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Yesterday was such a wonderful day. Bobbi was freshening up when we arrived. I was out in the kitchen when somebody tapped me on my back. I knew who it was and turned slowly around. A quick smile followed by a very long hug. After photos with her birth mom's family, I took Bobbi straight to a Salvation Army kettle. Marta stayed in the car. After telling Bobbi why we were there she had a glowing smile. I didn't tell Marta what we were doing until later. Now you know why I asked for advice about the kettle. :-)
We brought Bobbi by to see our house. Out came the photo albums and an exchange of presents. Bobbi gave me a figurine of a father & daughter sitting next to each other. I will cherish it always. We gave her a butterfly necklace.
Off to Madison's birthday party. Our youngest daughter Beanie and her husband Aaron were already there. Our son Steve, his wife Lilly, and my mom came in about 10 minutes later. Another 10 minutes and Krissy's husband Sean's parents arrived. A wonderful night of stories and photos to fill in all the blanks we've had for so many years. Our daughter Krissy was cooking and Bobbi went right to the kitchen to help. It was as if Bobbi had always been in our family. On the plane ride in Bobbi was talking to the people around her about why she was coming to Omaha. It was right out of the wedding singer scene at the end. My mom told Bobbi of how she cried for days on end until she had no more tears when the decision was made for Bobbi to be adopted out. Future visits are already being discussed.
Today breakfast with both sides of her extended family. Unfortunately our granddaughter Bobbi can't be there. It is her weekend with her mom, so the two Bobbies won't get the chance to meet yet. I'm sure we will still have plenty to talk about. Then off to the airport to see her off this afternoon. I probably won't get photos online until at least tomorrow. It might take me a day or two to get up to speed on the DU again. Thanks to all my friends here for the encouragement and advice.
Warmest regards,
OS
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