http://familydiscipleshipmin.com/One of the articles posted on that site is entitled:
Teaching Toddlers -- and Older Children -- To Sit Still
Here is an excerpt:
. . . . Does a tiny child need exercise, opportunities to crawl or toddle
or wiggle and play? Of course! But now comes the crucial question: Does a tiny child
(even as young as 6-12 months old) need to crawl or toddle or wiggle and play where and
whenever he wants to do so? Or does he need to learn from his very earliest days that
there are sometimes when he may crawl or toddle or wiggle and play and there are times he
may not. He may not always do what he wants to do when he wants to do it and it is
critical for him–for his own good and future blessing–to learn this crucial spiritual lesson
when he is tiny.
So let’s get realistic. How can you possibly teach an infant or toddler to be quiet and still
while you are sitting in church, at a concert, on an airplane? That’s easy. You can’t! You
must do it at home before you get to the church, concert, or airplane. Purpose before God
to use the everyday opportunities He graciously gives in your home to teach your child to
deny himself, to practice self control, and to obey someone other than himself–namely, you!
Some people use family Bible reading time for this training. And this is prime training
time. But to keep Bible time from being continually interrupted by teaching, reproof,
correction, and training in righteousness (see 2 Tim. 3:16-17), be a wise mommy and teach
the rudiments of these principles at a less disruptive time. Teach your infant to lie still
without rolling around on the changing table by showing him what you want him to do,
reproving him firmly but gently for several time when he doesn’t (and he won’t!), and then
soundly swatting his conveniently bare little bottom several times to show him that he
must obey your words. If you are consistent, he will soon get the picture and learn that
during diapering I may not do what I want when I want to do it. I must lie still and quiet.
Then apply this very same process to other situations, including daily story reading time
before naps. (This is an invaluable time for both sharing wonderful early childhood
literature–including Bible stories–with your children and teaching them to be quite and sit
still. Then, with this groundwork laid, apply this process during family Bible study. If you
have been diligent, it will be much easier now because your child has learned the basics
already. And guess what? You have been teaching your child to be quiet and still while
you are sitting in church, at a concert, on an airplane! Oh, he will test you
occasionally–some children are more persistent at this than others–to see if you really mean
“sit quite and be still” in church like you do at home. But you will be blessed to see the
“peaceful fruits of righteousness” (Heb. 12: 11) that God will be working in your child and
home if you will faithfully, from infancy, train up your child in the way he should go, rather
than allowing him to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=christina+caster&btnG=SearchI would say this is a wonderful article on how to raise ADD children. If I wanted my children to sit quietly, I just sat them on my lap and gave them lots of love. If they squirmed, I kept them physically active on my lap. It is as cruel to keep a very small child inactive for too long a period of time as it is to put them in a cage. Horrors!!!! The author studied psychology, by the way.