Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Just met some woman who will have all 3 sons in Iraq & she's so proud.

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU
 
kerry-is-my-prez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:08 PM
Original message
Just met some woman who will have all 3 sons in Iraq & she's so proud.
gag! Her poor 17 year old son is signed up to go and she was acting proud and happy about it. "He's following in his brother and the rest of the families footsteps."

My friend said "oh-oh Jane this woman is a Republican and likes Bush."

The lady interjected "I'm from a military family so I like Bush. They're fighting for our country."

I told her they were supposedly fighting for Iraq and not for us.

I found out later that this woman is really religious and "Has faith that everything will be ok." We'll see how she feels a few years from now when they're killed or they come home to no benefits, etc. Of course, people like that are so blind I guess she'll never see that they are just being used as little pawns in Dumbya's little war.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:12 PM
Response to Original message
1. What is the total number of kids of cabinet members and WH staff in Iraq? nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:14 PM
Response to Original message
2. What's with that "military family" crap?
I've heard that onee before, like it's code for crazy repugs or something. :shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:18 AM
Response to Reply #2
9. It's not crap...
I come from a military family. We were a military family when hubby and I both were in the army.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:24 AM
Response to Reply #9
14. Let me rephrase.
How come the only time I've heard it was from RW DUH-bya worshippers who think we needed to go to Iraq because of the WTC and Pentagon bombings?

I know what "military family" is supposed to mean. :eyes:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:25 AM
Response to Reply #14
17. I know what you meant n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:18 PM
Response to Original message
3. What's the problem?
Her sons volunteered to serve, and she is proud of them.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't, eh? Brainwashed or chickenhawks with no personal investment seems to be the only two choices according to some.

Sorry, but this woman is absolutely entitled to be proud of her kids and their choice. Not your place nor mine to bash that family for putting their money where their mouths are, so to speak.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:17 AM
Response to Reply #3
8. I agree...
I wish we had only volunteers in the Middle East.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
kerry-is-my-prez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:23 AM
Response to Reply #3
11. I think it's sad that a naive 17 year old kid is being "pushed" into it.
Edited on Sat Jan-27-07 12:31 AM by kerry-is-my-prez
and for a war that makes no sense. In addition - for a mother to be grinning and happy her kids are in a very dangerous place. If I were a mother with kids there I would be terrified instead of getting off on how they were all some tough guys.

To me it was just surreal that this woman was all happy and smiling while her kids are in danger.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:22 AM
Response to Reply #11
13. How do you know the 17 yr old was "pushed"?
You also mention that the mother is "getting off" on her sons being "tough guys."

Did you ever consider that her family respects service to this country, and she is proud of her family, no "getting off" or "tough guys" involved, unless that is your general opinion of all service members and their families.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:26 AM
Response to Reply #13
18. "... service to this country..." ??????????????
The asswipes in charge have commandeered the military to do their bidding in a hostile oilfield takeover.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:35 AM
Response to Reply #18
24. To be clear
All service members serve to secure oil for this nation, according to you?

Is that your opinion of OUR troops, or is there a misunderstanding here?

On your last point, some definitive sources for "a hostile oilfield takeover" would only serve to bolster your point and would be welcome.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Leopolds Ghost Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:37 AM
Response to Reply #24
35. Do you really need sources to convince you Iraq is an illegal war about oil? n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madeline_con Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:17 PM
Response to Reply #24
40. "... or is there a misunderstanding here?"
Obviously.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:31 AM
Response to Reply #13
20. I don't know if the kid was pressured or not...
I sure couldn't have been pressured to do much of anything when I was 17. I am glad this mother
is proud. It will make it easier for her to bear if one or more of her sons doesn't make it home alive.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:39 AM
Response to Reply #20
26. Are we liberals--I hope so
Are you arguing that a 17 year old can't have convictions (right or wrong)?

My argument is that this 17 year old made his own decision. Who says he was pressured?

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:40 AM
Response to Reply #26
27. No...where did you get that from my post?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:51 AM
Response to Reply #27
31. Fair enough n/t
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bigmack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:42 AM
Response to Reply #11
28. I agree...I wouldn't even let my kid
have a motorcycle.... too damn dangerous. Going into the military? I told him I'd shoot his big toe off first. I intend to be the last veteran in this family. I didn't raise cannon fodder for the corporations.


This woman needs to read Gen. Smedley Butler's "War is a Racket". She is waaaay too happy to send her kids into harm's way. I think it's some kind of "reflected glory" thing. Her brave boys are going off to war... and all that shit. If one of them gets aced, then she can play the "grieving mom".

How about her going off to war? Have you seen the ages of some of the people getting clipped over there? Mom would fit right in.

Can we invent a new term?... Chickenhawk mom? Willing to send anybody but herself off to war?



Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:53 AM
Response to Reply #28
32. Unreal
And one of the most disgraceful posts ever on DU.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Bigmack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 11:16 PM
Response to Reply #32
41. How so? Mom's are sacred? Military is sacred? What? nt
nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
quiet.american Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:38 PM
Response to Original message
4. Sad.

People who are oftentimes the salt of the earth put their trust in a sociopath who looks down on them with pursed lips and a smirk that says "suckers."
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
yankeeinlouisiana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-26-07 11:58 PM
Response to Original message
5. I guess she never saw "Saving Private
Ryan". I'm sure that mom was proud too, until those military guys showed up on her doorstep.

:-(
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:13 AM
Response to Original message
6. May she soon be with her lord
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:15 AM
Response to Reply #6
7. And He asks why she didn't fight against this war
and, instead, sacrificed her sons for an immoral war.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jazzjunkysue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:19 AM
Response to Original message
10. Someone thank her for keeping the price of gas for my SUV low.
Who cares if her kids are killed or maimed or psychologically ruined? I need my gas.

