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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:18 PM
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There is an ad for Chinese mail-order brides on DU
A banner, no less. What's up with that? Doesn't seem very progressive...
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:19 PM
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1. because DU
doesn't choose which ads appear.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:21 PM
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4. There's got to be some kind of filter, though
since I'm not seeing any straight-up porn banners.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:35 PM
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15. Notify the admins. they've blocked several offensive ads when they were notified about them. nt
Edited on Thu Jan-17-08 04:36 PM by blondeatlast
BTW, the ads are generated partially by your browser history and cookies.

Just an FYI.
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:19 PM
Response to Reply #15
36. I'm looking for a Chinese husband who doesn't speak much English but has a lot of money to spend.
We would make a threesome.



Oh, just kidding you... don't flame me. :sarcasm:
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Orangepeel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 08:50 PM
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50. silly admins. didn't think to filter ads for mail order Chinese brides
what were they thinking?
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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:20 PM
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2. Right now, I see an ad for "DU Ringtones"
--which I wasn't even aware we had.

In all seriousness--Skinner doesn't control the ad space up there. If you donate and get a star by your name, you can turn it off.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:23 PM
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7. Still waiting for my first paycheck
after six months fighting for a contract. Used to have a star, but no more. I was off the site for a few months because political news was totally depressing me up until Iowa.

I'm not "offended" the way some people get, I just wonder if DU needs my money if they will also take it (directly or indirectly) from the sex industry.
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dkofos Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:27 PM
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9. Or, if you don't have a star, you can disable javascript in your browser.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:29 PM
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11. I don't mind SEEING the ad...
Knowing about its existence influences my decision to become a donor again or not.
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:20 PM
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3. Quick, someone tell me how to turn the ads back on.
:P
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:22 PM
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5. How much are they?
I'll take three.
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madokie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:23 PM
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6. Hmmmm, wonder what Teresa would think
yeah right
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:23 PM
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8. Contact the administrators instead of calling attention to it.
Geez.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:28 PM
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10. What's wrong with calling attention?
People donate to this site, it's something for them to be aware of. I am currently contemplating whether to get the star back or not myself.

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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:32 PM
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13. Look at the responses this got. Some are actually cheering it.
Please, if it concerns you, tell the admins or mods. I don't see it, but I've seen some offensive ads, notified the Admins, and they managed to block those sites.

Thanks.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:34 PM
Response to Reply #13
14. Since I respect you as a poster, I will contact them
I don't know what the big deal about keeping it under wraps is, though.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 06:15 PM
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27. I'm sorry for being so short with you. See my PM, thanks. nt
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:30 PM
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12. So why do you hate chinese people?
Or is it women that you want banned?
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izquierdista Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:08 PM
Response to Reply #12
19. The more that are mailed to the US
the fewer there will be in China squatting in their sweatshops squirting out product for export. Hey, maybe that's the solution to the trade deficit!
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RedCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:38 PM
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16. That must be one big envelope...
But since so many other things are made in China, what's the harm?
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2rth2pwr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:43 PM
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17. How much? Can they be Fed Exed? nt
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Lance_Boyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 04:44 PM
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18. Do we get to choose GHB or lead coated? n/t

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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:08 PM
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20. Cool. Are They Hot?
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:22 PM
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21. Hey, I thought you had me on ignore
Hot or not isn't the issue for me. The issue is whether I should get my star back or not. I see no reason (other than the convenience of added functionality, which I can live without) to donate to an organization that takes money from the sex industry. I don't even have that much of a problem with the sex industry. I just know it has deep pockets and I'm not a sucker.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:27 PM
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22. Guess I Took You Off. Didn't Even Realize It. Course, Looks Like Ya Still Don't Have Much To Offer
For the record, my post was like, a totallllllly lighthearted joke. Tense much? :rofl:
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:31 PM
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23. I don't get ignore
Why would you take someone off ignore if you've had no interaction with them? Did you, like, serve me a sentence of your cold, cold disdain?

I don't think anyone but your smiley is laughing at your joke. Um, in reality, when you tell jokes and the people you're talking to don't find it funny, it's YOUR fault. You must be a gas at dinner parties.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:44 PM
Response to Reply #23
24. You Don't Get A Lot Of Things, Apparently.
It's ok though. May the good lord bless you anyway...

:hi:
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 06:01 PM
Response to Reply #24
26. I don't believe in God
so, whatever.

Peace
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 06:17 PM
Response to Reply #26
28. That's What Made It Funny.
:rofl:
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:00 PM
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31. To you and you alone my friend
It must be great to amuse yourself so endlessly. You probably never have to rent comedy dvds.
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 05:47 PM
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25. With the economy crashing, who can afford one?
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 06:41 PM
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29. Glad I missed it
And thank you for bringing it up. Mail brides, Chinese or otherwise is pretty messed up. There's a lot of fucked up stories. Sorry about the flak you're taking.

