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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 10:47 AM Original message |
parenting teen kids drinking alcohol. |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
1. I think you have a healthy perspective of it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:00 AM Response to Reply #1 |
5. i try.... |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
2. Hired limos |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
3. its a crime that many high schoolers graduate as alcoholics |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:00 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. so, in parenting, what angle do you take? nt |
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ensho (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. way back when I raised my boys it was no drinking in HS |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:14 AM Response to Reply #13 |
22. ahhhhhh |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:08 AM Response to Reply #4 |
14. Anything in excess is going to hold them back... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:16 AM Response to Reply #14 |
23. ya |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
6. I have a kid who is 11, and a kid who is 7. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:04 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. we do approach it from that manner. that being able to handle something is age |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:12 AM Response to Reply #9 |
17. Mr. Brickbat and I have beer or wine with dinner, and I love a good gin and tonic and he likes Irish |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:23 AM Response to Reply #17 |
26. That seems quite reasonable. nt |
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Ron Green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
7. I think it's not only about drinking, it's also about independence from parents. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:07 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. interesting. |
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FirstLight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
8. I have told my teen |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:11 AM Response to Reply #8 |
15. see, i could post almost exactly your post |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:14 AM Response to Reply #15 |
21. I dunno... |
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Walk away (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
10. All family dynamics are different. You know your kids best and you.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:11 AM Response to Reply #10 |
16. you are probably right on. nt |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
11. Our older teens are nearly 17 and 18... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:13 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. that is what it is and seems to consistently boil down to |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:20 AM Response to Reply #20 |
24. Know their friends, know their friends' parents. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #24 |
34. i have been lucky in that |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
18. One more thing...your kids WILL make mistakes! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:22 AM Response to Reply #18 |
25. true all that. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:24 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Some kids will watch the bad example and learn... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:29 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. so true. i was one |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
19. 21 is the law. I wouldn't give my kids alcohol, or look the other way if they tried it. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:28 AM Response to Reply #19 |
29. this is why i wanted other peoples thoughts. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:49 AM Response to Reply #29 |
36. You are welcome. I come at this from a more disapproving angle than other parents |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:53 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. i hear ya on that |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
27. Unfortunately the culture in this country only shows that alcohol is for getting drunk. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:31 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. "alcohol is for getting drunk". exactly. this is my issue |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
32. I like the Italian approach... |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:33 AM Response to Original message |
33. Like you i grew up with alcoholism. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:41 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. wow |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 12:21 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Thanks... |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
37. The problem is the "Get Drunk" culture. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 11:55 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. "Get Drunk" . another poster pointed this out |
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TuxedoKat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
41. Good article thanks for sharing it |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
42. America Retains Many Puritanical (read: Immature) Attitudes, Particularly Regarding Alcohol and Sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-26-10 04:32 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. what really makes it tough in the u.s. is extreme of puritanical to all porn all the time |
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