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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:02 AM Original message |
I'm getting really sick of hearing about people who "bought more house than they could afford" --- |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
1. K&R number four, all you need is two hundred more! |
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DollyM (837 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
68. We live in a $46 thousand dollar "hovel" . . . |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:15 PM Response to Reply #68 |
102. Please forgive my sense of melodrama... |
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era veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:08 AM Response to Reply #68 |
133. Good luck |
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baldguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
2. +1000 |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:10 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. Or some of the corporations. |
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FarCenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
62. Most of the bad mortgages were not from banks |
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waiting for hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 06:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
71. But who bought them up after they were |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:19 AM Response to Reply #71 |
124. We got our mortgage from a LOCAL BANK, |
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FarCenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:56 AM Response to Reply #71 |
191. I think that CitiMortgage is part of CitiGroup, but it is not a bank |
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waiting for hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 02:45 PM Response to Reply #191 |
203. CitiMortgage owns the paper on my house - |
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Go2Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 01:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
113. But they never would have gotten all that free money if they had admitted they were at fault |
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HowHasItComeToThis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:41 AM Response to Reply #2 |
120. BUSH'S CHEAP MONEY MAKES HIGHER PRICES POSSIBLE |
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Barack_America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
3. They didn't buy them with cash, after all. |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:42 AM Response to Reply #3 |
164. In every other profession there are standards of conduct. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
4. Countrywide lost a huge lawsuit |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
5. When we bought our home three years ago - |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:35 AM Response to Reply #5 |
23. And, people forget that even a 'affordable' home is very expensive |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. What was affordable may not be anymore with all the rates going up with everything. |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
30. In 1997 |
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OnionPatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. Same thing with us. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #41 |
76. What about the |
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gorfle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 10:40 PM Response to Reply #76 |
96. Peer pressure? |
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Go2Peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:03 AM Response to Reply #96 |
115. It's not so simple, I have been sold an ajustable before and they lie through their teeth |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:37 AM Response to Reply #96 |
128. It's also that people are illiterate when it comes to banking, and loan officers can prey on that. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 08:09 AM Response to Reply #96 |
140. Everyone was doing it? |
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gorfle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #140 |
157. See post #128 n/t. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:18 AM Response to Reply #96 |
154. this american life- the giant pool of money. an excellent explanation of all |
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gorfle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:30 AM Response to Reply #154 |
160. thank you thank you |
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KakistocracyHater (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 01:26 AM Response to Reply #76 |
112. yeah, & it was illegal to swap mortgages with other banks without |
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fasttense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:44 AM Response to Reply #76 |
129. You forgot the "con" in the ponzi scheme. |
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OnionPatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #76 |
145. Well, like I said, I didn't trust them myself. |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:11 AM Response to Reply #76 |
196. What "good old days" are you dreaming of? |
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Scruffy1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:17 AM Response to Reply #41 |
153. Predators is way too nice |
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Scruffy1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:22 AM Response to Reply #153 |
156. wrong url |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:29 AM Response to Reply #30 |
126. The bank, if it suckered you, would've taken your loan and repackaged it into a security to sell. |
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wolfgangmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #30 |
165. Maybe we should reframe "foreclosed" to be "getting Bernied (Madoff) |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:15 PM Response to Reply #5 |
77. Absolutely right |
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Myrina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
6. Kick, Rec and AMEN! |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
7. People on both ends need to be held responsible |
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BeyondGeography (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #7 |
12. The seducers and the seduced |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:26 AM Response to Reply #7 |
19. I'm glad for your good judgment and happy ending. But when homebuyers act like humans |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:10 PM Response to Reply #19 |
74. Lousy and hysterical analogy |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:27 AM Response to Reply #74 |
125. No. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 08:01 AM Response to Reply #125 |
139. In a rape, your right to say no |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:10 AM Response to Reply #139 |
168. "Solely with the consumer"? |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 09:51 AM Response to Reply #168 |
186. No, they have none |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:05 AM Response to Reply #186 |
187. Again, |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #187 |
190. Are you deluded? |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:08 AM Response to Reply #190 |
