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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:06 PM
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The prop 8 mess has shown the risk of civil unions
We clearly lost the recent decison entirely because of the fact California has domestic partnerships that are supposedly equivalent to marriage. We might well have lost prop 8 in the first place because of the existance of those partnerships. On the plus side couples in California got some rights slightly earlier than they would have had those partnerships not passed. But in return we got a delay in marriage rights that will likely be the better part of a decade. That is one of the huge reasons I don't support the idea of civil unions. It is hard to see how civil unions don't delay gay marriage. It makes it easier to state that we have all the rights so why are we asking for the name. That was the theme of the ads for the pro prop 8 forces. Then the court used the exact same reasoning to uphold prop 8. Civil unions are not a cost free compromise. They delay, possibly forever. That is a huge lesson of prop 8.
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Ian David Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:11 PM
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1. Just make EVERYONE- gay or straight- get Civil Unions. Problem solved in 10 minutes. n/t
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TreasonousBastard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:43 PM
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2. That's pretty much my solution.
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:52 PM
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4. Then the "marriage" people cry. I say make everyone get "civil marriages."
Yes, it is a word game, but all this shit is a word game.

The real key is the RIGHTS, and for the rights to be equal for all, they can't be separate. And a civil marriage should be a civil right! What people do after they jump through that hoop is up to them and their favored religious institution.

If people choose to get a religious marriage after they have a civil marriage, well, good for them. And the churches are free to decide who they marry religiously, if they'd like.
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DBoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:19 PM
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13. the state doesn't record or regulate baptisms
why should it officially record any other religious ceremony?
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 11:03 PM
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15. Well, there's the whole issue of delegation. It's not the "ceremony" that controls so much as the
state issuing the license and designating a person to perform the ceremony. The ceremony can be religious--or not. There's no rule that requires it to be religious, see?

By nature, baptisms are solely religious (they're "join the club" exercises)--marriages aren't. They are a contract and the state confers benefits on people who enter into that contract.

In my state, and others, your brother, your mother, your father, pretty much anyone can apply to the state and get a permit to "do" the wedding and act as the "pastor" or "rabbi" or "justice of the peace" or whatever. It's not just limited to religious people or judges or other officials in many municipalities.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:48 PM
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3. You could be right. Is there evidence to support that view, as opposed (say) to the
Edited on Thu May-28-09 09:48 PM by struggle4progress
possibility that progressive California was complacent and outspent, or the theory sometimes popular here that it's all Obama's fault?
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:52 PM
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5. We actually outspent the other side
though our money came in later. I don't know if we were able to spend all the money we raised.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:04 PM
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10. I wouldn't know. My addition to this discussion will be the observations that (1) there are
no magic bullets; (2) what sways the public may not be what sways you or me, and one one doesn't know what sways the public without actually engaging them; (3) constant pressure pays off; and (4) it's really useful to have an actual political analysis -- that identifies who matters locally and what the current breakdown in Congress is

Hope everything has been working out okay on the job for you :toast:
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:12 PM
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12. thanks
it has been a little bit stressful but I am OK.
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:54 PM
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6. I've never seen anybody say
"It's all Obama's fault". The closest I've seen is people saying that Obama's words about marriage being between a man and a woman were used in robocalls and print ads and it worked to pull in Yes votes.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:57 PM
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8. Fair enough. But that could have been countered easily by using the letter he wrote:
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:06 PM
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11. Not really.
Edited on Thu May-28-09 10:07 PM by Starry Messenger
The RW used Obama's own voice in the robocalls stating that marriage was between a man and a woman. The decision was made (right or wrong) that an actor reading from Obama's letter would not have the impact necessary to counteract that effect.

http://news.lavenderliberal.com/2008/11/05/its-over-the-mormons-won/


scroll down to play the sound file.
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ShadowLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 09:56 PM
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7. I disagree, those who oppose gay marriage would vote for prop h8 anyway
People aren't going to suddenly stop supporting gay marriage just because of gays getting civil unions with equal rights as marriage under state law.

I think that civil unions are a step in the right direction that can make gay marriage an easier battle to win through the legislature after a few years pass. I think civil unions help erode opposition to gay marriage, and show people that if civil unions for gays weren't the scary horrible things conservatives predicted that gay marriage won't be the scary horrible things they predict either.

