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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:14 AM
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Poll question: What do you like best about Christmas
Edited on Sun Dec-14-08 11:15 AM by norepubsin08
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:14 AM
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1. The decorations and lights
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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:16 AM
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2. I forgot about that
re-check the poll!
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:54 AM
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28. I love that people give to the community by decorating their homes.
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elocs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:41 PM
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34. Might it not be possible that people give to the community AND decorate their homes?
Just wondering how the two are mutually exclusive. In my city the JCs put up a huge display of hundreds of thousands of lights in a city park that everyone delights in viewing and while doing this they collect thousands of pounds of donated food as well as cash donations that go to local food pantries.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 01:48 PM
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39. great idea
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Phred42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:16 AM
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3. When it's over!
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Greyhound Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:19 AM
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6. Seconded. I hate the whole freaking thing. For two months nothing is done, nothing happens,
but you still have to go into work, if you have a job, or wait until the new year for any hiring.


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Champion Jack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:23 AM
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8. it can't be over fast enough
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Merlot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:48 AM
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25. That's my vote too!
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peace13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:09 PM
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32. I hear that! n/t
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shanti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:38 PM
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42. amen to that!
i hate the holidays:( so much stress from the expectations of so many people. can't wait until 2009 and it's over!
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:16 AM
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4. Time with family - absolutely
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:47 AM
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24. Ditto
family and friends
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panader0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:19 AM
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5. When it's over.........
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onehandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:21 AM
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7. All public aspects of Christmas are attacks on Atheists and should be Banned!
Kidding.

I like the lights and decorations. We put up our tree last night.


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ellie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:23 AM
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9. I love the extra time
off. This year I get a total of 12 days off paid! I am so lucky!
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:24 AM
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10. The inevitable "I don't want to have a bleeping happy holiday" parties on DU the day after T-Day.
Other than that, just about all of it.
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:24 AM
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11. Other: December 26th

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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:28 AM
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14. I have always liked December 26th
Besides the relief of getting everything (I've worked in the Church most of my life) and the rest up from the fun and celebration of the past few days...24 years ago our first child: Josef was born!! What an Advent that year was!!!!
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Poiuyt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:36 AM
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16. Dec. 26 is my birthday
My birthday presents were always reject Christmas presents or "Here, this is your combination Christmas and birthday present."
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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:35 PM
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40. we used always
give our son the toy for Christmas and the batteries for his birthday. Just kidding, but it was always a low key affair so what we did was have his big birthday on his half-birthday June 26th.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:38 AM
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18. Boxing day! I love it too, a shame that the US doesn't observe it. nt
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:45 AM
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21. Worst retail day, ever.
Worse than Black Friday.
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cosmik debris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:25 AM
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12. The Global War On Christmas!
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ozone_man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:26 AM
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13. The tree.
The smell of balsam fir and the decorations and lights of course. The comes the music, and then the family.
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tekisui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:28 AM
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15. It's only once a year.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:38 AM
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17. Scotch, fireplace, food, sofa, and football on TV
Edited on Sun Dec-14-08 11:38 AM by JVS
I love seeing my family too
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:43 AM
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19. Nothing
It is a dark, gloomy time of year that is totally depressing. To have to fake "cheer" to those who celebrate holidays only adds to the misery. Can't wait for it to be over.
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RedCappedBandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:46 AM
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22. yea..
it stopped being fun when i "grew up"
worst decision of my life :p
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:49 AM
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26. Since my childhood was rotten
starting with sexual abuse, going on to abandonment and on to emotional and psychological abuse and then isolation, at least I was glad I grew up. Doesn't mean I like Christmas, though. Just going to the grocery store and having to listen to those stupid Christmas songs yesterday was enough to make me gag.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:44 AM
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20. I'm in it for the food. n/t
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DevonRex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:55 AM
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29. Are you a 20-something by chance? :)
See my post below. If it weren't for the food, I don't know how I'd get my kids over here except to get their presents.

So, I say thank goodness for the FOOD!!!!
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:01 PM
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31. 30's. Just arrested development
Edited on Sun Dec-14-08 12:02 PM by rucky
:)

My wife works in retail, so we can't travel over the holidays to visit my family. Which means we spend the Holidays with her family, in town, who we see all the time anyways.
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Coyote_Bandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:47 AM
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23. January 2nd
when it's all over and life starts to return to something we call normal - whatever the hell that is.
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DevonRex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:50 AM
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27. THE FOOD! That's how you entice your 20-yr-old kids to come
Edited on Sun Dec-14-08 11:51 AM by JenniferZ
over to enjoy all the decorations and the goodies and the family time. Without the food, that probably wouldn't happen until Christmas day, when they get their presents.

