http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_topic&forum=389&topic_id=4427900The thread above was posted in November and has already been archived else I would have bumped it instead of starting a new one but you people, either out of genuine ignorance (of the "Oh, I didn't know that before. Now I'm more educated than I was a moment ago." type) or thinly-veiled bigotry (they know who they are, please refrain from pointing them out), you people keep trying to say marriage is between one man and one woman and always has been and that marriage is a religious term/institution.
*sigh*
Again, anthropologists know this is so much fucking bullshit, have said it is so much fucking bullshit, and yet you keep peddling so much fucking bullshit. Stop it. Stop it right fucking now. Rick Warren (Oh noes, hez mentioned againz!) said that marriage has been defined as being between one man and one woman for 5,000 years. For those of you that bother reading the thread I've linked to above, you'll come to know from the OP and several responses that:
"What we as Americans understand as "traditional marriage" in the United States is only about 200 years old.
Polygamy (polyandry is the reverse, one wife taking several husbands) was the norm up to Roman times and remains practiced in several cultures.
The Romans "systematized marriage by establishing an age of consent and specifying unions across socio-economic classes."
The Church (now the Roman Catholic Church) pushed monogamy, but it still took centuries to take.
Marriage was first and foremost an economic arrangement, secondly about children, finally about love.
The ancient Greeks and later both the Catholic and Eastern Orthodox performed a few of what may be considered "gay marriages" in the Middle Ages.
Today, some societies still have "gay marriages" as part of their traditions, handed down through many generations over the centuries and millennium.
That Amerindians have had gay marriage in their cultures long before Europeans ventured out of the Old World."
We are not Freepers. We have facts and history with which to back ourselves up with, and yet many of you out there keep peddling the Freeper version of reality, from the bullshit about there being only one definition (one man and one woman) to the bullshit about marriage being strictly a religious term (no, it most certainly fucking is not). Civil Unions or whatever other fucking thing you want to call them have no place in intelligent discussion, especially not if you've bothered reading this far and have thus expanded your knowledge of the term. Marriage is a secular term, it is the proper term, it is NOT the property of ANY religious institution, it is a legal/economic term. If people of faith wish to TACK ON religious ceremony, they are free to do so, but marriage remains a secular term. And if anyone one of you out there persists in falsely claiming that marriage IS a religious term alone, please explain to my parents and millions of couples like them how their marriages in courthouses by civil judges, devoid of any religious ceremony or rite, are not real marriages and thus should not be legally binding or recognized.
Redefining "shit" to mean "chocolate" doesn't make it smell, look, or taste like chocolate, putting a crucifix on a candy bar doesn't make sweet confections the providence of The Church, and stapling well-crafted wings to this pig isn't going to make you look like less of an asshole. Stop, just fucking stop. Stop redefining marriage to suit your narrow, ill-informed worldview.