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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:04 PM Original message |
Sending your child away |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
1. I think it's fine to send children into a wilderness program, but not without |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:09 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. No kid who is self-medicating at home in the cocoon of family and friends |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 01:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
28. I recently read a book ... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Teens who are addicted require very careful planning and handling. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. I'm sure you're right. The family in this story was very supportive. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. The tricky part is that the family has to try to manage moving |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. So glad your son had a good outcome. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I still have one that's out there but that didn't happen for him |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #4 |
41. Back in my day the parents of incorrigible children, who could afford it, sent |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
2. As many parents who have dealt with an addicted teenager know |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I agree |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:17 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. The other piece is: the idea that you can send your kid away to be fixed |
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wordpix (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:27 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. you're right--the whole family needs to be counseled |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:32 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. I did two years worth of rehab with my oldest kid. |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
36. If I could recommend replies |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #36 |
44. When you really know the work involved |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
19. In our son's case, the state intervened when he went joyriding in a stolen car |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:40 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. I can't tell you clearly enough how much I know what you mean. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. rofl just the vision of the 16 year old with the finger.... |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:16 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. just sending them out in the world doesn't always work |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. mayby but at what age would you throw them out into the world |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:35 PM Response to Reply #12 |
14. So, what do you make of extended families that live together for generations |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:38 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. different courses for different horses, we go out into the world |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. I agree. And a teen who is needing chemical enhancement to get it done |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:44 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. thing is we agree to a certain extent. But even if they want to use its part of the growing up |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:14 AM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Agree there, too. As parents, though, we have to figure out |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:18 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. lol your kids sound like me and my sister, she went out got a husband, travelled and came back |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:18 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Isn't putting your minor child out on the street a crime? |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:56 AM Response to Reply #9 |
27. depends where you are i suppose, and the age of majority |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:14 PM Response to Original message |
6. Addiction is one thing, but the parents who have to resort to boot camp for a |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:19 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. This whole tough love bs has gotten completely out of hand. |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
17. apart from some of the excellent suggestions in response to this post, possibly sending the child |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
20. Okay, I'll fess up. I'm a long time DUer with a niece who's had a similar experience. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:15 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. yup i agree with the working the farm thing, i worked in my early teens on a few farms |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:22 PM Response to Reply #20 |
31. Outward Bound is for everyone, |
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Robb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. Outward Bound has been an amazingly good program for a very long time. nt |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:19 AM Response to Original message |
24. Sometimes desperate times call for desperate measure |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
26. Do you know how many teens have DIED at these unregulated "bootcamp" programs? |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
30. These are complicated decisions that I'm thankful I don't have to make. |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:29 PM Response to Original message |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
35. Oh. Dear. God. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Good idea! |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 04:03 PM Response to Reply #35 |
42. I know. I realized parents sent troublesome kids away, didn't realize they paid thugs to |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-22-09 04:08 PM Response to Reply #42 |
43. It's probably the biggest mistake you could make as a parent. |
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