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EV_Ares Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:28 PM
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It’s Not So Easy Being Less Rich
Edited on Sun Jun-01-08 10:40 PM by EV_Ares
NANCY CHEMTOB, a divorce lawyer in Manhattan, has found that her days have become crammed seeing clients, all worried about how an economic downturn will affect their marriages.

CUTTING CORNERS Sometimes, sacrifices have to be made.
They seem to have nothing to fret about: their net worths range from $5 million to $1 billion. A blip in the markets shouldn’t send their chateau-size Park Avenue co-ops to foreclosure or exile them to Payless Shoes.

But Ms. Chemtob’s clients are concerned all the same, she said, because their incomes have shrunk, say, to $2 million a year from $8 million, and they know that their 2008 bonus checks are likely to be much less impressive.

One of her clients recently confessed that his net worth had decreased to $8 million from more than $20 million, and he thinks that his wife will leave him. He has hidden their fall in fortune by taking on debt to pay for her extravagant clothes and vacations.

“I literally had to sit there and tell him that he had to tell his wife that she had to stop spending,” she said. “He was actually scared she would leave him because their financial situation changed so drastically.”

The wealthy don’t generally speak publicly about their finances, in good times or bad. It’s in poor taste, for one, and their employers could fire them for talking even a little. But people who provide services to the wealthy — lawyers, art advisers, personal trainers and hairstylists — say they are getting an earful about their clients’ financial anxieties.

Interviews with the people who actually see the bank statements, like divorce lawyers and lenders, say their clients are definitely living on less than they did a year ago, regardless of how expansive the definition of “less” may be. Hairstylists and private jet rental companies say the wealthy are cutting back on luxuries like $350 highlights and $10,000-an-hour jet rentals. Even nutritionists and personal trainers notice a problem. The wealthy are eating more and gaining weight because of the stress.

rest of this article @ the link: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/01/fashion/01rich.html?_r=2&pagewanted=all&oref=slogin&oref=slogin
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:30 PM
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1. where's that smiley code...
:nopity:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:34 PM
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2. Oh dear, does this mean we will no longer be subject to the likes
of Paris Hilton...
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pepperbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:34 PM
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3. Not much sympathy when I see stuff like this....
One of her clients recently confessed that his net worth had decreased to $8 million from more than $20 million, and he thinks that his wife will leave him. He has hidden their fall in fortune by taking on debt to pay for her extravagant clothes and vacations.

Well Mama always said, "Never spend principal." Whenever I happen upon Bravo's "Real Housewives of NYC", I want to throw the TV out the window. Luckily, I just end up changing the channel.


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zeos3 Donating Member (912 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:45 PM
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10. That show makes me ill
My girlfriend made me watch it (i think they had one in california).

For a glimpse at why those who inherit wealth have no concept of reality, check out "My Super Sweet 16" on MTV.
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Aviation Pro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:34 PM
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4. Ahem....
...poor fucking babies.

Look, you fucking supposed masters of the universe, the party was swell, but the bill is due. If your fucking trophy wife (ya know the one with the implants, not the mistress you have stashed away somewhere) leaves you, good riddance. (Or what part of 'for better or worse' did they not understand)?

Scumbags, you might have to work for a living you fucking bottom feeders.
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OwnedByFerrets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:35 PM
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5. OMG...there isnt a small enough violin for this
article. WOW, just WOW.
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ZombieHorde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:35 PM
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6. Bizarre.
I did not know that there were people in this world that made only 8 million dollars a year. No one could survive off of that little.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:40 PM
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8. nah, it's his net worth that is 8 million
That could be tied up in the house and other property. He might actually have no disposable income and still be worth 8 million.
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Adsos Letter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:38 PM
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7. well...
...I suppose we all have our cross to bear...
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AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-01-08 10:44 PM
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9. I'm lighting candles for them right now and thank you for making me realize my priorities
are all wrong, here is was worried about children in poverty and people without health care, now i realize how misplaced my concern has been.
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