 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. true that codeine. thanks for the reminder. you are right on. generally |
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kctim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
10. They also |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
13. My belief in the extreme importance of education continues to be reinforced. nt |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
18. Also explains why some Cons/Authoritarians are so hateful toward any who don't support their views |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
24. not surprising, racists do the same thing. |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:43 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Those kind will then usually tell you they're "Just Kidding." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #24 |
35. we had a thread on here the other day. we are all racist.... no, doesnt have to be |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
30. I remember my dad's pep talk with my ex-fiance |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:21 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. first a wow |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 05:00 PM Response to Reply #38 |
44. Thanks:) sadly, his reaction is probably not uncommon |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:07 PM Response to Reply #30 |
48. I wrote a song called "The Ballad of Jack and Mary." Back in the 70s, people said, "Don't |
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freeplessinseattle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:52 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. So right on. My parents did nothing about our neighbors |
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Mojeoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:27 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. It was a creepy private scandal back then. And the woman eats her shame. nt |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
31. charles you get more handsome with every pic |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:19 PM Response to Reply #31 |
37. +1 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:23 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. lol lol |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
32. This is why 87 percent of women in Afghanistan report being beaten at home. nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
39. And the partners of men who batter believe that other men do too. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:23 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. you are right. nt |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
40. Men who batter have their heads up their asses and should be in jail |
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JoeyT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
45. This isn't really shocking news. |
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Old Troop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
46. Men who batter deserve to meet men much larger than they |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
51. Abusive Homes, In General |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
52. because other men don't speak out and say how fuked up it is often enough |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
53. And men who don't abuse often find it hard to believe |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
54. A simple defense mechanism |
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daleo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-15-10 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
55. Cognitive dissonance |
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