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monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:17 AM
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My Grandfather Billy Murphy from Mayo and the Reverend Wright
Edited on Mon Mar-17-08 09:32 AM by monmouth
most likely would have gotten along just fine. On this St. Paddy's Day I think of the struggles my mother's family had in this country when they first emigrated. Grandmother Mary Collins (supposed relative of the "great" Michael Collins, West Cork)and Granddad Billy Murphy married in Limerick before sailing for the grand United States. Grandmother's sisters had emigrated first, settled in Montclair, NJ and worked for the wealthy who were at that time in Upper Montclair. They were "in service" as was the way of things in those days. Grandmother worked for the Parish at Immaculate Conception, thereby allowing her children to attend their Catholic School for little or no tuition.

Grandfather Billy had no such luck. He was an accomplished electrician in Ireland and highly respected in the trade. The story goes that they were "dirt poor" but his decoration of their Christmas tree was something the neighbors would come to view and awe. Grandmother even allowed a bit of the "creature" if it enhanced his creativity. Of course, needless to say the "creature" caused problems down through the generations, but that would be another story. In those days Billy Murphy was greeted with "Irish Need Not Apply." The only work he could find would be through private families, word of mouth as to his talent, and many through the Parish. Construction jobs whose owners were mostly WASPS would have none of those dirty Irish monkeys working on their sites. Billy Murphy saw the end of his days very bitter, hurt, and more often than once he damned America. He damned America from every bar on Bloomfield Avenue right up on the trolley line to Tierney's.

In the early days the opportunities for many an Irish boy in this country were the priesthood, fireman, policeman, politician (hahaha)Tradesmen of Irish descent were not welcome. I look out my window now as planks are being set in the intracoastal for the upcoming boat show. Those workmen are mostly if not all of Latino descent. 'Tis the way of things I guess.

I think had Grandpa Billy and the Reverend Wright ever met and had a chat, they would have gotten along famously. I'd bet my frugal grandfather would have been happy to buy the Reverend Wright a nice cold beer with a hint of green to it on this fine St. Paddy's day.

The Reverend has a long memory, he's been around quite a few years and remembers those struggles, insults and degradations his people suffered back in the '30s,'40s and even after WWII. Each new group coming into this country has the same struggle. "'Tis the way of things." Well, maybe. The healing part comes when groups can move on, assimilate and enjoy what this wonderful country has and will offer to all. The younger generation must be informed as to how it was, it's the only way we learn not to make those mistakes of the past.

To Grandfather Billy Murphy and all of my Irish ancestors, and to the Reverend Wright and his wonderful people, my wishes and prayers for a grander day when we all say God Bless America and feel a hint of the green in our hearts.
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:21 AM
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1. County Mayo here, too.
Grandma burned out of her home and ended up in Cleveland, Ohio.
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futureliveshere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:24 AM
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2. Amen!!!
Really nicely written. Hope people wake up and see that a person doesn't become unpatriotic just because he is criticizing his own country or policies. If the intent is to create a social movement to improve the current situation, then that is a laudable and courageous thing to do.
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panader0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:28 AM
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3. Nice post.
It's easy for me to understand the "Damn America" thing. From the Native American to the slaves to the Vietnamese to the Iraqis, many peoples have been abused by the US and have most certainly cursed us. Even among our own citizens, many folks are deeply ashamed of our nations actions. Illegal wars, election fraud, crooked politicians, pollution, the list goes on and on. Like you said, "my wishes and prayers for a grander day"
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:38 AM
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4. My Socialist Grandmother was from Mayo and came here to "steal" jobs from Americans.
"Ireland is a beautiful country to starve in." She told me once when I asked about Ireland.

She stole floor-scrubbing jobs from, first,Brits, then Canadians, then Americans on her long journey to America.

I grew up thinking that GoddamEnglish and GoddamRich were one single words.
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monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:49 AM
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6. Oh lord you just brought back such funny memories, especially
when it's said with that beautiful brogue. "And may they rot in the fires of hell those goddamn english, God forgive me." Wow, that was funny.
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aquart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 09:39 AM
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5. I think it would be wonderful if the Reverend Wright agreed
that other peoples also suffered. Does he?
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Ysabel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:31 AM
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7. my great great grandpa was from county mayo...
Edited on Mon Mar-17-08 10:33 AM by Ysabel
(my mom's father's side) he married my great great grandma who was from connaught she left during the potato famine when she was 15 years old and before she met him (his path was similar) she'd worked hard and paid for all her 17 siblings to come to america making their way to champaign / urbana illinois they had lots and lots of grand-daughters and eventually also 3 black grand-daughters who are my first cousins (my mom's sisters children) and many extended wonderful black and white second cousins as well btw mostly all female we are all very close *(i'm not sure why i added that about so many female children other than it seems to be a huge pattern in our family and it interests me)...

- so yeah we relate...

*also i used to be much more open about myself and my family yet during these bush years i've come to be much more concerned about privacy however happily lately i'm beginning to feel a re-newed sense of open-ness anyway this seems a good thread to open up a bit...

edit: changing one of my redundant howevers to a "yet" (two in the same sentence ack) hahaha...




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monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 10:37 AM
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8. Great post, maybe you're related to Barack somehow. I believe he
has Irish heritage, forgot which county. Interesting stuff..
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Ysabel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-17-08 11:06 AM
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9. actually yes i think i am...
- smile... :)
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