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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:41 PM Original message |
What are my fellow DU parents feeling right now? |
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mike_c (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
1. then you have lost.... |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:45 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. I didn't say I was going to lock him up in a padded room for the rest of his life |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. If I had small kids today, I'd be googling "padded rooms" |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:53 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. Yeah |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:54 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Crossing everything. |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:55 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Thanks. Me, too. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. There was a moment for me, too, when I realized that my kids |
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AverageJoe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:03 PM Response to Reply #8 |
38. The moment came for me about a year and a half ago |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #38 |
50. my heart's pounding just reading your story |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:17 PM Response to Reply #50 |
54. Omg. It's just like that. I literally thought, "the world REALLY has me now." |
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Atman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:17 PM Response to Reply #1 |
53. I agree...my sister-in-law has become paralyzed with fear for her children. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
2. Well this may or may not make you feel better |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:46 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. That's actually some good subtle humor. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
3. I called my son. He's at work but I wanted to hear his voice. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
6. I feel sorrow for those involved, and for all of us when we realize pain can happen to us. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm feeling... |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. . |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. Can we cut the quasi-9-11 crap, please? |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. . |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Hey, you asked. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:52 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. Have you seen this thread by H2O Man? |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:54 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. I saw it. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:57 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. I think the deal is, people don't actively make community much |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Ah. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:05 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. It's true that there have always been acts of awful violence. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:57 PM Response to Reply #13 |
31. If we accept this as routine |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. People have all kinds of reactions to these events. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:02 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. It's not routine, it's isolated. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:36 PM Response to Reply #35 |
61. Which is why it's shocking |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
10. Mr. Ourblue went by the house and hugged our college student son. |
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ElizabethDC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
11. Well, I'm a college student |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:49 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. She's a Mom, what do you expect? |
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ElizabethDC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:58 PM Response to Reply #12 |
32. Thanks! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:10 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. My mom was super over-protective, too. Once she made a guy |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
16. I have a freshman and a junior in high school |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
17. My daughter is in her second year at college |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
18. I feel like tethering them all to me ... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
23. Please read this and reconsider: |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
25. The world can be a scary place |
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bluethruandthru (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
27. I know three kids who attend Virginia Tech. |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:56 PM Response to Original message |
28. Very sad as there are going to be some very devastated people who |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
30. Probably the same thing our parents felt when they saw the news about Kent State |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
36. Unfortunately, the violence is present long before college. |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:03 PM Response to Original message |
37. it takes courage to be a parent |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
39. I have one child in college and one leaving in the fall |
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FightingIrish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
41. My son is in his second year of college far from home. |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 05:03 PM Response to Reply #41 |
71. I am so sorry. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 05:08 PM Response to Reply #41 |
72. Oh, that is truly horrible |
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FightingIrish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 06:26 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. Miracles do happen |
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northofdenali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 01:29 AM Response to Reply #41 |
75. What a brave young man - |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
42. Not a parent here. This just goes on my list of reasons I'm glad I don't raise children |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Ask any one of the parents of the kids who died |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:13 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Huh? I didn't say anything about parents or anything they think or feel |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:15 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. What about your neighbors' kids or your friends' kids? |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
43. Sick |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
46. Sadness and empathy. I have a son in college. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
47. Sick to my stomach until about 1 hour ago. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:19 PM Response to Reply #47 |
55. Like trying to reach ANYONE in this family right after Loma Prieta. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:26 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. We have. Thanks. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:36 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. It's unspeakable. |
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marlakay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
49. Just had fight with husband over guns |
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Rosa Luxemburg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
52. a lot of Iraqi parents are also thinking that too |
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T Wolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
56. As the father of a CWRU alumna who graduated days after the shooting |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
58. I have a son in college, and am about to send my daughter off |
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Bake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
59. On 9/11, my daughter was in NYC in school |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:57 PM Response to Reply #59 |
63. It's the job. It doesn't get easier, you just get used to living with it. |
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deutsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
62. It reminds me just how fragile the supposedly safe family enclave I've made |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
64. I so relate to this thread ... |
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Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
65. We have no idea as to the intent, don't let this scare you about college. |
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Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
66. I sent my son out of state to college at 16. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
67. Feeling sad for the kids but |
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mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
68. My son is a college sophomore |
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Norrin Radd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
69. Fear is an instinct. It helps keep you and yours safe. |
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redwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Apr-16-07 04:46 PM Response to Original message |
70. My oldest goes to college in a city. |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 01:07 AM Response to Original message |
74. it's okay--he won't be all alone. he'll always have you. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 03:22 AM Response to Original message |
76. College kids are more likely to die of drinking contests freshman year... |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 03:29 AM Response to Original message |
77. Not so very well. |
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Tiggeroshii (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 03:54 AM Response to Original message |
78. The only way to live your life is to take these risks. |
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pecwae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 06:17 AM Response to Original message |
79. Having lost my son |
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babydollhead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 06:26 AM Response to Reply #79 |
80. I'm sorry about your loss of your son. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 06:58 AM Response to Original message |
81. my first son was born 10 days after okl city bombing. we live just over 3 hours away |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-17-07 07:53 AM Response to Original message |
82. Heartbroken for all those parents who lost their hearts yesterday. |
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