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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:11 PM Original message |
Tethered to mother at college |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
1. Creepiness factor? on a scale of 1 to 10?.. 23 |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
76. Well, he came from college just the other day |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:52 PM Response to Reply #76 |
98. Good song..not applicable in our family though |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
2. When I was in college in the mid-80's I called home only once per week. |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #2 |
16. When I was in college I called home once a semester to get more money. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:50 PM Response to Reply #2 |
33. I couldn't do that - |
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RT Atlanta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
3. Long distance used to cost a fortune! |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
4. The cellphone, email, and texting make connecting easier. I see kids calling their parents daily. |
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medeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
5. have sons and it's totally different |
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Old and In the Way (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #5 |
23. Same here. |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
6. I know a college junior who has always sent his papers home to his father, |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
59. When e-mail came around I had my mom edit some of my stuff |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #59 |
65. What will happen when you are in the real world |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #65 |
100. I am in the real world |
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Mariana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 08:10 AM Response to Reply #100 |
108. Having a mentor is a good thing. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #108 |
143. Thanks! |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #65 |
120. The real world? Where other people read and comment on your work? |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:06 AM Response to Reply #120 |
123. Peers. Spouse |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
7. This strikes me as very odd... the author seems to assume |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:39 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I don't think so. But it used to be that leaving home at around age of 18 |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. It seems to me that that is mostly recent history. |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Once again, I'll say that this attitude is not applicable to every culture. |
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snort (132 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #17 |
81. I agree with you. |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. No, the author is only talking about those who DO go off to college. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Well yes, of course... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:08 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Bad boundaries. |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:54 PM Response to Reply #15 |
89. There IS something wrong with kids who take |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #89 |
131. Unless the parents are trying for the same job! |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #131 |
142. Oh Lord, are you joking? LOL |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:45 AM Response to Reply #15 |
116. closely connected meaning talking on the phone every 3 hours? |
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present and past (42 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #7 |
35. Writer Forgot About The Recession. |
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northzax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. nobody is turning down an Ivy because of 200 miles of transportation costs |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #35 |
47. No kidding. n/t |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:27 PM Response to Reply #35 |
52. The article is just poorly written all the way around. Sexist, too. |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:39 PM Response to Reply #35 |
66. What's that got to do with the story? |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:53 PM Response to Reply #7 |
88. The community college kids do it, too. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 09:20 AM Response to Reply #88 |
113. And I'm sure it happens with kids who aren't in college at all. |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:56 AM Response to Reply #113 |
118. Because the story was about college kids |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:00 AM Response to Reply #118 |
122. Yes, but the issue is over-dependence on parents. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #113 |
132. This kind of thing is showing up in the office and even in the military. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
9. The only time I ever called home during college was when I had a call girl... |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
11. It's pathetic. These kids can't stand on their own 2 feet. But it is |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
68. "Going back to college," or just avoiding the empty nest? |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #68 |
117. Then if they do have the "empty nest" some become hoarders... |
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carlyhippy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
12. I talk to my kid more than once a week |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #12 |
21. My grown up, working aunts and uncles used to talk to my grandma |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
14. And then when they get into the real "work" world they constantly |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #14 |
20. I completely forgot about it, but some years back |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. my parents gave me good life advice and helped me a lot that way |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:54 PM Response to Reply #27 |
69. We give a lot of advice these days for people on how to hande a job interview |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:43 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Part of my job at one time with the magazines was to "keep an eye |
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TwixVoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:54 PM Response to Reply #28 |
36. We had interns at Target stores |
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TwixVoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:50 PM Response to Reply #20 |
32. WTF? Payments? |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
63. Did not want to elaborate too much |
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JANdad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 11:52 PM Response to Reply #63 |
101. How far did he have to travel? |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:59 AM Response to Reply #101 |
121. I don't remember. Across a state line |
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latebloomer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
34. what kind of payments? |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #34 |
64. See 63, above (nt) |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
61. oh gawd, do I ever know the type |
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jmowreader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
78. That "working in groups" thing just drives me fucking NUTS!!! |
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Creena (501 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
18. I'm extraordinary close to my mom. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
19. Depends on the person |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:20 PM Response to Original message |
24. Back in college |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:58 PM Response to Reply #24 |
72. There is a difference between calling for help once |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 08:10 AM Response to Reply #72 |
107. I agree. n/t |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
25. You should start pushing your kids towards independence |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I completely agree |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #25 |
31. The human brain doesn't even mature until the mid-20s. n/t |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. It never matures if it's never given the oppurtunity to |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Well, no. The human brain matures at about the mid 20s. |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. And that is not what is going on here |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:21 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. That is your cultural bias and one shared, apparently, by the author of this article. n/t |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. Also true |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. That's true... |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:37 AM Response to Reply #50 |
114. I think the college bit |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:25 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Actually, the idea that an adolescent needs to make all his/her decisions alone |
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JonQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:40 AM Response to Reply #51 |
115. No one said they have to make all decisions |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:14 AM Response to Reply #31 |