All that talk about depleated uranium is just librul bunk to aid and comfort the terrorists.

I should know: I watch Fox news.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
madrchsod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 12:24 AM
Response to Original message
12. i overheard a conversation the other day
with a guy who was in gw1 talking to a woman who`s son is going over there. he told her he believed in the gw1 but this war should have never happened. he told his nephew not to join the army cause he won`t be able to spend that 20,000 dollars..the woman did`t say a word...i think she is very, very worried
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
calimary Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:33 AM
Response to Reply #12
21. I heard Stephanie Miller say Dr. Laura Schlessinger's only child,
Deryk, is set to ship out in - what is it now? About a week? Evidently she was on the Pox Noise Channel and said so. Stephanie Miller said Dr. Laura seemed worried and kind of tight-lipped when the other people on the air with her wished her and her son luck.

Hell, I want the war stopped PERIOD. I don't want my kids going over there. I don't want Dr. Laura's kid going over there. I don't want the fundie wackos' kids going over there. I don't want ANYBODY'S kids going over there. I want everybody brought HOME. Preferably not on a stretcher or in a body bag. Oh, EXCUSE ME! A "transfer tube."
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
TheBaldyMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:35 AM
Response to Reply #21
25. amen to that - nobody should be over there, bring them all home now
the sooner congress pulls the plug on the funding the sooner they will all be back home.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
upi402 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:24 AM
Response to Original message
15. god help the brainwashed
i'm done trying
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Horse with no Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:24 AM
Response to Original message
16. I'm not going to ridicule anyone who serves their country
even if their reasoning is misguided.
I pray that they will all be returned home safely.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Nikki Stone1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:27 AM
Response to Reply #16
19. I'm with you, Horse with no Name.
I admire those who serve but detest the administration that is currently sending them there. I'm worried for this woman that she has the potential to lose three of her kids in this debacle.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:33 AM
Response to Reply #16
22. To support our military we need to bring them home...
away from this ungoldy war.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Horse with no Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 02:32 AM
Response to Reply #22
34. Amen
But unfortunately too many people aren't smart enough to turn the channel away from the propaganda and can't separate the truth from the fiction.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Truthiness Inspector Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:47 AM
Response to Reply #16
30. Care to elaborate?
And I mean precisely, on point. What is misguided about safe-keeping our asses, to keep us free? Somehow I feel like it's unpopular to recognize that it is our military that ensures our safety, and by extension our freedoms. Unpopular? Apparently. True? Let's see a counter-argument.

I do agree with you that I hope our troops return safely.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Horse with no Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 02:30 AM
Response to Reply #30
33. I say misguided because this woman
sounds like someone who watches Faux Snooze 24-7 and probably still believes that Saddam and Osama had a relationship, that there were WMD and that we are there to spread democracy.
Being in Iraq has NOTHING to do with safekeeping our asses or keeping us "free".. It has to do with safekeeping our oil that happens to be under their land and attempting to secure that oil for the corporate bedfellows of our administration. If anything, our occupation of Iraq deters the freedoms that well-meaning citizens joined to defend. (See Patriot Act).
Please don't patronize me about what our military does...and does not do.
I have several family members serving currently and I am well aware of the sacrifice.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
12string Donating Member (443 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 11:35 AM
Response to Reply #30
38. truthiness
you are a very twisted,misguided soul.How can spawning
millions of America haters(rightfully so)as a result of this
illegal war of aggression,possibly make us safer.Just in case
you haven't noticed,we have been losing those freedoms you
mention at an alarming rate since we "liberated" the
Iraqi people.What planet are you inhabiting.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Qanisqineq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:34 AM
Response to Original message
23. so I am supposed to like Bush b/c I'm married to a soldier?
me thinks not
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SanCristobal Donating Member (303 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 01:43 AM
Response to Original message
29. WOW. What a fucked up disgusting thread.
How about "I hope her kids come home alright, and we can make sure they get the benefits vets deserve".
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 08:53 AM
Response to Reply #29
37. Well, it is now
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Leopolds Ghost Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 04:43 AM
Response to Original message
36. I hope they come home safely, but probably WON'T come home without killing another mother's child.
Edited on Sat Jan-27-07 04:47 AM by Leopolds Ghost
as footsoldiers in an immoral war.

Wars of Agression are wrong.

They will be balancing their word of honor -- promise to serve --
against their immortal soul -- or their mortal soul, for those
of you who don't believe in an afterlife.

Unfortunately, many, perhaps most modern soldiers do not merely
view their commitment to fight as a promise to serve their
country, but as a worshipful attitude towards flag and state --
a form of idolatry that conflates patriotism with religious belief.

That said, the soldier's code of honor, which goes back to
pre-Christian Anglo-Saxon days here in the West, is that they
are damned if they don't. They promised to fight, and they
must fight to fulfill their promise, even if it is immoral.

Many societies value promises (and prowess in battle) above
the sanctity of life itself.

That is certainly one possible view of the world.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-27-07 11:45 AM
Response to Original message
39. I met a woman whose son is headed back again and she is scared & proud
Proud because they are a military family, her husband was retired military, grandfather, etc. She is proud that her son chose to go into the military as this is an honorable thing for her. She is scared because he has been in Iraq already and is going back again in this escalation and has already seen changes in him that she thinks are negative. She voted for Mr.bush and is a republican, but is very much against the occupation of Iraq. She feels stuck in a hard place because she is afraid to speak out against the occupation because this would be not supporting her son's boss, but really really hates how her son is being used.

I was suprised because I thought she was a bush-bot until we talked more. So far I've given her lnfo on getting together with VFP local guys.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Sat May 04th 2024, 03:16 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » Archives » General Discussion (1/22-2007 thru 12/14/2010) Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC