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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:54 PM Original message |
What say should a 12 yr old have? |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. The wishes of 12 YOs are taken into consideration in custody cases. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:57 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. What if he/she wants to pierce their face? |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. The 12 YO should have the right to HALT a cosmetic procedure. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. I agree. What if a 12 yr old wants to? |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. Then parents can give permission. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:07 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. And what if 1 parent says yes, 1 no? See post #21 &28 |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:19 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Then the child's wishes should be paramount in the decision. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:22 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. If your 12 yr old really really wanted a tattoo, and you said no, and other parent said yes |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:26 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Then I would assume that the parents are stupid for using the child as a pawn... |
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Fresh_Start (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
2. on this particular situation, it should be the 12-year olds choice |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. Well, here's my opinion. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. I am glad we have Mercer to give us balance. |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:00 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Ah, siglines: the hazards of carrying a discussion over from another thread. |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #3 |
47. If it is cosmetic how will it be paid? Force the parent to pay for it? |
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GodlessBiker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
5. This would be like forcing the boy to have his ears pierced. It should be his decision. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #5 |
17. What if a 12 yr old wants to? Should it be his decision? |
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GodlessBiker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #17 |
21. Nope. It has to do with changing the status quo. The change needs his permission. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:08 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. Good point. That seems to be the sticking issue with many of us. |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:27 PM Response to Reply #17 |
50. Do you bump into a lot of 12 YO boys who want to get circumcised? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:34 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. You are replying to my reply to getting ears pierced. |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
6. FOR EVERYONE INTENDING ON POSTING IN THIS THREAD: |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:39 PM Response to Reply #6 |
55. Thank you. |
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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:58 PM Response to Original message |
7. Yes, it's the boy's choice. It's his body. |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
8. Is circumcision plastic surgery now? Who knew? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
10. It's similar to forcing a 12 year old to get an abortion |
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Teaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Why worse? |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. I agree; the quick and generally clean removal |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:53 PM Response to Reply #23 |
43. Actually, abortion is safer than childbirth. |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-27-08 02:43 PM Response to Reply #23 |
75. If you want to restrict the debate to 12 year olds' decisions... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #18 |
34. It's my personal feeling that no 12 year old should have a baby |
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Teaser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 11:36 PM Response to Reply #34 |
70. I have no opinions on what's best for other people |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
20. What if a 12 yr old wants to? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:04 PM Response to Reply #20 |
45. I wonder, in states with "parental consent" or "parental notification" |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. How would you force a 12 year old to get an abortion? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #51 |
67. I'm wondering the same. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 09:51 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. She could run away for a bit, or some such. |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. I would think about it like piercings. If he says no, then it's not happening. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:58 PM Response to Reply #12 |
44. Yep. |
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Hydra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
13. When the 12 yo is facing possible damage or undue risk |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:00 PM Response to Original message |
14. The boy doesn't want his dad's new religion. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:05 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. Not asking about religion but is a 12 yr old capable of making a yes/no decision? |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
19. It shouldn't be forced on any boy at any age. |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:06 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. While I understand the point, I think that such a stance removes the distinction between |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:08 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. the fact that a baby is completely defenseless and unable to object |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
30. A 12 year old should have the right to deny a cosmetic surgery but not |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:22 PM Original message |
I agree. |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:33 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. Okay, how about this? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. In this case, is status quo a scar? How about a child who has a scar? |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. There is no status quo; status quo is an unhealed wound. The situation |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. I don't think that meets the standard for cosmetic surgery |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:44 PM Response to Reply #36 |
59. I think that belongs in the same silly hypothetical drawer as the folks who will marry box turtles |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
32. Ooow. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
35. I think 12 is quite old enough to refuse any unnecessary |
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BuyingThyme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:36 PM Response to Original message |
37. When I was about ten, my mother gave the okay for a doctor to |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
41. What say should a woman have in circumcision? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. Ah, ah, ah. 12 yr old rights. |
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adadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
46. I've faced this scenario, sort of |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:16 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. That's fine |
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adadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:35 PM Response to Reply #48 |
53. If he wanted it |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
49. They've Been Arguing Over This for Three Years - Kid Doesn't Want It. Court Ruling Is Here! |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:43 PM Response to Reply #49 |
58. If 12 yr old WANTS circumcision, is DU consensus that it's ok? |
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adadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:13 PM Response to Reply #58 |
61. Yes n/t |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 11:41 PM Response to Reply #58 |
71. Yeah, But |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
54. There's a difference -a big one- between initiating something and refusing it. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
56. A 12 year old should not have to undergo cosmetic surgery |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
57. My God, what will they do to the poor kid if the court rules in the father's favor? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 07:44 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. If it rules in dad's favor, it means court decided kid says yes. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
62. Depends on the maturity of the child.. Our son decided on surgery when he was 8 |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:33 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Wow |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:38 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Yep.. he's 34 now, married, successful |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
64. just because the father converted to judaism... |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
66. No doctor should perform elective surgery... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-26-08 09:49 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Both parents? All guardians? |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-27-08 07:28 AM Response to Reply #68 |
72. I'd include only parents with legal custody. |
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bean fidhleir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-27-08 07:33 AM Response to Original message |
73. Many 12yos have shouldered adult responsibilities. So they should have a huge say |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-27-08 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
74. It's the 12 y/o's body. He's got to live the rest of his life with the decision. |
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