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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-20-09 08:04 PM
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A Heartwarming Story of Courage
The purpose of “Half the Sky – Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide”, by Pulitzer Prize Winning authors Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn, is pretty much self-evident from the subtitle. The authors say in the introduction to their book that their primary areas of emphasis are: sex trafficking and the forced prostitution that accompanies it; gender-based violence against women; and maternal mortality (mortality associated with pregnancy or childbirth).

The United Nations’ International Labour Organization estimates that there are currently about 12.3 million people in the world performing forced labor, including prostitution. Kristoff and WuDunn estimate conservatively that there are at least 3 million women and girls (and a very small number of boys) who could accurately be termed “enslaved in the sex trade” – and numbers have been increasing in recent decades. It can be very difficult to make accurate estimates on these kinds of things, because of their illegal status and because there can be a very fine line between forced and “voluntary” prostitution. The 3 million “enslaved” women and girls refer mostly to those who are kept locked up. In addition, there are many more who are manipulated or intimidated into working for sex, including those who owe their bosses so much money (for “travel expense”, for example) at such high interest rates that they will essentially be forced to work for them until they die. And then there are millions more who are under the age of 18, whose “consent” to work in the sex trade is pretty much morally and legally meaningless.

Education is key to the solution. Uneducated women and girls tend to be much more docile than educated women and girls, because there are many cultures throughout the world that teach them to be docile from the time that they’re born. Formal education can undo that teaching. Sex traffickers greatly prefer to deal with uneducated, docile women and girls, because educated women tend to have the capability, confidence and motivation to make great trouble for them.

In showing how women and girls are abused, Kristoff and WeDunn present a lot of individual examples, based on their research and interviews with the victims. In a section of the book titled “Learning to Speak Up”, they tell the story that is the subject of this post. It is a story of the terrorization of a low class neighborhood in India by a group of thugs, how the women of that neighborhood developed the courage to fight back, and what they did with that courage.


Terror in Kasturba Nagar

Kasturba Nagar is a slum neighborhood in India, composed almost entirely of the lowest caste of Indians, who are referred to as Dalits – Untouchables. The authors describe how a higher-caste man, Akku Yadav, with the help of his “gang of hoodlums”, terrorized the neighborhood for 15 years. They robbed for profit, and they raped, tortured and occasionally murdered in order to keep the population intimidated. Dalits who complained to the police about these things would often be arrested for complaining. The authors give many examples of the terror in the neighborhood. Here is an excerpt:

According to neighbors in the slum, Akku Yadav… took one woman … and tortured her in front of her daughter and several neighbors by cutting off her breasts. Then he sliced her into pieces on the street. One of the neighbors… planned to go to the police, so Akku Yadav butchered him as well… The more barbaric the behavior, the more the population was cowed into acquiescence. Twenty-five families moved away from Kasturba Nagar, but most had no choice. They adjusted by pulling their daughters out of school and keeping them locked up inside their homes.


Developing the courage to fight back

There was one family that was different. The Narayane family considered education to be very important. In a neighborhood where no other person had ever gone to college, the parents saved up money to educate their children, and all five of them graduated from college. Akku Yadav wisely never bothered that family. One of the daughters, Usha, with her university degree managed to move away from Kasturba Nagar, and one day she came back for a visit.

When Akku Yadav raped a 13 year old girl and threatened to kill the Narayane family’s neighbors, Usha went to the police to file a complaint. But all the police did was inform Akku Yadav of Usha’s actions, thus enraging him. The authors describe what Akku Yadav did next:

He (Akku Yadav) and forty of this thugs showed up at the Narayane house and surrounded it. Akku Yadav carried a bottle of acid and shouted through the door “You withdraw the complaint and I won’t harm you”.

Usha barricaded the door and shouted back that she would never give in. Then she frantically telephoned the police. They said that they would come, but they never did. Meanwhile, Akku Yadav was pounding on the door: “I’ll throw acid on your face… If we ever meet you, you don’t know what we’ll do to you. Gang rape is nothing. You can’t imagine what we’ll do to you”…

He and his men tried to batter the door down. So Usha turned on the cylinder of gas the family used for cooking and grabbed a match: “If you break into the house, I’ll light the match and blow us all up”, she shouted wildly. The thugs could smell the gas, and they hesitated. “Back off, or you’ll ge blown up”, Usha shouted again. The attackers stepped back.


The Dalits fight back

Word of the confrontation spread, and neighbors gathered around to watch:

When they saw Usha fighting back… finally forcing the gang to retreat, they found courage. Soon there were a hundred angry Dalits on the street, and they began picking up sticks and stones. “People realized that if he could do this to Usha, there was just no hope”, one neighbor explained. Stones began to fly toward Akku Yadav’s men, who saw the ugly mood and fled. The mood in the slum became giddy. For the first time, the people had won a confrontation. The Dalits marched through the slum, celebrating. Then they went down the street to Akku Yadav’s house and burned it to the ground.