If you take a look at the states that gave gays civil unions you'll also see that many of them have either given gays the right to marry already (Vermont, Connecticut), or are considering doing so right now (New Jersey, New Hampshire).
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:02 PM
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9. The court decision specificly mentioned the civil unions as why they upheld
prop 8. If there weren't those unions they would have ruled that prop 8 was a revision of the constitution. We also had to override a veto in Vermont that was issued due to the existance of civil unions.
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LooseWilly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 10:26 PM
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14. Yours is an intriguing theory... almost counter-intuitive.
Edited on Thu May-28-09 10:36 PM by LooseWilly
In the case of Prop 8, what I've read of the court brief suggests that you're right. And what you say of Vermont also smacks of truth.

That said, I'm curious... are you arguing that the LGBT community should not accept Civil Union proposals?... Are you arguing for all or nothing?

As far as the California issue, in hindsight, mostly-recognition did hamstring full recognition... but do you feel comfortable arguing for no rights until LGBT couples can get full rights?

I'm just asking. I have no opinion one way or the other. I am all for the LGBT community deciding this point of strategy for themselves... which is why I'm asking if the community overall, as you see it, feels comfortable going without any semblance of marriage rights until they have full rights?

Edit to add: In case I wasn't clear... I fully and unabashedly believe that full same sex marriage rights ought to be the law of the land. I am just trying to clarify your opinion, dsc, as to whether the LGBT community would be better served by refusing to accept half measures, or by taking whatever "civil union" legal right half-measures might be offered by various states as a half-just, stop-gap measure, given the possibility that the half-measure might, in the long run, prove detrimental to full equality...
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:32 AM
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18. Honestly it is a tough call
in retrospect it was a bad idea in California but might have been OK in Vermont and New Hampshire. I just think there is a definite risk with civil unions and that needs to be honestly assessed. I would be very wary of them on the federal level as that may wind up being all we would ever get.
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-28-09 11:04 PM
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16. The existence of civil unions
was one of the fundamental reasons the California Supreme Court made it's marriage equality rule a year ago, the one that Prop H8 was filed to defeat.

I'd sure like to see the blame for this placed where it belongs, with the voters of what many of us considered to be one of the country's most progressive states.

If Massachusetts had gone for civil unions in 2003, we might not have had a large number of anti-equality amendments added to state constitutions the next year. The only thing that's going to get them removed in the near future is a Supreme Court ruling that they violate the Federal Constitution, and I wouldn't count on that with the current makeup of the Court, even with Sotomayor.

Civil unions prove to nervous straight people that the sky really will not fall if same-sex couples are accorded a measure of official respect and dignity. That's how it all happened in Vermont, and may well happen in New Jersey, as well.
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 12:43 AM
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17. Massachusetts is to blame for granting full equality? I do not follow that argument.
That's kinda like "Shhhhhhhh...don't make 'em MAD!!!!!"
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:47 AM
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22. If you look at the history of anti-equality state constitutional amendments
you see that they started in far off Alaska and Hawaii, as those states' supreme courts were preparing to examine the issue of marriage equality. Fundamentalists in both places managed to get anti-equality amendments in place before their courts could decide in favor of equality.

When Massachusetts achieved marriage equality as the result of a state high court action, the anti-equality movement went into high gear. Even though the US Congress had passed the DOMA, fundamentalists were able to use fear to get amendments on the ballots in many states the year after the MA court made it's ruling. As we recall, many of these forms of ballot-box prejudice happened to be side-by-side with the Presidential race, and the resulting turnout of ignorant fearful voters may well have helped Bush win a second term, or at least enlarge his popular vote margin in a year he should have done much worse. I know that many here have disagreed with me, but I think the presence of this issue was pivotal in Ohio. If Bush had received less votes there, we would have seen President Kerry.

If the Massachusetts court had found that domestic partnership or civil union were the remedy for the situation, it would have caused far less of a backlash, as those two institutions are not "transportable" across state lines, like marriage is. That's where the fundies got their ammunition. The fear of other state courts deciding as MA has done was the chief weapon of those who would institutionalize prejudice. It also would have been less "threatening" if it had been a vote of the people or the legislature that established marriage equality, those in red states could simply reason, "Well, we're not like the folks over in Blue State, we wouldn't do something like that." But a state supreme court is a mysterious institution, and the fundies used the fear of "the black robed tyrants could do it here if you don't stop them!" as their most effective means of attack.

You can argue that it would have been cowardly to have been satisfied with these statuses that are simply marriage by a lesser name, but by taking the bold approach, we now have thirty state constitutions stained with bigotry that is not likely to go away by the normal electoral process. Constitutions are tough to amend (besides CA, of course) in most places, it takes a LOT of courage for a politician in a flyover state to propose or support something that the voters of one of those states approved just a mere decade or two ago.

Many of these amendments went all the way, and prohibited any recognition of a same-sex relationship in any form, foreclosing the option of either civil union or domestic partnership for the citizens of those particular states. I'm of the view that some equality is better than no equality, but there are those here who disagree with me.

The bottom line is that we now have 60% of the states with constitutions stained by ignorance, fear and prejudice, and very recently, which are being strictly enforced. Overturning them is not going to be as easy as it was for the US Supreme Court to have overturned bans on interracial marriage as it did in Loving vs. Virginia in 1967. Those ugly laws were not part of any state constitutions, they were from a century ago in the wake of the Civil War, and they were spottily enforced.

We're also going to have to wait for a Supreme Court that is conducive to the idea of marriage equality, and I don't see that happening as long as Scalia, Thomas, Roberts, Alito, and Kennedy are on the bench, and they might stay there for most of the next fifteen or twenty years. If one of them is replaced by a GOP administration, we can extend that timeline out even more.

We also have a case currently hurtling toward that Court at high speed, the one just filed this week by Ted Olson and David Boies. Rather than making it's central argument the concept of full faith and credit (for instance, an Iowa same-sex married couple moves to Illinois, and demands that IL recognize the validity of the IA marriage), it will rest on the idea that California's Prop H8 denied a basic Federal Constitutional right to it's citizens. While the truth of that might be completely obvious to you and me, it strikes many people in this country as being somewhat novel.

The five Justices I named above have a nasty habit of donning their three-cornered hats when examining original intent of the Constitution, and if they try to make guesses about what the Founding Fathers would have thought of same-sex marriage, we all know where that's going to go. I foresee a precedent that may last for another generation, way beyond the five Justices and their possible GOP-picked successors. Please recall that it took seventeen years from Bowers vs. Hardwick, that established that legal bans on oral and anal sex were enforceable on gay people, but not on straight people, till we got to Lawrence vs. Texas, which erased that obviously artificial distinction. The history of straight marriage=OK and same-sex marriage=not OK goes back far further than tolerance of non-procreative sexual behaviors.

If the bluest of the states had started out with civil unions and/or domestic partnerships, we would have a large number of people seeing that the sky would not fall, nor the seas boil, nor anything but committed loving relationships would result from extending a form of legal recognition of same-sex couples. Some "purple" states might even have allowed forms of this, had the fundies not been able to threaten them, and we would have in about ten or twenty years, a general acquiescence in most of the population for a live-and-let-live stance on equal marriage.

I know that many people like to use the "separate but equal is not equal" argument here, but each marriage is what the couple within it make it. With schools, clearly history has show us that black children got the worst schools when it was left up to white school authorities to allocate resources, but I don't see how that is relevant to couples who make their own livelihoods, and provide their own resources.

We're fighting over a name, and we've seen that for some irrational reason, the other side is able to use that struggle effectively against us, even in a progressive state such as California. I'm convinced that actual equality is more important than the appearance of equality. Reviewing the recent history of anti-equality legislation, we may have taken one step forward with Massachusetts, but we've taken thirty backwards.
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MADem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 01:43 PM
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25. Thank you so much for explaining your rationale in depth as you did.
Edited on Fri May-29-09 01:58 PM by MADem
It sure beats a "Fuck you! You don't get it!! You'll never understand!!!" which is the quality of argument I have been getting on this board over this matter. I find it an important societal topic, and I just don't get the "If you're not in the club, STFU" quality of arguments. They don't advance the ball down the field. Your discussion, OTOH, is a breath of fresh air, simply because you postulate your thesis reasonably.

I do have to challenge some of your arguments, though--I suppose it's more of a difference of perspective, than anything else. It's like Massachusetts, when they finally came to the abolitionist viewpoint, saying "Well, we don't want to buck the slavery bandwagon totally, so we'll maintain that 'involuntary indentured servitude' is OK, instead." I don't think that would have appropriately advanced the human rights argument for those still in slavery, or motivated them to seek freedom in the north. It could have changed the entire quality of the abolitionist movement.

Also, for the courts to deny marriage equality in MA, it would have invalidated a very fundamental (I hate using that word nowadays) aspect of the state constitution, and that is that here in MA, we don't "do" the "second class citizen" thing. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, and all that.

Sometimes, you just have to throw down, get into a big scrum, and get knocked around, and then push back. Sometimes, things worth having are worth a hard--and sometimes VERY long-- fight. If Frederick Douglass or MLK could see Barack Obama doing his thing, they might be surprised at how long it took. That wouldn't stop them from being pleased that it finally happened. "Better late than never" is a genuine attitude. Unfortunately, it's butting up against "I want it NOW." And the "NOW" group may well be disappointed, and have to wait, as you noted.

We are STILL waiting for an Equal Rights Amendment in this country--it's only been, what, eighty five or six years? That's certainly a long fought fight, and it's not over yet. Congress still restricts the opportunities of women on account of their gender--and that's just not right, either. I wonder if we'll see a female President so long as women aren't afforded equal opportunity or responsibility under the law of the land.

You'd think some of these states, with their faltering economies, when considering the marriage question, would take note of the $111 million that MA earned as a consequence of opening up the state to out-of-state marriage tourists: http://repositories.cdlib.org/uclalaw/williams/badgett_24/

You'd also think these states would have a look at the social impact of the measure on MA when considering it for their own states--the sky hasn't fallen, the crops haven't failed, it's "all good" and "Big Whoop" as they say. For those that avail themselves of marriage equality in my state, well, good for them! Other than that, it's "So what?"

Also, if you ask around these DU parts, that "What's in a name?" question is taken VERY seriously. "Separate but Equal" isn't regarded as Equal. It's a sticking point that causes a great deal of anger, angst and agita, and the "second best" argument isn't going to fly.

I've always been in favor of a thing called "civil marriage." Not "union," not "partnership," but that big old "M" word. If the people who are religious want to have a religious marriage ceremony, why, they can knock themselves out and go do that, if they'd like. Then, they can run around flapping their hands and telling themselves that their "M" is somehow better than Joe and Fred's, or Mary-n-Sue's "M."

I am concerned with the Boies-TeddyO business, too. I know that they're famous lawyers, and they're supposed to be ethical and so forth, but I can't shake the idea that this is their version of "ALI v. FRAZIER"--a "Thrilla in Manila" type exercise with a purpose that serves more to advance THEIR OWN public profile than aid an Equality cause. I don't necessarily buy the Conspiracy Theory argument that "they're in it to fail" that some are shopping, but that could be the unintended consequences of it.

Also, because of precedent and other issues, they might not get so far. It all depends on whether or not the former Solicitor General of the US has any pull with the docket, I guess. It also could depend on a bit of (shoddy) Supremes precedent.

Like this law prof said over at PHB: http://www.pamshouseblend.com/diary/11185/olson-and-boies-go-on-media-rounds-to-discuss-the-federal-marriage-lawsuit

In a case called Baker v. Nelson, the Minnesota courts had denied a marriage equality claim by a gay couple. The case was appealed to the Supreme Court of the United States, which responded by dismissing the appeal "for want of a substantial federal question." This is a type of action that the Court uses only infrequently -- even a lot of lawyers have not heard of it. What it basically means is that the Supreme Court dismissed the appeal without issuing any written opinion, expressing the view that there was no serious federal or constitutional issue to be decided -- in other words, it said that it could dismiss without even issuing a written opinion because the claim on appeal did not have enough merit to warrant a full explanation.
This kind of dismissal is binding on the lower federal courts. (It is not binding on state courts, though some choose to follow it anyway.) .... the Supreme Court has also said, on several occasions and very forcefully, that lower federal courts are not permitted to disregard binding Supreme Court precedent simply because there have been intervening changes in the Court's own cases that undermine the original decision. Rather, the Supreme Court has said that it is the Court's job, not the job of lower federal courts, to say when an earlier Supreme Court precedent has been effectively overruled by subsequent developments.

What does all of this mean for the Olson / Boies lawsuit? Insofar as their lawsuit argues that marriage equality for everyone is required under the U.S. Constitution, there is a strong argument that the lower federal courts should simply dismiss and decline to hear the case because they are bound by Baker v. Nelson. If that happens, then the Supreme Court itself is the only one that could overrule its earlier precedent and actually decide the case on the merits.

This is an important fact to understand for a number of reasons. First, as a simple matter of predicting what will happen, it's entirely possible that the Olson / Boies lawsuit will be dismissed very quickly by the lower federal courts. Second, it reinforces the point made by the LGBT groups about the importance of laying a solid groundwork before we get our one shot at litigating this issue before the Supreme Court (and, realistically, we will likely get only one shot). Baker v. Nelson prevents the lower federal courts from engaging in the ordinary process of wrestling with a contentious issue in a series of cases before the Supreme Court finally weighs in. It is therefore all the more important to develop a solid foundation of precedent in the state courts, because we may not have the opportunity to do that in the federal courts. And, with all due respect to Olson and Boies and despite my whole-hearted agreement that we should not have to wait to enjoy the rights that we deserve, the fact is that the Civil Rights Movement was the most strategic, careful and patient litigation effort that this country had ever seen, waiting decades to bring the school desegregation and anti-miscegenation cases until they knew that they had laid a sufficient groundwork to achieve a victory before the Supreme Court. I am thrilled at the outrage that these two men feel on our behalf and I welcome their input and their efforts. But they do need to learn their history.

Two more quick points. This kind of "dismissal for want of a substantial federal question" is not a good way to decide cases, and there is a strong argument that it should always be construed narrowly. So, for example, in the challenge to the federal portions of DOMA that GLAD has brought in Massachusetts federal court, Baker v. Nelson should not pose any obstacle. GLAD is raising a very different kind of claim -- that the federal government can't discriminate against couples who have already been validly married by their home state. The lower federal courts are free to decide that issue on its merits.

By the same token, if Olson and Boies had brought a much narrower challenge to Proposition 8 -- if they had argued that the particular sequence of events in California raised a unique constitutional problem because Prop 8 took marriage away from a group of people who already enjoyed equal rights under state law -- then matters would be different. Baker v. Nelson probably would not control a more carefully drafted lawsuit like that, and the dangers associated with such a lawsuit might be somewhat more contained (though there would still be serious questions about whether it represents the right approach). There are hints of that more narrow argument in the Olson / Boies complaint, but only hints -- in the end, they do not make the more careful argument but instead just go for broke.


At the end of the day, I guess we'll just have to wait-n-see.
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 07:09 PM
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27. You're very welcome for your kind remarks
As you might be able to tell, I've done quite a bit of thinking about this. We want the same goals, we just find there are different approaches to it. In either case, what's done is done, and we have to figure out how to make the best of it.

To compare civil union/domestic partnership to a euphemism for slavery (I take it that's where you're going with the 'involuntary indentured servitude' thing) is in error. There is indeed a very real recognition at the state level of CU/DP, and people have been granted rights as a result. I'm one of the beneficiaries of this, my lady and I work for the same company (different divisions, across state lines, but same corporation) and I get better benefits, cheaper, because of being considered her domestic partner than I would if I got benefits from my part-time job with the same firm. I can only imagine that dozens of other folks in same-sex relationships are benefiting from their companies recognizing their same-gender committed relationships with this company. And it's not even required by NY, but in states that have adopted the CU/DP model, they have to as a matter of law.

I can appreciate the "second class citizen" argument, but when you consider that the alternative is the "no class citizen", then you start to see where I'm coming from. In many states that have allowed bigotry to stain their constitutions, there are only straight people allowed to marry, and those whose relationships will never be officially recognized, until the Supreme Court is of the composition needed to enforce equality. Again, I say, where CU/DP are the law, there really is an equality to marriage in the way that the state treats couples. It's at the Federal level where discrimination is still the official policy, when dealing with either CU/DP states, full marriage equality states, or prohibitionist ones. It's better to ride in the middle of the bus than the back of the bus, and it's way better than being thrown under the bus. To me, that's what seeing a state constitutional amendment prohibiting equal marriage would feel like.

I certainly understand that "full freedom, now!" is the ideal. I'm with you on that all the way. But I'm cognizant of the fact that the very first time civil rights have broadly been put to a vote of the people (with all their fears and ignorance) is in the case of equal marriage. What worked for black freedom and women's liberation is not going to be as successful as something that is forced to the ballot box. While I truly wish with all my heart that enlightened state legislatures would see that marriage equality is the civil rights struggle of our day, the fact is that faceless people in anonymous polling booths have been able to decide the freedom rights of a long oppressed minority. This necessarily calls for different tactics and strategy, unfortunately.