195. It's not a rant. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #74 |
179. good points...i was pissed when i wrote this and thus probably not as rational as could be. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:07 AM Response to Reply #179 |
188. I don't deny |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 02:14 PM Response to Reply #188 |
201. i understand (and to a degree agree with) that...... the problem is, |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #74 |
180. dupe delete |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:49 AM Response to Reply #7 |
28. Agreed |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:20 PM Response to Reply #7 |
34. If "personal responsibility" is a two way street here, the lenders have 5 lanes, borrowers 1 |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:34 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Yep. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:24 PM Response to Reply #39 |
81. And was she |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 05:58 AM Response to Reply #81 |
121. Truth be told, |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. exactly. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #34 |
79. Who ultimately has control |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 01:07 AM Response to Reply #79 |
111. Who has an expectation of a well regulated mortgage market? The borrower. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 08:28 AM Response to Reply #111 |
141. And what exactly does |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:54 AM Response to Reply #141 |
173. Dishonest and fraudulent practices were rampant in the mortgage industry |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:17 AM Response to Reply #173 |
189. And as I've stated numerous times |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:04 AM Response to Reply #79 |
122. What does the lender have control over? Loan approval. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
47. Nigerian Scam Emailers.... |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. I hope you aren't saying |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
82. No, and I don't sympathize with con men of any type |
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pokercat999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:13 AM Response to Reply #47 |
134. Con men know, you can't cheat an honest person. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #134 |
146. At the very least |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 03:04 AM Response to Reply #134 |
182. That is laughable |
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pokercat999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 06:39 AM Response to Reply #182 |
184. Busted, maybe I should have said the EASIEST people to |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 02:16 PM Response to Reply #134 |
202. what the hell? where did that shit come from? are you a con man, and so privvy to the "rules"? |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 07:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
73. Agree 100%. |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
9. There used to be LAWS that protected people. |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
10. It was the most predatory marketing I have ever seen. |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
11. The banks said investing in these houses was good financial sense. |
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SPedigrees (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
13. Adjustable rate mortgages should be illegal. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #13 |
85. The bank didn't do that for you |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:35 AM Response to Reply #85 |
127. Maybe not warmer and fuzzier, |
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SPedigrees (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #127 |
178. Thank you. Exactly what I meant. |
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FreeJoe (331 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #13 |
177. Not illegal, just restricted |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
14. Everyone in California has bought more house than they can afford |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:47 PM Response to Reply #14 |
44. And that's the other issue-- affordability at a time of rapidly escalating sales prices. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:44 PM Response to Reply #44 |
86. Your argument assumes |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 12:58 AM Response to Reply #86 |
110. Nowhere did I state anything of the sort. |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:15 AM Response to Reply #110 |
123. One of the problems in and around San Francisco |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #123 |
171. Building up these days is much safer than it used to be. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #110 |
149. So what specifically was the |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:46 AM Response to Reply #149 |
172. It was a direct response to someone commenting about the SF Bay area market |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:19 PM Response to Reply #14 |
78. North Dakota has 4.2% unemployment |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #78 |
93. Who's buying these days? |
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prairierose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:00 AM Response to Reply #78 |
167. That's a great idea...IF you can find a job....(insert sarcasm tag here ) |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
15. I read your subject line and was mentally composing a flame |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:31 AM Response to Reply #15 |
21. thanks, Warpy, for reading before flaming... |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #15 |
175. i agree with everything you said and I want to add that hope is a powerful drug |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #15 |
204. I would also blame |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
16. I have no sympathy for flippers, though. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:30 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. It depends on the type of flipper |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #20 |
205. I would moderate even that |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:22 PM Response to Reply #16 |
80. There were a lot of these people |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:11 PM Response to Reply #80 |
100. Agreed. n/t |
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Buzz Clik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
17. How true. Not one single bank has closed because of bad loans. Not one. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
18. I've changed my perspective on this... |
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KatyMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:51 PM Response to Reply #18 |
46. Yes, what happened to trust? |
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FarCenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:19 PM Response to Reply #46 |
63. The mortgage broker makes more money if he puts you in a larger, riskier mortgage |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:03 PM Response to Reply #63 |
89. Exactly |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:45 AM Response to Reply #89 |
