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Tim01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 05:53 PM
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Anti-gay bashing.
Just thought I would relay a story I thought you all could appreciate.

I was in D.C. last night at about 10:00 looking for a parking place near downtown.
A guy stepped out into the road and seemed pretty drunk, jumped right out in front of my car,twice. So, I became concerned about the neighborhood where I would be parking my car. I slowed down and studied the locals for a moment. Much to my surprise there was a group of young guys ,maybe 7, walking down the street. And some of these guys were kissing each other. I thought,"this area just can't be that bad, can it?". I would "guess" that if the area was that rough that these guys would have trouble. It seems like a reasonable guess to me. Maybe a bad guess, I don't know.
Well after I got parked I saw these 2 guys running down the middle of the street. Not very athletic,dressed in street clothes, and the one guy was very big, so they drew a lot of attention. They got to a dodge car that was trying to get out of a parking space. There was lots of yelling and the big guy had his head and arms inside the driver side of the dodge. It was a weird scene.
Eventually the dodge went on it's way and the 2 guys went back to hanging out with some friends in front of a store or something. And I went on my way.
As I was walking I passed some guys and I heard one of them chuckling and saying "I'll bet he keeps his mouth shut about the queers next time."
HA! I had to suppress a laugh. I had already seen they meant business and I had no desire to piss them off even by accident.
I love it when jerks get what they deserve. Score one for the good guys.
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Eric J in MN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 05:56 PM
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1. You don't have the right to punch someone for calling you a name. NT
NT
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Tim01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 05:58 PM
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2. I think it was Aristotle who said pain is the best teacher.
I'm guessing the jerk learned something.
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 06:00 PM
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3. That doesn't necessarily make it right.
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backscatter712 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:58 PM
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12. No, but it's damned fun!
:evilgrin:
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:58 PM
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13. Yes, Let's Weep For The Poor Abused Straight Guy Riding Around the Gayborhood Yelling "Queer!"
I see where your compassion lies.
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 04:54 PM
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17. You are a black and white soul in a grey world.
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:32 PM
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18. I Am a Gay Person In a Straight World
I have no sympathy for straight people who seek out gay people to harass, and who are then beaten. In fact, it gives me a little tingle of joy whenever I hear about it. And I have no patience for anyone who doesn't get that.

Keep your ignorant-ass, bigoted brethren from harassing gay people, and they won't get their asses beat.
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:56 PM
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21. Here here - speaking as a Gay Man from Experience...
it's about time THEY got a LESSON...
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:19 PM
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23. hmmm... I indeed have little sympathy for bigots.
But that doesn't mean I wish harm on them or take joy from watching harm fall upon them.

I'm all fine with pointing and laughing at the gay bashing morons. But why stoop to their level of childishness? What does that accomplish?

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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:33 PM
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29. There's Nothing Childish About Gay-Bashing - Verbal or Otherwise.
Gay bashers try to make us ALL afraid. They try to intimidate ALL gay people when they randomly select a target to physically or verbally abuse. It is not "stooping to their level" to respond with physical force. It is a statement that their efforts have FAILED, that we will NOT be intimidated or victimized. And it is a warning to anyone who would prey on gay people.

When gay people start going around insulting and beating straight people just because they're straight, you can decide what's an appropriate reaction. Until then, WE'LL decide. Thank you.
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backscatter712 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 11:14 PM
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30. Oh, I wish harm on bigots. And I absolutely take joy from seeing revenge wrought upon them.
Edited on Sun Jul-26-09 11:17 PM by backscatter712
OK, so I'm no Gandhi.

But am I the only one who would take joy in seeing a KKK cross burning - after a Grand Dragon was nailed to that cross first?

Am I the only one who would tie gay bashers to a fence in the middle of fucking nowhere and leave the bigoted fucks to die?

Am I the only one who dreams of a Final Solution to the anti-semitic question?

I'm sorry, I absolutely hate bigotry. Makes my blood boil. I would absolutely reflect their hatred and violence back upon them!
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:43 AM
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7. there is a columbian proverb
"one learns best with blood"
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 03:00 PM
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15. I agree.
:thumbsup:
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 06:09 PM
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5. Maybe I missed something
I did't see any reference to anyone getting punched, it looks like there was just an exchange of words?? :shrug:
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:56 PM
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11. ANYBODY Who Yells Anti-Gay Slurs At Gay People Deserves What They Get.
I'll start weeping for Breeders who get punched in the face for yelling "Queer!" when they stop killing gay people.

You can waste your sympathy on whomever you choose.
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TankLV Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:55 PM
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20. You do when they're INTIMIDATING and THREATENING you...
GOOD for the Gay Guys!!!

