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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:31 AM Original message |
My husband's 17yrd old nephew called me for advice last night - I'm torn |
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Wickerman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
1. Sounds like you did right |
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Bitter_Clinger (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
2. From what I understand... |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:45 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. The point is not that the military would have trouble "molding" him. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. I can tell you for sure that they do recruit athletes. |
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Bitter_Clinger (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:51 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. I stand corrected then... |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:51 AM Response to Reply #2 |
9. I'd like to point out that what the military... |
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Bitter_Clinger (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:57 AM Response to Reply #9 |
18. Several of Generations of my family |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
28. I understand what you are saying... |
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Bitter_Clinger (88 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:32 AM Response to Reply #28 |
38. "can you imagine Jim Carrey doing well in the military? " |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
52. That's why their football teams |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
3. He obviously respects your opinion... |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:52 AM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Thanks for your 2 cents! |
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leftchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:44 AM Response to Original message |
4. Let him know how many West Point grads hoping for a Career |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:54 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. RIP, Captain Freeman - what a terrible loss for his family & this country. |
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leftchick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
44. The US bob sled team |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:57 AM Response to Reply #4 |
17. I was very direct about the high potential for him |
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Jim__ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
6. Sounds like you gave him good advice. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:00 AM Response to Reply #6 |
19. Yes, and that's one of the reasons I'm kind of |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
8. I think you gave him a balanced response, and left the door open for him |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:03 AM Response to Reply #8 |
21. He has no intention of going pro in his sport - he wants to be |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
12. Without knowing what the other schools are ... |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:07 AM Response to Reply #12 |
24. His primary interest is in the schooling, not the sport. |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:23 AM Response to Reply #24 |
31. "He's as smart as he is physically talented" Wow, good for him! |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:40 AM Response to Reply #31 |
41. sorry - I misunderstood! He wants to be a lawyer, so |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #41 |
46. He wants to be a lawyer now! |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
14. If his goal is professional sports than that should take the acedemies off the table |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
15. If he wants to go pro, his commitment to the military will harm him. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:10 AM Response to Reply #15 |
25. that's my thinking, too. |
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JHB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:28 AM Response to Reply #25 |
35. On the other hand... |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:36 AM Response to Reply #25 |
40. Going JAG opens up a lot of other possibilities, too. |
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freethought (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
16. Sounds to me as if you did it right |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
20. naval academy sports teams are traditional losers. why play for losers? nt |
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jdlh8894 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:25 AM Response to Reply #20 |
32. West Point Grad? eom |
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Andy Canuck (234 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
22. Tell him not to go. It is pretty simple. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Most teenagers don't react well to being told |
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DangerDave921 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:06 AM Response to Original message |
23. Yes you did |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:13 AM Response to Original message |
27. Military Academy |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:30 AM Response to Reply #27 |
37. At the end of my Junior year in HS, I was invited to apply |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
29. My .02, FWIW |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
30. It's only a 5 year comittment and you can get a job anywhere |
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JHB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:26 AM Response to Original message |
33. I was a midshipman at USNA. Left before completion, but it has its merits. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:35 AM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Thanks - I may PM you after I hear back from him |
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JHB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:51 AM Response to Reply #39 |
45. Sure thing |
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klyon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:26 AM Response to Original message |
34. Push the Ivy League school, it will look best on his resume. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
36. Telling the truth is always approaching it right. nt |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:46 AM Response to Reply #36 |
43. No baloney there! |
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mgc1961 (874 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 09:42 AM Response to Original message |
42. That's about the right approach. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 10:47 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. Thank you for your perspective. |
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mgc1961 (874 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:26 AM Response to Reply #48 |
54. That story will sound familar... |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:50 AM Response to Reply #54 |
57. Love that Hoolihan line - I know that the 8 year old me |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
47. "When you join the military, your life is no longer your own." |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 10:55 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Yeah, that whole stop loss thing is one of the key |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 12:23 PM Response to Reply #50 |
59. You might encourage him to watch STOP LOSS. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 12:59 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Thanks for the heads-up - I wasn't aware of that film. n/t |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
49. "Serving your country" is all well and good in the abstract, but when was |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:00 AM Response to Reply #49 |
51. There's no doubt that many of our recent "missions" |
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paparush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
53. I was an RA in college..one of my freshman was on the tennis team. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:35 AM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Wow - that's actually scary. |
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paparush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 01:09 PM Response to Reply #55 |
63. Indeed, going AWOL was desperate. Very smart kid. But, he panicked..no doubt. |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
56. sounds good |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 11:55 AM Response to Reply #56 |
58. We definitely had that part of the conversation. |
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ItNerd4life (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
60. Wow! Nicely done. |
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MANative (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-30-08 01:01 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Thanks - I'll be on pins and needles until I hear |
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