Akku Yadav went to the police, and they arrested him for his own protection. A bail hearing was set. Having no confidence in the legal system after experiencing it for so many years, hundreds of women marched to the courtroom for the hearing, where they found seats. Akku Yadav strutted in, mocking one of the women he had previously raped by shouting at her that he would rape her again. Then, the woman he shouted at:

rushed forward and hit him on the head with a slipper. “This time, either I will kill you, or you will kill me”, she shrieked. At that, the dam burst, apparently by prearrangement. All the women from Kasturba Nagar pressed forward and surrounded Akku Yadav, screaming and shouting. Some threw chili powder in the faces of Akku Yadav and the two police officers guarding him. The police, blinded and overwhelmed, fled at once. Then the women pulled knives from their clothing and began stabbing Akku Yadav.

“Forgive me”, he shouted, in terror now. “Forgive me! I won’t do it again.” The women passed their knives around and kept stabbing him. Each woman had agreed to stab him at least once. Then… the women hacked off Akku Yadav’s penis… By the end, he was mincemeat…

The bloodied women marched triumphantly back to Kasturba Nagar to tell their husbands and fathers that they had destroyed the monster. The slum erupted in celebration… The festivities resembled a giant wedding.

The police arrested Usha as the suspected mastermind behind the plot. But the incident focused public attention on the plight of the Dalits. A retired high court judge publicly sided with the women, saying “In the circumstances they underwent, they were left with no alternative but to finish Akku. The women repeatedly pleaded with the police for their security. But the police failed to protect them.”

To protect Usha, hundreds of women from Kasturba Nagar took responsibility for the killing. Under intense pressure, the police released Usha after two weeks.


Thoughts on the killing of Akku Yadav

I found this story highly inspiring, and even heart warming. So I had to ask myself, as someone who doesn’t believe in vigilante justice or the death penalty, and who hates to watch violence of any kind, how could I feel like that?

My answer is that these women were in a situation of war – through no choice of their own. Their actions were a matter of self defense in the course of war. Vigilante justice is a very bad thing in places where the rule of law exists as an alternative. But there was little or no rule of law in Kasturba Nagar. In such a place, the choices are not between vigilante justice and the rule of law. The choices are between vigilante justice and no justice at all. In other words, the choices are between vigilante justice and submission to tyranny of the worst kind. Their actions were a matter of self defense. In my opinion those actions were every bit as justifiable as those of the leaders of the American Revolutionary War or the German Army officers who plotted unsuccessfully to assassinate Hitler (and paid for that attempt with their lives).

But did their killing have to be so brutal? I believe it did. If a lone assassin had shot Akku Yadav in the head, others would probably arise to take his place and continue the terror. But the manner of the killing was such that Akku Yadav’s thugs would think long and hard before making the decision to take his place.

Though I believe that the majority of my country’s wars have not been justifiable, I am not a pacifist. I believe in the principles of war enunciated by the United Nations – that it is justifiable only in cases of self-defense, or to stop certain types of catastrophes, such as genocide.

This is not just an academic question. Millions of women throughout the world are abused or terrorized to the extent that their lives are a living hell. This demands a solution. Kristof and WuDunn feel much the same way about it as I do. They comment at the end of the chapter that I just described:

The saga of Kasturba Nagar is unsettling, with no easy moral. After years of watching women quietly accept abuse, it is cathartic to see someone like Usha lead a countercharge – even if we’re uncomfortable with the bloody denouement and cannot condone murder. Empowerment… is truly what is needed. The first step toward greater justice is to transform that culture of female docility and subservience, so that women themselves become more assertive and demanding… When a woman does stand up, it’s imperative that outsiders champion her; we also must nurture institutions to protect such people. Sometimes we may even need to provide asylum for those whose lives are in danger. More broadly, the single most important way to encourage women and girls to stand up for their rights is education, and we can do far more to promote universal education in poor countries.

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Sinistrous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-20-09 09:34 PM
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1. Kick. This deserves to be read.
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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-20-09 11:48 PM
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2. Thank you. It is a problem of great magnitude, and receives insufficient publicity.
According to Kristof and WuDunn:

Far more women and girls are shipped into brothels each year in the early twenty-first century than African slaves were shipped into slave plantations each year in the eighteenth or nineteenth centuries... As on slave plantations two centuries ago, there are few practical restraints on slave owners....

While there has been progress in addressing many humanitarian issues in the last few decades, sex slavery has actually worsened...
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bleever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 02:14 AM
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3. How happy to
send this to the Greatest page.

