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I won't reveal Mary's last name, as it is someone some of us may know. Especially if you are in the computer field (mainly in the Unix field, not windoze).
I met her about 4 years ago when she came out to my site to install a server. She had left for a time, when she was male, and came back as a female (the company I work for is pretty good about these things). It shocked a lot of people that knew her before. But I had never known her until the day I met her (though I knew of her).
I could tell she had been a man previously, but that was not really an issue here. Her reputation preceded her and I respected her unix skills. I was able to get her in and to work out her server placement, set up, etc.
As the days turned into months we were in contact more and more over issues, new servers, parts, etc. I would call her at home, she would call me, we would bitch about processes and security, then hammer out ways to get around the issues.
She has written papers that make my head spin with their technical details, and I am about as nerdy as they come (own my own sun servers, etc). She has published papers on unix stuff, and knows her shit.
Mary was once married. With kids. Thankfully it all worked out OK for her, her X is understanding. But one cannot imagine the hell she must have went through over the years leading a double life. I have thought about interviewing her and posting it here, I may well do so before long as she and I have a lot to catch up on (I moved to a different dept and do programming now and not management, I needed to get away from all that for my wife's sake and to spend time at home caring for her).
We might get down on corporations and America at times - but I have seen progress here I have not seen everywhere else. Mary is doing well, and part of why she is is because the company we work for got off it's ass and took issues seriously.
Part of being an American is freedom to be who you are. Whether you are a straight white man, or a transsexual, or black, etc. And the freedom to not be fucked over because you are who you are. You might be poor with bad credit, you could be handicapped, you might be a lutheran, or an atheist. The ideal is that we treat people equally when it comes down to the brass tacks of it all. In this sense, I think capitalism has a plus - when companies look for the best people based on talent and not on color/sex/orientation/etc.
And companies have done a better job at this than our government. My friend and once coworker (until I moved to a different dept) was a translator for the govt (he speaks and reads French, Arabic, English) but was fired because he is also gay. Chevy is a hard working guy who had a lot to offer this country - and now he works for a corporation that does not care he is gay. Mary could probably help the government with their issues on the computer side - but they won't be hiring her into any military computer positions because she was once a he.
Let's hope our newly elected officials fix this problem.
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