130. I think people who engage a realtor |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 08:37 AM Response to Reply #130 |
143. Unless you engage a buyer's agent |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 12:48 PM Response to Reply #143 |
176. In our town, at least, |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #18 |
49. would you mind sharing what led to change of perspective? |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #49 |
104. Application Of Humility and Compassion |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:49 PM Response to Reply #18 |
87. So if a person is not ultimately responsible |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:27 PM Response to Reply #87 |
105. Con jobs do take two parties... but... |
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deadmessengers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
22. The industry's bad, but the buyers are NOT blameless. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:39 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. I'll tell you as I've told others...glad for you that you have the knowledge that brought you that |
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deadmessengers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:51 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. Please do not put words in my mouth. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:32 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. and when you fall victim to someone, something that you DIDN'T have a ready defense? You will take |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:27 PM Response to Reply #29 |
58. +1 |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
88. Your argument invalidly assumes |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:15 PM Response to Reply #22 |
32. Most people don't go to sales training or have an army of lawyers to cover their ass |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #32 |
48. the lack of any conscience...or maybe, a sleepless night now and then? certainly nothing |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. We have encourage socipathic behavior in society |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:05 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. as a collective, what you say is true. that also pisses me off. society has glorified predators |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:11 PM Response to Reply #51 |
53. Human nature |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:18 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. i am proudly not a member of the tribe of those who are stealing or buying politicians |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:35 PM Response to Reply #55 |
61. There used to be a name for that tribe |
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MrsCorleone (844 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #50 |
70. Agreed! |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:19 PM Response to Reply #22 |
33. But as I said in Post #30 of this thread, |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:36 PM Response to Reply #22 |
40. Is that a fact? |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:43 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. that's the point of this post, actually. I am so sorry for what you're going through. |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:56 AM Response to Reply #40 |
132. A suggestion, |
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Hatchling (968 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:35 AM Original message |
Living on disability here. |
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Sinti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
24. K&R - well said n/t |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
26. Friend of mine was an appraiser |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
27. I haven't been "told" by any bank or credit union that I can afford |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:29 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. Well, you haven't had our experience, then, |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:34 PM Response to Reply #36 |
60. I guess I haven't. I remember feeling both times like we were LUCKY |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:52 PM Response to Reply #60 |
67. Again, that was NOT our experience. |
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uncle ray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
35. i have plenty of compassion for those who actually got screwn. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:49 PM Response to Reply #35 |
45. SOME -- not most -- and probably fewer than you think ARE guilty of simple greed. |
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winyanstaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
38. K & R....good post..thank you.. |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
54. Problem is, there are lots of people who bought more house than they could afford who are in trouble |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:19 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. truth |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
57. By all means, we can't blame anyone for their part in something. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:51 PM Response to Reply #57 |
66. you can. or you can look at walking a mile in their shoes. it's a choice of worldviews. one leads |
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SOS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #57 |
69. After watching small town visitors to NYC get taken by Three Card Monty dealers |
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DuaneBidoux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
59. Some did. But there was a general mentality that forms like in any bubble. |
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juno jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
64. "Buying More House" conjures up McMansions. |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 02:49 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. that's what I'm saying. the meme of personal responsibility has |
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Political_Junkie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
72. Thank you |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
75. There were people who did this: mainly very well off people |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 06:14 AM Response to Reply #75 |
183. AMEN, Alcibiades!!! |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
83. Some of the anger comes from those of us who feel priced out by them |
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Kid Dynamite (307 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
84. It is always refreshing to know that "tough love" is alive |
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Patchuli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
90. A pox on the skunk that unrec'ed this! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
91. It's people who can't afford a house at all |
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autorank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
92. I'm thankful for your message,k*r |
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Riley18 (883 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
94. The banks were given so much TARP money with no strings attached. |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:33 AM Response to Reply #94 |