You do it in stages:

1. You have a tree decorating party, with egg nog and cookies and stuff.

2. You have fudge-making day, when you make batches of fudge from your grandmother's recipe. And after it cools, you cut it and place it in decorative tins for your kids to take home with them. Of course, that takes all day long, so they stay all day long because they LOVE that fudge.

3. Then you have a Christmas Eve dinner with a standing rib roast and cherry cobbler for dessert. And of course you go to a Christmas Eve service afterwards. It'd be just rude for the kids to eat and not go to the service, right?

4. Then you have Christmas day, when they get their presents, but you have a fabulous dinner later in the day, so they stay all day long.

See how that works? :evilgrin:


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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 11:58 AM
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30. It reminds me of Joni Mitchell's "River" and
Gordon Lightfoot's "Song for a Winter's Night."


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sam sarrha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:30 PM
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33. ......WHEN IT'S OVER.!!!!!!!!!
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elocs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:44 PM
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35. I love Christmas and the holiday is what you make of it.
Nobody is forced to do anything they do not want to do.

What I miss the most about Christmas is when the kids were very little and their delight in opening their presents. Now that they are grown I use Christmas in teaching them the importance of giving to others who are in need and this attitude carries through to the rest of the year too.
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roody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:46 PM
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36. I like that Xmas is relatively quiet as far as stores and
traffic. I like that it gets over with and people stop pushing their agenda on you until next year. Example: Mindless chat opener, "Are you ready for Christmas?" Only said to women of course, who bear most of the work involved in the "celebration."
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JNelson6563 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:57 PM
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37. The big brunch.
this is my second Christmas as a divorcee but I've continued the big brunch tradition. Tho' the kids are older now (17 & 20) they do Christmas eve at Dad's and Christmas day with me. I love to have brunch with all our favorite stuff and just hang out with them. Very lazy and relaxed. We open our presents (which will be very few in number this year) and lay around. Last year my son got a Wii so we all had tennis elbow by the end of the day.

Julie--heathen who enjoys the pagan aspects of a Christian holiday
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Hidden Stillness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 12:59 PM
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38. I Like the Inner Meaning of the Holiday Itself
You did not really have religious selections available, so I guess "music," "lights and decorations," and "the Winter landscape" might come closest. I started to like Christmas again, after I spent a long period of many years, getting all the standard, conservative, fake "Christian" attitudes out of my head, and tried to find what the real message was, and what was really being asked of us by God. Now, I try to feel the holiness of the season in my own mind, I read and think about things, and remember those I loved who have gone. I guess the real answer is, I try to feel the presence of the spiritual world, as I go around, and remember what it all really meant; I like the atmosphere.
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:36 PM
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41. I like Christmas for the family get-togethers...
...and the prime rib. :) I hardly eat any red meat these days, but that Christmas prime rib sure tastes good.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:40 PM
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43. Having more time with my husband. That wasn't an option because he's not a realative
thank you very much! LOL, we're not THAT kind of family!

So I guess I'll just pick "having the extra time off."
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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:42 PM
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44. yes he is a relative
a relative by marriage!
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Vinca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:43 PM
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45. What I like best is when it's over. nt
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DonEBrook Donating Member (506 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:44 PM
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46. I like that my meat market gets legs of lamb in - only time of year.
So I stock up and ignore the rest of it. :D
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 04:31 PM
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50. those poor legless lambs. ;-)
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 02:45 PM
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47. Couldn't vote - I love it all - except traveling.
Edited on Sun Dec-14-08 02:48 PM by old mark
I actually feel bad for all you guys who hate it.

Maybe you'll have a good New Year's Eve?
(I like that, too - I love all holidays, even my wife's Jewish holidays and I don't even know what most of them are for. What the hell is wrong with eating a little too much and having a day off?)

mark
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JustAnotherGen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 04:06 PM
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48. When it's over
eom
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asteroid2003QQ47 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 04:30 PM
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49. Nothing! n/t
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 05:06 PM
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51. New Year's day.
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 05:17 PM
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52. The music--I'm in a cathedral choir, and we do all sorts of great music
for advent and Christmas.
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norepubsin08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-14-08 06:25 PM
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53. I have sung church music all my life
I was in a boy choir that traveled out of Rome...sang in over 100 countries by the time I was 15. I have directed choirs and ensembles all my life. I am now the director of liturgy at my home church. What cathedral do you sing for?
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