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I was sitting in the airport in OKC recently when a couple of soldiers off to (re)deployment sat down near me. A couple of other people struck up conversation with them, doing the whole "we support the troops" thing, and they were gracious, but obviously not entirely impressed except by the guy with the Vietnam ribbon on his hat. That guy kept their attention and said a lot of things they needed and seemed to want to hear, but this other guy, a gung-ho idiot who had quite clearly never served a day just as obviously got on their nerves.
At some point that "other guy" said something along the lines of "The problem is that the damn media never shows the good ..." The soldiers froze -- it was at this point I realized or at least suspected they'd been deployed before, something I later confirmed -- and one turned to face the guy. He asked, "The good? What 'good' would that be?" The guy of course had no answer, but he rambled on just the same. The Vietnam vet was obviously amused in a pissed-off way about this exchange. Eventually one of the soldiers just got up and walked away while the remaining one sat there and tried to engage the guy with the pipe-dream about all the good going on in Iraq. He eventually just said, "You have no idea what is happening over there, and I think you should shut up" then walked away to join his comrade at the magazine rack.
Of course "the guy" never got it, but what happened was an appropriate response and the only one that can really be given ... truth mixed with contempt of those who refuse to see it. You can't change people who refuse to see the truth or create their own as a substitute for reality. Don't try. It's pointless. You're better off at a magazine rack.
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