118. "All the banks are going to do is keep the money"??? |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
95. K&R!!! |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
97. People were practically browbeaten into buying houses |
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bertman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
98. Rec. |
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pundaint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:06 PM Response to Original message |
99. Agreed, this is not the time for minor fine tuning. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
101. And the other line "saving up for college". At $12000+ per year, for lowt wages, nobody would be ABL |
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nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:17 PM Response to Original message |
103. I agree and disagree |
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bobshin (165 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:53 PM Response to Original message |
106. I did buy much more home than most could afford... |
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annm4peace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-26-09 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
107. FIGHT BACK |
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rumpel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 12:16 AM Response to Original message |
108. thank you n/t |
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gristy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 12:22 AM Response to Original message |
109. Agreed. Was there not a time that the banks were not allowed to loan you money |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:01 AM Response to Reply #109 |
144. Banks were NEVER |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:21 AM Response to Reply #144 |
155. my how you parse....restrictive = not allowed and it matters not why. consumers were unaccustomed to |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:42 AM Response to Reply #155 |
163. You can call it parsing |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:20 AM Response to Reply #163 |
169. it doesn't make me feel anything. fact is the rules changed +despite Bloomberg et al, consumers |
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Waiting For Everyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
114. The philosophy today is: anything any shark can get away with is ok. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
116. The "house-bubble" would-be-buyers are the ones in a real pickle |
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arikara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:39 AM Response to Reply #116 |
119. Looking at it that way |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 02:27 AM Response to Original message |
117. Besides, the bad mortgages only caused a small part of the problem. |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 06:49 AM Response to Original message |
131. I remember house shopping with my hubby long ago. |
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era veteran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:21 AM Response to Original message |
135. Fundy's have been encouraging people to buy more than they can afford |
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secondwind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:35 AM Response to Original message |
136. Read Nance Gregg's article today......she calls it "lack of conscience".......n/t |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
137. The "laissez faire" crowd would decriminalize flim-flam scams. |
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skepticscott (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:55 AM Response to Reply #137 |
166. None |
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Trailrider1951 (933 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
138. That's right, and if any one of us loses his/her job at any time, |
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Bentcorner (385 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 08:28 AM Response to Original message |
142. Why is it then that only some people were "victimized" by dishonest banks and |
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TheCowsCameHome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:12 AM Response to Reply #142 |
147. I don't know where to begin with you. |
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Bentcorner (385 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #147 |
150. Why thank you. Thank you very much. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
148. The do bear some responsibility though. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:29 AM Response to Reply #148 |
158. +1 |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #148 |
170. If the broker told them they could afford it, they are not to blame! |
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Don Draper (69 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
151. I agree 100% |
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kenfrequed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
152. Besides it is a repuke talking point. |
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Turbineguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
159. It's the nature of bubbles |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
161. "...where is any sense of compassion in this world?" |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 05:46 PM Response to Reply #161 |
181. not really..........and that's the sad answer to the question, isn't it? |
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quaker bill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
162. Even my credit union |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-27-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
174. Sorry, but personal responsibility does play an important role here |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
185. I'm sick of idiots who bought more house than they could afford |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #185 |
192. These are right wing talking points |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:31 AM Response to Reply #192 |
200. Banks making loans available is a good thing |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #185 |
194. I agree - I thik the banks need some blame, but basically, people didn't do their homework. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
193. I didn't buy a house during the bubble because I knew that I could not afford one. |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #193 |
199. Neither did I and now we are being asked to pay for their over spending n/t |
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sojourner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #199 |
206. who is asking you for anything? fine to give money to bankers, no strings. fine to bail out AIG. but |
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Fla Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
197. The scheme was interest only or low mortgage payments and escalating home prices. |
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Honeycombe8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-28-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
198. Not all those people were duped. I bought a house years ago. I knew what Icould afford. |
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