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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 09:04 AM
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4. Thank you bleever -- The life of a sex slave
It occurred to me that maybe I should have said something about what it's like to be a sex slave. Here is an excerpt from the first of many stories the authors provide on that subject:

When Rather was fifteen, her family ran out of money, so she decided to go work as a dishwasher in Thailand to help pay the bills... The job agent took the girls deep into Thailand and then handed them to gangsters who took them... Then thugs sequestered Rath and two other girls inside a lounge that operated as a brothel. One gangster took charge of the girls and explained that he had paid money for them and that they would now be obliged to repay him. "You must find money to pay off the debt, and then I will send you back home", he said...

The boss locked Rather up with a customer, who tried to force her to have sex with him. She fought back, enraging the customer. "So the boss got angry and hit me in the face", she remembers... Then the boss and the other gangsters raped her and beat her with their fists. "You have to serve the cusomers" the boss told her as he punched her. "If not, we will beat you to death"... Rather stopped protesting, but she sobbed and refused to cooperate actively...

When she wasn't drugged, Rath was teary and insufficiently compliant -- she was required to beam happily at all customers -- so the boss said he would waste no more time on her: She would agree to do as he ordered or he would kill her. Rath then gave in. The girls were forced to work in the borothel seven days a week, fifteen hours a day. They were kept naked to make it more difficult for them to run away, and they were forbidden to ask customers to use condoms. They were battered until they smiled constantly and simulated joy a the sight of customers... The girls were never allowed out on the street or paid a penny for their work.
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DemReadingDU Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 11:06 AM
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5. This is so sad

A few years ago, I read some articles Kristof wrote in NYT about the sex trade in foreign countries. Sometimes, a girls family will trade off their daughter to repay debts. Recently, one of the TV shows did a segment on human trafficking, in the United States. I was shocked. These girls and young women rarely have any chance for escape, for a better life. It's all so horrible. Everyone needs more education, and the perpetrators need to be jailed.



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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 03:47 PM
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9. Yes, it certainly is
Another one of the points made in the book is that in many cultures boys are valued much more than girls. So boys receive priority over girls with regard to such essentials as health care, education, and even food. And when a family is desperate for money, as you say, a family will sometimes sell of its daughter(s). So sad.
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BlancheSplanchnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 12:06 PM
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7. ......
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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BlancheSplanchnik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 12:04 PM
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6. Another KnR. This is so important. Especially with the abortion rights debacle
and the heartbreaking example of El Salvador as a caution.

The subjection of women, the docility, the social assumptions that range from the blatant to the ultra-subtle (i.e. "douchebag" wars here; rape-fantasy media; talk-show testosterone (Letterman, whom I love, also frustrates and angers me with his good ol' guy attitudes. As seemingly trivial as that is, it's an expression of the Men are intrinsically cooler, better, more "real", more WORTHY OF CONSIDERATION than Women.)

This lack of consideration of Women as consequential people that results in the lack of attention to this --what should I call it? Gender-cide? Instead, the attitude towards the endless, global violence against women is to ignore the systemic problems, avoid challenging patriarchal thought; instead, what is more "handle-able" I suppose, is to see the whole as individual cases, the titillating ones being worthy of hand-wringing attention.

Aye-yi, there's so much I could ramble about here..... but I'm already rambling, and need to get going.


Thanks again TfC; especially for addressing something SO big, yet so invisible.

This needs to be seen.
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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 02:12 PM
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8. Thank you Blanche -- This problem is indeed largely invisible
How many times have we been told when slavery was abolished -- and yet it continues, with a prevalence as high as ever. From "Half the Sky":

While there has been progress in addressing many humanitarian issues in the last few decades, sex slavery has actually worsened...

A second reason for the growth of trafficking is globalization... Now it is easier and cheaper to set out for a city or a distant country... In rural Moldova, it is possible to drive from village to village and not find a female between the ages of 16 and 30.
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Time for change Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 05:21 PM
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10. From the book jacket::
From two of our most fiercely moral voices, a passionate call to arms against our era's most pervasive human rights violation: the oppression of women and girls in the developing world...

We undertake an odyssey throught Africa and Asia to meet the extraordinary women struggling there... Kristoff and WeDunn depict our world with anger, sadness, clarity, and ultimately, hope.

They show how a little help can transform the lives of women and girls abroad... Through these stories, Kristof and WuDunn help us see that the key to economic progress lies in unleashing women's potential. They make clear how so many people have helped to do just that... Throughout much of the world, the greatest unexploited economic resource is the female half of the population. Countries such as China have prospered precisely because they emancipated women...
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 07:15 PM
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11. K and R...It must be seen.
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northamericancitizen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-21-09 11:55 PM
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12. Kick .
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barbtries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-22-09 01:01 PM
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13. thank you time for change
how easy it is to forget what others are going through - our lives are so cushy in comparison. i thought the caste system had been outlawed in INdia, shows how uninformed i am. apparently it's alive and well and being used atrociously.
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-23-09 01:38 AM
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-23-09 03:37 AM
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15. Kick. Thanks for posting this.
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