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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:09 AM Original message |
Poll question: Is Spanking Of Children Appropriate? |
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melm00se (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. it depends upon the transgression n/t |
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ixion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:11 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. then your answer would be yes |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:11 AM Response to Original message |
2. When the situation warrants it, it is appropriate. (nt) |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
4. No. There are better ways to discipline kids than hitting them and |
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ixion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:14 AM Response to Original message |
5. this whole "no spanking" thing is inappropriate |
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DrDan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:21 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. I don't think anyone would disagree with you about the rudeness of children these days |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:32 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. I never spanked my kid. Not once. His manners were always good |
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ixion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:47 AM Response to Reply #8 |
13. That is so rare these days... |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:26 AM Response to Reply #13 |
19. It's not rare around these parts |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:08 AM Response to Reply #5 |
35. There are ways to enforce boundaries without beating the shit out of someone half your size |
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ixion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:31 AM Response to Reply #35 |
41. and a swat on the butt is NOT "beating the shit" out of someone |
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immoderate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 07:50 PM Response to Reply #5 |
59. You think those rude kids have never been spanked? I wouldn't bet on it. |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
7. I can't think of any instance it would be appropriate. If you must resort to spanking your kid, it |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:47 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Agreed. Well said....nt |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:22 AM Response to Reply #7 |
38. +1 |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
9. yes, with (my) narrow definition of "spanking": |
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Ava83 (61 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:40 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. I was |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:02 AM Response to Reply #24 |
30. Now see, I think you had the totally right idea... |
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Ava83 (61 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:30 AM Response to Reply #30 |
40. Thank you! I am trying |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 12:45 PM Response to Reply #30 |
47. For sure. |
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Bettie (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:41 AM Response to Reply #24 |
42. My 8 year old son is the same way |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
10. When I was a child I thought it was not |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:34 AM Response to Original message |
11. Oh, spanking teaches kids, alright.... |
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AndyA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:10 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. What bullshit. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:46 AM Response to Reply #16 |
26. If spanking really "taught" kids anything, it would only have to be done ONCE |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:00 AM Response to Reply #16 |
29. You're making the same mistake someone above did. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
12. It depends on the kid and the context |
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T Wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
15. The only "excuse" to hit your child is when YOU lose control. And then you damn well better |
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RoadRage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:20 AM Response to Original message |
17. I take the same stance on spanking as I do on abortion.. |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
18. I disagree w/it, and we've never spanked our daughter |
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MyNameGoesHere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
20. If a grownup did some transgression |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:30 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Exactly. And kudos on offering perspective w/ this basis for comparison |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Indeed |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:38 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. Director John Waters refuses friendship, or will end one, if it's discovered they like sports |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:57 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. I already asked this question... |
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Soylent Brice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
25. ... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
27. yeah. if you want to teach your kid that you get frustrated easily & cant handle things in an adult |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
31. My guess is that there is a generational divide in some of the responses |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #31 |
44. Could be...although... |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
32. No. It's an adult's way of saying "I can't handle you except by hitting you." |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #32 |
51. As a grandma, I have developed a "look" that seems to terrify my grandkids when they are |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. Hitting refocuses the dispute and its resolution in a way that is negative. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 07:43 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Of course. You are absolutely right. |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
34. No. n/t |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
36. Spanking just teaches kids that it's O.K. for big people to hit little people. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
37. I'm against the death penalty. |
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dusmcj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
39. only if spanking of parents is appropriate /nt |
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951-Riverside (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
43. Of course The same goes for Women, Elderly and the Disabled, if they step outta line hit 'em |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:51 AM Response to Reply #43 |
45. The really sad/scary thing is... |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #45 |
52. Remember the story here a few weeks ago about the 2 teachers torturing an autistic child? |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
46. Spanking works in the short term and sometimes that is what counts |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
48. Only if you are really really angry and need to release some rage. nt |
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DemocratSinceBirth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
49. Intersting |
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butterfly77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
50. Yes,Yes,Yes... |
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WhollyHeretic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
53. Nope. Not at all. It's a pretty poor parent who has to resort to violence |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
54. Mostly no. But maybe in rare instances spanking is justified. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
56. I think somebody in the thread needs a spanking |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-18-09 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
57. Other. It depends on the definition of "spanking", by whom, etc. eom |
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