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to say the least.
I’m posting this in hopes that somebody, Anybody out there can give me a clue as to what should be done with a very sorry and dysfunctional family.
I'm a relative of two boy’s, ages five and ten who are now experiencing something that many of us have gone through, The devastating divorce of their parents. But this isn't the point of my post, The point is not easy to come to, But come to it must.
Shortly after the divorce was announced, And not a second too soon in my personal opinion, It was revealed that the older boy who at the time was around six or seven was dabbling in some pretty adult like sexual situations and also asking some very in depth sexual oriented questions. Unfortunately nobody responsible enough existed in his life to ask some hard questions or to even suggest some counseling.
Next up we hear that the mother was pretty lax if not provocative in her dress undress and bathing habits with the boy’s. Then came revelations of what some long suspected, Molestation.
Turns out the older boy was being schooled by another relative close to his own age in the sexual how to department and of course he was caught passing it along to his buddies, Both verbally and otherwise, First under the radar, Then openly and without hesitation evidently.
He refuses to sleep in his own bed and is also a bully whose been reprimanded countless number of times for hurting those smaller and younger than himself, Boys and girls, Eventually one victim had to go to the hospital but unfortunately and once again the authorities were not alerted so it all slipped through the cracks.
That continues.....
Some of the sexual stuff has come out, Police were involved for a while but then it all went away. Now I hear that the younger of the two, The five year old is also displaying some of the older boys earlier and ongoing behaviors., Masturbating in public, That sort of thing.What little counseling they’ve had has been sporadic and pretty much useless. It really angered me when I heard how it was all swept under the rug mainly in ,y opinion due to a lack of money and decent insurance coverage.
Most all of this came to my knowledge just recently, And I’m just lost as to what can be done. So many people have let these kids down, Family, Police, Schools, Church, etc.Even The Courts as due to revelations in the divorce, So they are also aware as well. Please don't make assumptions about this family, They are by most standards, Upper Middle Class and well educated as if that would matter.
Yet it continues ....
It is, The End of Innocence, For those children for me for all involved I'm afraid.
What’s a person to do, What do we do ?????????
*Note: I’m not sure Where this should be posted, I'm not even sure if it Should be posted. I’ll leave that up to the powers that be. But I need advice. Please.
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