Totally support their "teaching the bastard a lesson he'll hopefully NEVER forget"!!!
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:16 PM
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22. No, but in this case, I've heard no evil, seen no evil and will speak no evil.
And even if I had, I'm fine with it.
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Touchdown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 11:17 PM
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31. Spare the rod... you know the rest.
;)
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 11:32 PM
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33. .
:nopity:
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Tim01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jul-25-09 06:05 PM
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4. You can say it's not right if you want.
It's effective. And probably the only thing that a homophobe prick will respond to. That is a net gain.

Right enough for me.
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WVRICK13 Donating Member (930 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 08:07 AM
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8. We Don't Know
the entire story. Did the homophones merely spew verbal abuse or did they get physical? Did the supposed gay men get physical or verbal?

I will tell you a story about walking home one night about fifteen years ago with my partner (we are still a couple). It was after midnight and our route took us by a rough red neck bar. Some loud red necks were standing in front of the bar and we merely walked by when all of the sudden one of the men physically attacked my partner. At that point my partner gave him one punch to the jaw that broke his jaw then proceeded to kick the shit out of him, yelling "you want to fuck with a sissy come on." The other men split in a hurry. BTW, my partner was in a dress, heels and make up coming from a halloween party. Moral of the story is do not mess with a 6"3" 220 pound ex football player in a dress.
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 01:26 PM
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9. ...
:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:22 PM
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10. I can relate a similar story
Edited on Sun Jul-26-09 02:23 PM by mitchtv
It happened on a Sat, nite on 18th and Castro. The phobes mad a big mistake to come into the ghetto on sat night to pick on fairies. My young boyfriend proceeded to kick the shit out of one, while the crowd cheered and kept the others at bay, How humiliating when Jimmie asked the scumbag how it felt to have his ass kicked by a fag. Moral: come into a ghetto looking for trouble, you might find more than you bargained for.( they weren't attacking us , by the way, they were bothering a "slighter" couple)
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Toasterlad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 02:59 PM
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14. Good for Youse!
Proud of you guys for standing up for your community.
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 03:13 PM
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16. in all modesty it was BF
Edited on Sun Jul-26-09 03:14 PM by mitchtv
who did the ass whipping. a real good one too!
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Tim01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:15 PM
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28. Not everybody is built for fighting.
So you were not born big and aggressive. Does that give moral superiority to a guy who was born big and aggressive? I don't think so.
Is a super model superior because of how she was born? No.
People are what they are. I am just a bit small, but a bit extra strong and aggressive, so I get by.
We are what we are.

Kudos to your boyfriend. And to you for your choice in guys.


Shitheads will continue to stomp people until somebody stomps them back. Not right, but accurate none the less.
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Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:38 PM
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19. I cannot really understand what you are trying to say.
:shrug:
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Tim01 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:24 PM
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24. I have no patience for people who pick on other people for sport.
No patience for guys who lure, then beat up and rob gays for fun and profit.


Maybe I am a bad person for celebrating when the bully gets his ass handed to him for a change, I can live with that.
And really, there are some people who are only deterred by violence. I think it would do the gay community good to dish out some of what they have been getting for such a very long time.

"Hey, Tony lets go fuck with some fags."
"I'm not going to go and piss off a bunch of fags,they don't fuck around, they'll put you in the hospital.Dumbass"
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Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:10 PM
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27. Oh okay I get you now.
Thanks.
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Leo The Cleo Donating Member (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:24 PM
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25. That Was A Sad Story
It was sad for all involved. We shouldn't live in a world where this is where things have to go. Maybe. if there were a bit more decency and respect for others, we wouldn't have to see or hear about these scenarios. I think there needs to be a learning lessen from this.
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:31 PM
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26. Obviously some jackass thought he could pick on queers and get away with it.
No doubt thinking about stereotypes (effeminate, limp wristed, drag queen, yada yada yada).

This type of ignorant coward wouldn't go into Harlem (for example) and yell out "Hey Niggers" or into East LA and shout out "Move back to Mexico you fuckin Beaners" because he knows he would get his ass beat.

Now he knows the same thing will happen if he shouts out homophobic shit in a gay neighborhood.

Bigots are cowards. Some of them literally hide under bedsheets, even while screaming their dumb slogans of "white power". Others seek out those weaker than them to make "an example" out of. They deserve whatever beatdowns they get for doing so.
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and-justice-for-all Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 11:28 PM
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32. This reminds me of a story...
Edited on Sun Jul-26-09 11:28 PM by and-justice-for-all
back in the day, like mid 90s, we all would congregate in the park to hang out. We were all under age and that was the only Gay socializing we had; so we spent a lot of time there and we would often get blown some shit..

Well, one evening myself and a few others were chatting it up in the park. This truck of dirty and his scank were driving around yelling shit at us and one of my friends just had enough. So as the truck comes around for another pass, my friends takes the ball bat he had out of his car and smashes the fuck out of their front window, which he did as the drove by. It was priceless!

Sometimes, enough is enough and action is required.
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