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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:07 AM Original message |
Infidelity? How much of it is simply opportunity? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:13 AM Response to Original message |
1. he slipped and fell into a woman's vagina ? |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Obtuse much? n/t |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:23 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. excusing much? n/t |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:30 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. No, just empathic. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:37 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. it's not empathic to think people don't fuck around because they are not good-looking |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:41 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Or maybe, they know enough to avoid tempting situations... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:48 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. LOL |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:51 AM Response to Reply #23 |
28. Wow. Did you think of that smiley all by yourself? |
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AuntPatsy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:58 PM Response to Reply #28 |
84. God, the ignorant holier than thou people, ignore them, good post.... |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:37 AM Response to Reply #1 |
10. Completely understandable. I fell OUT of one a while back. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 04:17 AM Response to Reply #1 |
47. LOL |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
2. i have had plenty of opportunity and no interest nor tempted. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:29 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. I think few people consider it beforehand and that causes its own problems. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:32 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. i couldnt agree with you more. i too think things thru |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:56 AM Response to Reply #2 |
32. Everyone has opportunity. To say otherwise is just silly. |
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goddess40 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:26 AM Response to Reply #2 |
60. and if a person wants to cheat they will find an opportunity |
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Truth4Justice (806 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:16 AM Response to Original message |
3. Point made but most of us will never be potential cadidates for President either. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:33 AM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Nope. But what do you know--it's common enough that McCain |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:38 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. no different standard to me |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:42 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. i was going to post pointing out that we on du go after those repugs. media doesnt |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:47 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. correct |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:49 AM Response to Reply #16 |
25. I don't bother condeming the repugs for it either... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:57 AM Response to Reply #25 |
33. actually I agree with you there |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:38 AM Response to Original message |
12. I am very attractive (so I'm told), and have had the opportunity time and time again |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:43 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Well to be fair you are female. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:44 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. as many women have affairs as men. so men are slaves and helpless |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:48 AM Response to Reply #19 |
22. hmm you sure about that? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:17 AM Response to Reply #22 |
45. Sex surveys show that men grossly exaggerate the # of women they've been with and women... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:49 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. just so you know |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:51 AM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Really? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:54 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. let me make it clearer |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:58 AM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Do they? Just how much did Edward's stash of cash have to |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:07 AM Response to Reply #34 |
38. I'm talking in general |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:00 AM Response to Reply #29 |
36. that doesn't correlate to equality in the amount of affairs being had. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:08 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. I said MOST |
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CANDO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:18 PM Response to Reply #36 |
68. Check out this site ... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:15 AM Response to Reply #24 |
43. 'Females' is a pretty broad category. It includes, dogs, cats, trees, etc. nt |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 04:00 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. yes |
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RC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:32 AM Response to Reply #43 |
51. Females - broad category??? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:13 AM Response to Reply #17 |
42. What are those penises having sex with? Are you suggesting other penises? nt |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:16 AM Response to Reply #42 |
44. A lot of them are having sex with hookers |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:50 AM Response to Reply #44 |
62. yes, a lot of men probably go to hookers. and a lot of women can just have whatever man |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 06:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. You destroy your own argument |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. ya. i dont need to pay for it. but that really does not have to do with |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 04:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
48. oh bullshit |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
14. Not many here care about the infidelity |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:43 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. correct. exactly. and the people that continually take it to sex, or an affair |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:47 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Actually it might have a lot to do with why he so abruptly dropped out. |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:50 AM Response to Reply #20 |
26. So as long as he thought he could get away with it it was ok to do? |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:58 AM Response to Reply #26 |
35. The issue doesn't seem to be as much that they do it, |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:04 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. You cant compare the two |
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RC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:35 AM Response to Reply #18 |
53. Kinda of a broad brush you are using there. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:54 AM Response to Original message |
30. ITA, and given the statistics in this country |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
31. Actually, men with attractive and beautiful wives frequently |
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Egnever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:07 AM Response to Reply #31 |
39. Familiarity breeds contempt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:53 AM Response to Reply #39 |
63. geez.... you pick up each one. hubby and i have found that it also leads to amazing |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:51 AM Response to Reply #63 |
70. You bet it does! (grin) I've been married thirty years and never |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:49 AM Response to Reply #39 |
69. Familiarity? I've heard of a lot of excuses for infidelity but |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #69 |
73. lol lol aint that the truth |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #73 |
74. Oh yeah. After thirty years, he knows how to push ALL my |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 03:11 AM Response to Original message |
41. Something like half of all married men AND women have an affair. |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 04:37 AM Response to Original message |
49. you think Rielle Hunter is attractive ? looks has nothing to do with it |
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Ghost Dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 04:57 AM Response to Original message |
50. Hmm. Just watched (after reading the book, a while ago) Joe Wright's film |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
52. The opportunity to philander is a key component of philandering. |
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HereSince1628 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:37 AM Response to Reply #52 |
54. And the source of material for songs....here's a lyric favoring fidelity |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:44 AM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Stephen Stills, Crosby, Stills & Nash: Love the One You're With |
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HereSince1628 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:09 AM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Yes, both sides are well represented in pop culture |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:52 AM Response to Reply #52 |
72. I've had tons of opportunity. Nope. I'm married and in love |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
56. The "If you're not with the one you love, love the one you're with" theory |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
58. Life is complicated enough without infidelity. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:20 AM Response to Original message |
59. Load of crap. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
61. A lot more than will admit it, I wager |
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Avalon Sparks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
64. Really Good Post - |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 06:50 PM Response to Original message |
67. From Augustine's Confessions Book 6 |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
71. Ego, opportunity, power, and alcohol |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
75. Ugly people cheat (mostly with other ugly people) ALL THE TIME. |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
76. Opportunity comes from motive |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
77. I don't even have affairs in my dreams... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:11 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. lol lol lol surely you jest about the dream. that is funny |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:17 PM Response to Original message |
79. Harsh but (imho) accurate. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:22 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. i say,... we can talk ourselves into about anything. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #80 |
81. I think I'm generally pretty conscientious. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:47 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. ah, well see, i dont see it as a saintly act not to fuck on my hubby |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #79 |
83. We've disagreed in the past on another issue, but here, you're 1000% right. |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
85. Here's a simple rule: |
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