125. Gee, Mozart was dead at 36 |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 01:44 PM Response to Reply #125 |
133. By the time I was 22, I had two sons and had been working fulltime |
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litlady (360 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
29. I have seen this with some of my students. |
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Creena (501 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. Holy Moly! |
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TwixVoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
30. Part of this is JOBS |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:21 PM Original message |
that is true |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:54 PM Response to Original message |
38. My parents got upset when I called collect. They told me to write. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
39. Hmmm... |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
41. Who is to judge? Well, perhaps, how about ... a Judge. |
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litlady (360 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. I saw a bit of spoonfeeding even in grad school... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. My best friend found out in grad school that she had an undiagnosed |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #41 |
56. This article presumes that merely talking to your parents means you |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:03 PM Response to Reply #56 |
92. Every two hours? |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 03:18 PM Response to Reply #92 |
139. No way |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #139 |
141. Any college student that has to talk to Mom every two hours |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:01 PM Response to Reply #41 |
91. Funny, when I was that age there was no "didn't make enough |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #41 |
127. And then, if they cannot find a job |
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ladywnch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
53. I had my own phone in my dorm room at college. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 05:56 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Calling home once a week is a good family building habit. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
55. I don't know, maybe late 1960s - 1970s America was an unusual |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
75. There is nothing wrong with talking with parents, and uncles, and grandparents |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 03:24 PM Response to Reply #75 |
140. You know what it could be from |
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jesus_of_suburbia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
57. Their business. nt |
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TwixVoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 06:35 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. So when they want mommy to sit in an employment interview with them |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
60. It's weird how things work sometimes |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
62. students calling for advice is fine - parents meeting/calling me (prof) without student is very bad |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #62 |
67. You get that too? |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 10:58 AM Response to Reply #67 |
119. Yes, and I say much the same thing regarding student privacy. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
70. I've dropped off kids at college five times before with no problems. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 07:56 PM Response to Original message |
71. I honestly thought this was going to be a thread about mothers taking their young kids |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
73. Kind of ridiculous. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:54 PM Response to Reply #73 |
99. Exactly. 18 is not some magic number at which someone immediately |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
74. Motherboy? |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:06 PM Response to Reply #74 |
93. Upon her knee... so proud to be.... |
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Regret My New Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
77. "I can't accept that salary offer until I talk to my parents," |
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YoungAndOutraged (107 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
79. So adults even talking to their parents is taboo in America now? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #79 |
83. Exactly. |
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rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 04:19 AM Response to Reply #79 |
105. Exactly |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:31 AM Response to Reply #79 |
128. You must have difficulties with understanding what you read |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
80. In what way is it "normal" to go to college and leave your parents? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 09:10 AM Response to Reply #80 |
111. Exactly... this article is just horribly written. |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:41 AM Response to Reply #80 |
129. But this story IS about college kids |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
82. How does talking to a mother on a phone makes someone |
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PA Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:36 PM Response to Original message |
84. Oh no. This mom just got off the phone with her son at college. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:38 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. I don't see anything wrong with proofreading a paper |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 12:14 AM Response to Reply #85 |
103. College students should be able to proofread their own papers |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 12:19 AM Response to Reply #103 |
104. Even professional writers have editors. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 01:45 PM Response to Reply #103 |
134. This college Eng teacher has as many people proof her work as possible. |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 02:14 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. I agree proofing papers is essential but just not sure parents should do it |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 02:20 PM Response to Reply #136 |
137. Sure. The most important survival skill college kids learn that first year |
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AwakeAtLast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
86. I think this behavior is fostered early in primary school |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:07 PM Response to Reply #86 |
94. Unfortunately that isn't the case today. Lots and lots |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
87. EWWWW are you kidding??? They bring their |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
90. I talk to my Mom every day, I am 33. She is my best friend. In college, |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
95. Ugh, the over-protected kids have grown up... |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
96. Lack of Independence |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
97. I was a latchkey kid by the time I was 9. |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-31-09 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
102. Have to work for a happy medium... |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 05:50 AM Response to Original message |
106. Job related |
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question everything (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 02:54 PM Response to Reply #106 |
138. This is creepy |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 08:21 AM Response to Original message |
109. my wife would call my son 3-4 times a week when he was away last year |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
110. This article is hitting home. On Friday I took my oldest son to his new college. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #110 |
135. I got a dog. A big dog. |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 07:23 AM Response to Reply #135 |
148. lol! I still have my big puppy here, my youngest son. :) A big dog would |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
112. A lot of this is due to the economy IMO... |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:10 AM Response to Reply #112 |
124. This has been going on for at least a decade. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #124 |
130. I may be extrapolating from the UK... |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 03:38 AM Response to Reply #130 |
144. ah, I see. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-01-09 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
126. I called home every Sunday evening when I was out in Chicago |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 03:49 AM Response to Reply #126 |
145. My mom handed out advice like cake at a wedding |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 04:36 AM Response to Original message |
146. when I left to go into the Air Force my mum never even said goodbye |
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VOX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 06:16 AM Response to Original message |
147. My stepson is 24, still in college, has never worked a job, and his mom pays his cell phone bill... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-02-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #147 |
149. Are you guys sure there isn't something else going on? |
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