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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:50 AM Original message |
getting old in a culture that looks down on old people |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
1. Yeah, I just turned the big Five Oh. Wear it proudly. nt |
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villager (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:57 AM Original message |
hey -- so did I. 'Bout a week ago.... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
14. So, all the cool kids are turning fifty about now. nt |
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kitty1 (772 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #14 |
36. This cool cat turned 50 last Dec. ...... |
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hamsterjill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #36 |
82. Me, too! |
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dmr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 01:00 AM Response to Reply #14 |
64. Nah, the cool kids started a few years ago. You're just catching up! |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 06:27 AM Response to Reply #14 |
70. Yeah, like MJ and Billy Mays. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 06:38 AM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Well, yeah, I couldn't help but notice that. But, Barbie and I are going strong! |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 08:01 AM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Hang in there! |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
51. 50 is fun to celebrate. 51 sucks. Especially after all those deaths last week, |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 08:59 AM Response to Reply #51 |
85. Those deaths ALL took place ON my birthday! |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
2. Women have a bizarre experience in their 50s |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:57 AM Response to Reply #2 |
8. I always hoped we would culturally evolve |
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SDuderstadt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:23 PM Response to Reply #2 |
24. I'm sorry... |
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SteveM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #24 |
37. Teens don't giggle at you? I turned 61 and they giggle all the time |
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csziggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #2 |
30. The local Obama campaign showed people that they should not ignore women over 50 |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 09:44 PM Response to Reply #30 |
45. Older women are THE backbone of grunt work in all campaigns. Dems and Rs. nt |
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dmallind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #2 |
32. Really? |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:02 AM Response to Reply #32 |
54. you really think dating is harder for women over 50 than men over 50? |
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dmallind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #54 |
81. Well yes I do - not from hard data I confess |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. if that's the case, then I'd say there aren't many 50+ men dating |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:23 AM Response to Reply #54 |
90. Who in the HELL wants to date anymore??? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 08:40 PM Response to Reply #2 |
43. speak for yourself! |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
50. You know... |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
62. The most interesting stories come out of women between fifty and eighty, IMO. |
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Delphinus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 06:26 AM Response to Reply #2 |
69. Ooh, I do hope you're wrong. |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 07:43 AM Response to Reply #2 |
74. it is time that we refused to accept American-style Purdah |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:33 PM Response to Reply #74 |
79. Hot damn, Cap! |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #79 |
84. We are women, here us roar! |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:17 AM Response to Reply #2 |
89. Ummmmm....no.... |
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madmax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
3. Turning 60 in August |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
4. I'll be in my very late 60s in July, but mentally am looking forward to |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
5. I wonder... |
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DearAbby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
6. No so bad as before |
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CrispyQ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:11 PM Response to Reply #6 |
18. Dear Abby, |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:53 AM Response to Reply #6 |
63. Thirty? Someone told me it was the new forty! nt |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
7. Ageism stinks. And then look around and see who supports ageist people. |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #7 |
28. yeah, but getting old stinks worse! |
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DavidDvorkin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
9. Oh, to be 50 again! |
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. or even 70. Since 77 isn't as old as it used to be. 80 isn't as scary as it used to be. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I have to say, I feel older at 56 than my mother's 83 year old boyfriend |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 09:55 PM Response to Reply #13 |
46. sure beats the alternative, huh? |
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 04:25 AM Response to Reply #46 |
65. LMAO there is that too. But it's not that bad. I've been there before and I'm not afraid to go back. |
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
10. 77 isn't as old as it used to be! |
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RebelOne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:47 PM Response to Reply #10 |
31. Nope. I'm 70 now and 77 is looking pretty good if I make it. |
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democracy1st (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 04:32 AM Response to Reply #31 |
66. wow thats great |
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Ganja Ninja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
11. This culture looks down on anybody that doesn't have money |
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:10 PM Response to Reply #11 |
25. Such is the culture of greed we call capitalism to lend legitimacy to sin. |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #25 |
35. Read my sig line. :) nt |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #11 |
41. I think you have it... |
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David__77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
12. 50 is the new 30. |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:12 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. I am! |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #12 |
34. Tell that to my knees. |
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DearAbby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 08:11 PM Response to Reply #12 |
42. OH ...JESUS HOLD ME BACK! |
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DeschutesRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:50 PM Response to Reply #42 |
53. Depressed as I am, sitting here with a damned sprained ankle at 51, |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:16 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. You too? I fell down a wet staircase two Sundays ago and sprained my |
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DeschutesRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:45 AM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Oh no, yours sounds really bad! |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:00 AM Response to Reply #12 |
86. And we're in better shape. nt |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
15. Honestly I've gotten the impression that this culture looks down on *everyone* |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:15 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. equal-opportunity contempt. i think you may be right. n/t |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:04 AM Response to Reply #15 |
56. good point |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
16. Other cultures revere the elderly as having given them their opportunity by |
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scheming daemons (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
20. Shut up, grandpa! |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
22. It's corporate culture "values," nothing inherent in the human condition |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
23. They treat you like shit in the large cities. If you move to |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:13 PM Response to Original message |
26. well, Im getting old and this culture can kiss my ass |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
40. good! |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 08:07 AM Response to Reply #26 |
78. Hear, Hear! |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
27. What do you see in our cultures as "looking down on old people" |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
29. my sister age62 |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
33. It's a trade-off. |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
38. "Old age isn't for sissies." - Bette Davis. On the other hand, it beats working for a living. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
39. Fifty is not as old as it used to be |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:14 PM Response to Reply #39 |
48. for some reason |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:06 AM Response to Reply #39 |
57. yeah and the 35 yr. olds are just falling all over themselves to be with them, right? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
44. I've always looked up you old farts. |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 06:42 AM Response to Reply #44 |
73. I could tell you some stories about Woodstock |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:27 AM Response to Reply #73 |
91. So could I if... |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'll be 60 in November. I still kick ass, & I intend to keep on kicking ass until I kick the bucket. |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 11:23 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. will be 58 in Oct, |
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democracy1st (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 04:33 AM Response to Reply #47 |
67. good for you! |
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pipoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-30-09 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
49. I work in a retirement community, |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:19 AM Response to Reply #49 |
59. Can't agree with you more. My mom and one of my good friends are both |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
55. a society full of aged baby-boomers won't be looking down on old people. |
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MADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:47 AM Response to Original message |
61. You'll get over it. Remember, you're as young as ya feel. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 05:10 AM Response to Original message |
68. 62 in August. I went from a '60's revolutionary to |
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Fla_Democrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 06:36 AM Response to Original message |
71. Yep |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 07:50 AM Response to Original message |
75. My parents are more fun now... |
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Vickers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
77. I turn 45 this year, and I'm prettier than ever. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jul-01-09 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
80. VEDDY INTERESTING. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
87. I love the references to Susan Boyle being "old." She's younger than Madonna and young enough to |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 09:15 AM Response to Reply #87 |
88. She's "old" in the sense of when she started her career. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 10:09 AM Response to Reply #88 |
92. Yes, true. nt |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-02-09 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
93. TV Culture looks down on old people.... |
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