I share your vision of an Equal Rights Amendment, but I ask you to see how true equal rights for women has come about without the frontal attack that many would perceive a full ERA to have been. Women are everywhere in our society, so are gay and lesbian people. What would liberate them is a coming out, so that everyone could see where they are. It's been shown that people who say they know gay people are less prejudiced than those who say they don't. It's my contention that those who say they don't know any gay people are those who gay people are too smart to come out to. That may save them a bit of hassle, but at some point, everyone in America needs to know that they indeed know some gay and lesbian folks. Let them have a week or two to be confused by it all, but after that, we begin to make progress on equality.

I also share your thoughts on civil marriage. The US government does not register baptisms, first communions, or confirmations in any particular church, it seems odd that marriage is the exception. But there is a societal benefit in granting a favored status to the committed, they build stability in a nation. I just hope that my fellow citizens all recognize that stability in same-sex relationships benefits society in the same way that opposite sex stability does.

I do hope that the Federal case being brought by Olson and Boies has positive consequences, but everything I know tells me otherwise. This is the wrong case at the wrong time, and Lambda Legal agrees with me. I sincerely hope that those who bring this action will stop after they have gone through the first level of the Federal courts, no matter what the result. We need a more favorable environment to bring equality into being, and unfortunately, we're not there yet.

Logical persuasion will get us much farther than a bludgeon, although I do understand how much more satisfying it is to use the bludgeon.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:34 AM
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19. that is just baldly false
Both decisions discussed civil unions and in the first one, they dismissed them as unequal since marriage is such a loaded term. The second one stated that the difference wasn't great enough to make the amendment a revision.
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:51 AM
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23. And the one thing that intervened between
the two decisions: a vote of the people of one of the most progressive states in the country, joining the wave of hate that has swept this land ever since court-ordered marriage equality asserted itself over a gradualist approach.

To me, that seems more fundamental to their decision than any interpretation of what the newly-minted institutions of domestic partnership or civil union means. There is simply no precident or history behind those two marriage substitutes, and it didn't surprise me that the CA court struggled to interpret what they mean.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 04:58 AM
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20. I think that's true now- in some states.
in VT, for instance, I'm convinced that CUs paved the way for legislative passage of marriage equality. And I always have to ask myself if, in a state like NE, for instance, civil unions wouldn't be better than nothing. I don't know. I do know that CUs aren't equal to marriage and are a second class solution. But, I don't think you're right about the rationale of the CA SC in upholding prop 8. As I understand it, the Court upheld the constitutionality of the ballot initiative process and that the judgment was unrelated to the CU/marriage issue.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 05:13 AM
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21. the court made it crystal clear that the fact that civil unions
had all the rights of marriage is why that prop 8 was an amendment and not a revision. They repeatedly stated that the prop was a minor change due to the fact that it didn't take away any rights.
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Statistical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 01:53 PM
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26. Here it is
In analyzing the constitutional challenges presently before us, we first explain that the provision added to the California Constitution by Proposition 8, when considered in light of the majority opinion in the Marriage Cases, supra, 43 Cal.4th 757 (which preceded the adoption of Proposition 8), properly must be understood as having a considerably narrower scope and more limited effect than suggested by petitioners in the cases before us. Contrary to petitioners’ assertion, Proposition 8 does not entirely repeal or abrogate the aspect of a same-sex couple’s state constitutional right of privacy and due process that was analyzed in the majority opinion in the Marriage Cases — that is, the constitutional right of same-sex couples to “choose one’s life partner and enter with that person into a committed, officially recognized, and protected family relationship that enjoys all of the constitutionally based incidents of marriage” (Marriage Cases, supra, 43 Cal.4th at p. 829). Nor does Proposition 8 fundamentally alter the meaning and substance of state constitutional equal protection principles as articulated in that opinion. Instead, the measure carves out a narrow and limited exception to these state constitutional rights, reserving the official designation of the term “marriage” for the union of opposite-sex couples as a matter of state constitutional law, but leaving undisturbed all of the other extremely significant substantive aspects of a same-sex couple’s state constitutional right to establish an officially recognized and protected family relationship and the guarantee of equal protection of the laws.


So civil unions Prop8 would be unconstitutional.
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Strong Atheist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-29-09 08:52 AM
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24. Now is the time:
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