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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:12 AM Original message |
Why men are not asked the "children question".. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:15 AM Response to Original message |
1. Valid points. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:16 AM Response to Original message |
2. Women have "assumed" child-rearing duty? It's been forced on a lot of women, trust me. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:17 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. assumed, as in taken it on.. whether willing or not |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:25 AM Response to Reply #3 |
6. You're using the passive while my term is more active. |
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trotsky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
4. And it would be a bit different in this case, if Palin's husband was stepping into that role. |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:28 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. The Enquirer article |
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kayell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:14 AM Response to Reply #7 |
17. Their mom kinda seems that way too. nt |
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tanyev (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:31 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Well, I was going to comment, |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:11 AM Response to Reply #4 |
16. Not much ice fishing or snow machine riding going on in DC, is there? |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:59 AM Response to Reply #4 |
33. Exactly. nt |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:12 PM Response to Reply #4 |
38. Ooops. wrong place. |
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pampango (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
5. Much of what you say is true, but I still get very uncomfortable telling a woman |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:37 AM Response to Reply #5 |
9. People have always made unpopular choices |
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Justice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:37 AM Response to Original message |
10. As Sally Quinn said, there is a also a tipping point here |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:56 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Todd's a boy-man.. He likes to play.. n/t |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
11. I'm a stay-at-home dad |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:01 AM Response to Reply #11 |
14. And as more and more jobs "leave" , more Dads will get caught |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:19 AM Response to Reply #14 |
20. The best thing about being a stay at home dad |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:23 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. You need good disability insurance. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:35 AM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I hear you,.. I had a job offer, in fact the guy offered me more than he paid |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #14 |
41. "you CAN have it all..just not always all at the same time." |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:22 PM Response to Reply #11 |
39. You make some great points and |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
12. If there was a stay-at-home dad, it would be totally different. |
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LeftishBrit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:09 AM Response to Original message |
15. Personally, I think men *should* be asked the 'children question' |
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kayell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:15 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Yes. You speak my mind also. nt |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 10:54 AM Response to Reply #15 |
36. Quite right. |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:51 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. "I think it odd that parents of a newborn would want to take on this grand disruption.. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Sarah & Todd strike me as very narcissistic.. She's used to flirting her way to the top |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
19. Keep in mind that |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:27 AM Response to Original message |
22. furthermore, she doesn't use birth control & is at risk for another high-risk pregnancy. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:39 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. So it was done to you |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:09 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Just raising the point. You're absolutely right, of course, |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:51 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. I totally understand |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 10:40 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. I was actually guilty of what I was a victim of. Hate to admit it but truefacts are true. |
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badgerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-06-08 01:00 AM Response to Reply #31 |
53. Call me sexist... |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:29 AM Response to Original message |
23. She's not just a regular working mom, though. |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:55 PM Response to Reply #23 |
44. Absolutely. Especially the first part. nt |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
24. I understand the biological roles |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 08:41 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. I'm not judging her.. It IS her choice.. Society will judge her though |
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badgerpup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
28. Thank you for posting this! |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Actually, I left my job to come back home when my youngest was a teen |
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Truth4Justice (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
32. Three points: The PILLwas out in 1960. Lots of men dont want kids. Why do we have lots of kids with |
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livetohike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
35. In 1986, while interviewing for a management position at a |
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emmadoggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
37. Very well said. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:42 PM Response to Original message |
40. Why do people, in discussing this, IGNORE the decision Joe Biden made decades ago?? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
42. Federal law prohibits asking any job appliant about pregnancy, child-bearing intentions, etc. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
46. A lot of good points, but you should stick with what you know. |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
47. However, women planning a career generally plan their family |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:47 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. Yes.. they have been winging it, as parents, and frankly... |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:50 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Yep. There are probably about a dozen more "permutations" |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
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Cerridwen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:38 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. 6 posts attacking liberals. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-05-08 01:48 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Bzzzzzt.. wrong-o.. Try the moose pizza.. It's on special |
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