(BTW I live in a neighborhood where they busted clothing sweat shops, using Vietnamese women as forced labor)
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 06:59 PM
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30. Thanks
There are a lot more slaves in this country than people think. Google Lakireddy Balireddy. I used to eat in his restaurant until I found out (several yrs. before the story broke.)
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:14 PM
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32.  Will do
Thank you for the info. It's a sorry situation that gets swept under the proverbial rug more often than not. Or is a 20 minute "60 minutes" episode, then forgotten.
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OhioChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:15 PM
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33. Those Ads are for
The Keyboard Commandos that frequently visit from FR.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:17 PM
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35. I don't doubt you're right
Google is using some kind of metric of where else people visit to generate the ads. I'm sure many a freeper dreams of a submissive concubine from an "inferior" race...
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 07:17 PM
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34. They're not wives. They're sleeper cells for the Red People's Republic!
Don't blame me if you wake up one day and the TV Guide has been replaced by Mao's Little Red Book.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-17-08 08:29 PM
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37. Update
I heard from admin and the ads from this site will be blocked.
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 05:11 PM
Response to Reply #37
38. Good thing I got my order in on time.
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Elspeth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 05:56 PM
Response to Reply #38
39. Watch for the lead paint in the fingernails.
Just sayin...
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 06:10 PM
Response to Reply #38
40. If you think I care about or get offended by these remarks,
you're wrong. My only concern was whether or not to give money to DU. If the admins are regularly accepting money from the sex industry, anyone who donates money to them is a chump. But they aren't, so, no issue here.

In fact, thanks for reminding me. I think I'll get that star now.
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:11 PM
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41. They're called "jokes."
Humans sometimes tell "jokes" (i.e., stories or statements they consider humorous) in order to ease the tension inherent in social encounters. It is not uncommon for humans to engage in the behavior known as "laughter" upon hearing (or reading) jokes. Some humans, however, seem not to understand jokes, and fail to respond appropriately to them. These humans spend a great deal of their time chastising other humans for not taking their concerns seriously. They are generally avoided by their fellow humans, especially at cocktail parties, where they can be spotted standing by themselves near the veggie dip with a strand of toilet paper stuck to their shoe.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:13 PM
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44. I understand you are trying to make jokes
I don't find you the least bit funny, though. In fact, I would say you are making a complete ass of yourself by telling infantile jokes and would stop kicking this thread if I were you.

:hi:
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:21 PM
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45. Of course you don't.
How's that veggie dip?
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:27 PM
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46. It's not cocktail time yet where I live
I am going to a party later where I expect to be surrounded by beautiful women (including at least one gorgeous Chinese girl) paying rapt attention to my every word.

Among the reasons for this: I won't make any puerile, awkward jokes about wanting to buy a wife from China.

Your evocation of the veggie-dip, toilet paper phenomenon bespeaks a close personal acquaintance with such situations.


(makes L in front of forehead)
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 08:30 PM
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47. Only as an amused spectator.
Edited on Fri Jan-18-08 08:32 PM by smoogatz
I know your type pretty well (I have a brother-in-law just like you, in fact). You take yourself VERY seriously, and imagine that your hyper-earnestness makes you superior to other people. You also think—and this is the sad part—that good-looking women are attracted to your fine sense of your own self-importance. Lots of luck at that party. I'm sure you'll knock 'em dead.

Is the girl currently populating your sad little fantasy life Chinese, or Chinese American? If she's actually from China, Taiwan, HK or S'pore, brace yourself for some seriously, um, elemental humor. My ex is Chinese Singaporean, and nothing cracks her up like a good fart joke. This seems to be the case in general with southern Chinese culture, particularly among Cantonese speakers.

On edit: just so you know, I've been making jokes at your expense, not at the expense of Chinese mail-order brides. But I'm not the least bit surprised that you didn't understand that.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 08:46 PM
Response to Reply #47
49. You are an odious fuck, aren't you?
I hope you get your dick caught in your zipper.
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:50 PM
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55. Yep.
You're gonna be the life of your imaginary party, all right. Here's a highly complimentary phrase in Cantonese for you: tiu lei, mui-mui! (Tee-yoo lay, mwee-mwee!). You might try it out on that crowd of gorgeous adoring "women" (heh). It's sure to impress them.
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Jed Dilligan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-19-08 01:46 PM
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58. What IS funny is your assumption
that I don't find you funny because I am "offended" or the topic is "serious"... The truth is, you are not funny because your remarks are unoriginal and obvious, in short, a huge bore.

What would be funny is Smoogatz halfway through making a boring, irritating, obvious, unoriginal comment realizing that his dick is caught in his zipper. The look on your face would be priceless!
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 08:55 PM
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51. Your experience speaks volumes
Equating mail order brides with fart jokes.

I have a few stories on sexual slavery myself. Women from impoverished, developing nations hire out. Say as house keepers. Get forced into prostitution. Saudi Arabia, Germany, and the good old US are major offenders. Now some women make a choice to be "mail order" or even a prostitute. Many, many women don't. It's just not fucking funny I don't care who you don't like on this board, or what your unteachable dumbass speculations on their sex lives might be.

It's a bunch of fucked up corrupt bullshit going on and fart jokes from ex girlfriends still don't make it funny.
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smoogatz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:28 PM
Response to Reply #51
52. Oh, for God's sake.
Take a fucking Xanax.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:36 PM
Response to Reply #37
53. No way! That sucks! I've always wanted a Chinese mail-order bridle.
Now how am I supposed to ride around on the back of that guy I bought from Russia?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:37 PM
Response to Reply #53
54. *Cough* I mean brought from Russia.
Silly me!
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shadowknows69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:12 PM
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42. Hey DU, I have a birthday coming up!!!
Just sayin.
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opiate69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:51 PM
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56. Hey shadowknows.. me too! (Monday to be exact..) Happy Birthday!
:toast:
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Virginia Dare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 07:13 PM
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43. Chinese mail order brides are very progressive..
Mexican mail order brides, not so much.
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Sanctified Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 09:58 PM
Response to Reply #43
57. self delete
Edited on Fri Jan-18-08 09:59 PM by MiltonF
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Nailzberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-18-08 08:31 PM
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48. SWEET!
Gotta go check that out.
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