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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:01 PM Original message |
Want to be happy? |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
1. Interesting |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
12. That's what I thought too |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 07:37 AM Response to Reply #12 |
42. welcome to DU! |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:44 PM Response to Reply #12 |
55. It's also Christianity |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #55 |
64. Nah, not so much. |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:31 PM Response to Reply #64 |
66. That heaven/hell thing was not in the New Testament but added |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:04 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. Changing "The kingdom of heaven" to "heaven as a place you go after death" was a later addition |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 11:00 AM Response to Reply #74 |
84. Well, the hook was fall/redemption, whenever that was installed into the theology. |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #12 |
69. it is very Zen Buddhist |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:47 AM Response to Reply #1 |
45. The place where they meet is truly sublime |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
2. quit complaining too |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Actually that is covered in the article as well |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:11 PM Response to Reply #2 |
70. that is living in the moment |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 09:26 AM Response to Reply #70 |
82. yuppers! |
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Delphinus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #2 |
87. Sounds like Gandhi: |
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stellanoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
4. a kick and a rec and a prayer |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. Now if I can just remember to do all this....at the precise moments |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
6. Will I look like your avatar? |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Na |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:02 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. I'd say it is fortunate they are rare... |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
9. Very nice, Az. Kicking & recommending. n/t |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
10. I completely disagree with #1 |
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PADemD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:28 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Agree with you |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. You can disagree |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:38 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. Which studies? Links? |
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RiverStone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:38 AM Response to Reply #13 |
31. Translation please... |
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wildeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:19 AM Response to Reply #31 |
52. My experience, as someone who started a business |
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RiverStone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:02 PM Response to Reply #52 |
65. Thanks for the perspective... |
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wildeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:49 PM Response to Reply #65 |
72. It would be scarier to do with kids. |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
16. having goals and constantly meeting them can work for a while |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Having the goal isn't what causes unhappiness. |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:03 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. i'm open to the idea that there's a way to do goals "properly" |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:13 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. There are a number of things to consider. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:48 PM Response to Reply #10 |
17. I understand your point |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:59 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Link? |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:15 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. Unfortunately, unless you have a subscription |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:40 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Not everyone’s goals are the same. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:04 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I believe as it is defined |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:18 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. A-type personalities may include people who set goals, but NOT ALL people who set goals are A-types. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:19 AM Response to Reply #27 |
30. You are absolutely correct |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:59 AM Response to Reply #30 |
33. No. A-types and goal-setters aren't synonymous. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:03 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. I'm not saying they're synonymous |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:24 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. They are NOT “selling something” |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #38 |
62. A motivational speaker is most definitely "selling something" |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #62 |
75. You are hopelessly deluded, if you believe a word of what you just wrote. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 09:46 PM Response to Reply #75 |
89. Look. You misunderstand each of my arguments, |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 09:59 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. You have yet to post a non-disingenuous reply, save your first one. |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 10:30 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. Not getting through at all... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:01 AM Response to Reply #25 |
51. The houses being built now are a helluva lot bigger than they were 50 years ago. |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:52 PM Response to Reply #51 |
76. Oh please. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 09:00 AM Response to Reply #76 |
81. I said in some places houses were way overpriced. nt |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 06:10 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. The original claim was that people's buying power is greater than it was 50 years ago. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:21 AM Response to Reply #10 |
35. It needs a better explanation, I believe. |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:59 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Yes. There are a lot of variables here. |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:45 PM Response to Reply #10 |
56. This is, of course, just anecdotal |
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nicknameless (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 07:17 PM Response to Reply #56 |
88. It’s all anecdotal. |
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Trillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
68. The human experience is based upon opportunity, not goals |
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ktlyon (733 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #10 |
71. I think it means not obsessing |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
15. i'm really psyched about this whole "positivite psychology" line of research |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
21. Interesting |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
23. Or |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:50 PM Response to Reply #23 |
60. I cannot believe nobody recognized the true essential core of happiness here! |
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Jonathan50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-18-07 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
28. Love helps lead to happiness. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:15 PM Response to Reply #28 |
54. "Happiness is simply getting enough sleep." |
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Dervill Crow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 11:03 AM Response to Reply #54 |
85. Very true. |
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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
29. Thanks for this. It helped a lot. Cheers! |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
32. Let me recommend a similar philosophy...and it's a cheap book! |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
34. Sorry, self delete! (That ol' demon "couldn't post" again.) |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:44 AM Response to Original message |
39. I"m surprised the list doesn't have "gratitude" at the #1 position |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 04:04 AM Response to Original message |
40. Hmm |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 06:36 AM Response to Original message |
41. This all sounds good until you get to your dysfunctional workplace.. |
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BluePatriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 12:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
57. Amen to that |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 05:51 PM Response to Reply #57 |
73. Within the first hour at work today I forgot the lessons in the OP. |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 06:31 AM Response to Reply #73 |
80. It's a new day... Maybe it'll be different.... |
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progressoid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
43. I get lots of emails about this - apparently happiness involves bigger boobs and a better erection. |
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Boogie (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
44. Very Zen. |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
46. Thanks for posting this, Az! |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
47. Hmmm. So the key to happiness is giving up? |
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nashville_brook (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #47 |
59. more like "non-attachment" -- eschew "maya" or illusion |
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Unca Jim (405 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
48. What about number two? |
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NobleCynic (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 02:30 PM Response to Reply #48 |
63. Welcome to DU |
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GeorgeGist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:41 AM Response to Original message |
49. Interesting ... |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
50. So that's why we're all crazy |
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wildeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:40 AM Response to Original message |
53. I wish I had been less focused on goals when I was younger. |
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rman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
58. no worries about global warming, peak oil and the oil wars |
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demrabble (500 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
61. And...... |
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cooolandrew (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
67. Another road to happiness... |
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Carni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
77. Just had a major cancer scare and major surgery at 42 |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-19-07 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
78. "Happiness" is ill-defined |
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autorank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 06:19 AM Response to Original message |
79. I get sad thinking about happiness. Striving for contentment makes me anxious. |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Feb-20-07 09:33 AM Response to Original message |
83. Agreed. Try doing something nice for someone, just to have done so. |
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