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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:32 AM Original message |
Can I get a little advice from my DU friends about a problem? |
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tomm2thumbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:43 AM Response to Original message |
1. an idea |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. I'm near Seattle. Thanks for the thoughtful suggestion. |
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icymist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:03 AM Response to Reply #7 |
14. If you're near Seattle try Seattle Counseling Services. |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:04 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Thanks so much for the referral and help. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:44 AM Response to Original message |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:47 AM Response to Original message |
3. Sorry to hear about your friend. Best I can offer is see what local public health will do |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:50 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Thank you. Good advice. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:50 AM Response to Original message |
4. people here will attack me for this, but if it gets really bad as a last resort call the popo |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:51 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. He's not that bad yet, but I am seeing him start to panic. |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:54 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Don't do that. That'll increase the paranoia and you'll be on the shit list. |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:56 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Well, you may have hit the nail on the head. We both live on an island. |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 05:59 AM Response to Reply #9 |
10. Ah! Does he have friends and family in some place other than the island who can function |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:02 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. No, And that's why I feel so responsible for him. He's been a loner all his life |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:30 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. OK, first of all, you might want to look into attending an Al-Anon meeting or |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:22 PM Response to Reply #17 |
32. So, true. However, it's difficult to be objective when emotions are involved. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:01 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. yeah like you have just told him that if hes a danger to himself or others that its ok |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:33 AM Response to Reply #11 |
19. OP has said nothing about the guy threatening to kill himself or anyone else. You're creating |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:36 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. He's clearly concerned about it and rightly should be. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:37 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. thanks and i have experience of it from dealing with EDP professionally |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:43 AM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Yeah, you're the only one...right.... |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:45 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Fine, and I admit it's a bad place to get such advice. |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:51 AM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Of course one should take action if there are warning signs that the person is edging toward |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:46 AM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Just to be clear. I went back an re-read that subthread |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:42 AM Response to Reply #20 |
24. I'm speaking from personal experience, too. And the friend has expressed no concern over |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:47 AM Response to Reply #24 |
29. See reply 47 is was intended for you not Vadawg. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:36 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. lol seems to me that i advised that if he became a danger to call |
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bluetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:45 AM Response to Reply #21 |
27. No, you advised over-reacting to a non-existant situation which would have lead to an increase |
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tomm2thumbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:02 AM Response to Reply #4 |
12. you make a good point - the police station - they know a lot of available services |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:40 AM Response to Reply #12 |
23. They will probably tell you to call your local hospital ER or call an ambulance for him |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:10 AM Response to Original message |
16. Thanks everyone for your help. I'm going to bed now and sleep on it. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:33 AM Response to Original message |
18. Seaattle has 211 coverage |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:24 PM Response to Reply #18 |
33. Thanks, that really helps. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
31. Note to members: please do not offer medical advice in this thread |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Nov-09-09 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
34. Thanks to everybody for their thoughtful advice. It was very helpful. |
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tomm2thumbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 05:43 AM Response to Original message |
35. Continued good thoughts your way - you are a good friend. |
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