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SayWhatYo (991 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 01:57 PM Original message |
In your opinion, is it wrong for men to open doors for women? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. Whoever gets to a door first should be polite and open it |
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a kennedy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:00 PM Original message |
I agree, and I do it too. I think it's just being considerate. |
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woodsprite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #1 |
32. I go along with you. BUT I've had some instances, |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
121. sounds more like a valet than a partner (?) |
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HeeBGBz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
75. Exactly, the sex of the individual shouldn't matter |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:26 AM Response to Reply #1 |
106. Ta-da! We have a winner! (NT) |
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Billy Ruffian (672 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
124. vehement concurrance |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
154. I'd faint if a woman ever opened the door for me. |
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meldroc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
2. No. |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
3. I open doors for whomever is nearby... |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #3 |
40. My feelings also. I don't discriminate when it comes to Courtesy. |
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rpgamerd00d (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
4. Yes. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. I like it. |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. I always make an effort to try to get to the door and open it |
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demnan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
7. Welcome to DU! |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
8. No. |
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CountAllVotes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
9. Doing those things means a man is a "gentleman" |
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Missy M (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
10. No it's not wrong for either men or women to open doors for each other. |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
11. As a woman, I open the door for anyone that is behind me |
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Alamom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #11 |
47. Same here. It should be a mutual courtesy. n/t |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
12. As long as I get to open doors for men |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
13. I find it better to slam the door instead |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
14. No! It's courtesy. |
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AndyA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
15. It shouldn't have anything to do with sex, it's common courtesy. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
16. I open doors for men and women--and especially Moms with strollers. |
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Jane Austin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
17. Of course not. |
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Double T (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
18. I've always done it and always will............ |
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gatorboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
19. Only the revolving ones.... |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
20. It's a lovely thing to do |
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Jeanette in FL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. That is a great story |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 03:29 PM Response to Reply #24 |
42. That bus incident never left me |
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Jeanette in FL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. As a former New Yawker |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
53. It was funny |
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Stephanie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:21 PM Response to Reply #42 |
89. I think that is a major reason people DON'T do it. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:12 PM Response to Reply #20 |
50. Oh, that's just New Yorkers for you! |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:21 PM Response to Reply #50 |
56. Strangely of all the states I've visited |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:16 AM Response to Reply #56 |
112. Have you been to Rome? If not, you'd love it too. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:09 PM Response to Reply #20 |
86. Nicest thing on a bus: I was about 8 months pregnant and a tiny elderly lady gave me her seat |
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Stephanie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:19 PM Response to Reply #20 |
88. Precisely. |
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ChickMagic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
21. Nope, it's not wrong. |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
22. No, and nothing wrong with a woman opening the door for a man either. |
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murray hill farm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:09 PM Response to Original message |
23. people should always extend this kindness to other |
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ItNerd4life (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
25. No, it's not wrong. |
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BOSSHOG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:16 PM Response to Original message |
26. A man opens a door for a woman going inside a building, however |
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Homer Wells (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:19 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. What BOSSHOG said!! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:22 PM Response to Reply #26 |
57. Nowadays would he walk on the inside of the sidewalk in case of |
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BOSSHOG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:31 PM Response to Reply #57 |
60. I've been pondering |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:47 PM Response to Reply #60 |
76. Trivia alert... |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #26 |
79. Now THAT is ridiculous. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:38 AM Response to Reply #79 |
108. No one here is likely to object to your getting soaked. |
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Stephanie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:24 PM Response to Reply #26 |
90. Well now you're into the finer points. |
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BOSSHOG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:06 AM Response to Reply #90 |
111. After 30+ years |
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Red Right and BLUE (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
159. Personally I find that romantic. |
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bdamomma (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
27. no |
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TlalocW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
28. Walking on the right side? |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #28 |
138. it began in London - and carriages were not the 1st reason, but #2 |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:19 PM Response to Original message |
29. It can be a de-equalizing gesture |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Yes, that is the issue. |
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bread_and_roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:39 PM Response to Reply #29 |
92. You are absolutely right. (n/t0 |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
31. It's wrong to let a door close in anyone's face |
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Orangepeel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
33. of course it is sexist. It's based on sex. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
35. Depends on if they are hot or not |
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Akoto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
36. I was raised to open doors for both genders. |
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TygrBright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:28 PM Response to Original message |
37. When? When the woman has her arms full of parcels and he's a step ahead of her? |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
38. Common courtesy is never wrong. |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
39. I couldn't care less. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:49 PM Original message |
No, just as it isn't "wrong" for a woman to hold a door open for a man. nt |
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enid602 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
41. yes |
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Geoff R. Casavant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 04:44 PM Response to Original message |
43. A heard a story about a man on a bus. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:40 PM Response to Reply #43 |
63. true gentlemen |
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Geoff R. Casavant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:49 PM Response to Reply #63 |
65. Well, the women would. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 06:35 PM Response to Reply #65 |
70. I was just teasing you... |
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Geoff R. Casavant (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 11:27 PM Response to Reply #70 |
98. No offense taken |
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Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
44. Nobody told me about walking on the right side? Who is on the right? M or F? |
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magellan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:42 AM Response to Reply #44 |
109. The custom is the man walks on the outside, nearest the street |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
45. If You Don't Open The Door For Them Then How Else Can You Get A Good Look At Their Asses? |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:55 PM Response to Reply #45 |
95. Point...... Set............ Match! |
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La_Fourmi_Rouge (878 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
46. Sometimes, holding a door can mean the world... |
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aaronbees (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 12:02 AM Response to Reply #46 |
100. That's a beautiful story... |
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BluePatriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
49. I am indifferent to it, usually |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
51. This doesn't fall under "right " and "wrong" IMO. |
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GumboYaYa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:19 PM Response to Original message |
52. I will open doors (both to cars and buildings) for women, whether I know them or not. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
54. Not if they let women open doors for them if they have their hands full |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
55. Why did you "find it interesting"? |
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goodhue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
58. It's not wrong for people to open doors for other people |
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verse18 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
59. I'm a woman, but I open doors for others as common courtesy |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
61. doors I couldn't open in college |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
62. I assume... |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
64. No it is not wrong |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
66. Doors |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
67. As a woman, I'd be much more likely to sleep with him. |
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mtnsnake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 06:17 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. Where were women like you when I was young and single?! |
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sweetheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 06:16 PM Response to Original message |
68. It is nice if people are polite to people |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
71. I am female, and hold doors open for people older than myself |
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Mugu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
72. I’m a man in my mid 50’s |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
73. I feel it is a sign of disrespect not to open the door. |
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bread_and_roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 11:07 PM Response to Reply #73 |
96. So what if the girl "admires and respects the boy"? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #96 |
115. Eveything is not always black and white. |
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bread_and_roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:04 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. A pedastal - and sex discrimination -gets damned uncomfortable after a while |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:43 PM Response to Reply #116 |
119. I am taking a step back and a deep breath. |
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bread_and_roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:50 PM Response to Reply #119 |
122. That reply displays a generous spirit. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #122 |
125. kenzee... |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #115 |
123. why should the guy pay for the first date? |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:34 PM Response to Reply #123 |
131. If I asked someone out then I would pay. |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:34 PM Response to Reply #123 |
132. Whomever asks should pay |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:18 PM Response to Reply #115 |
143. very black/white: you enjoy having rights w/o responsibilities |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:32 PM Response to Reply #143 |
168. I am not sure what responsibilities you believe I should have. |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:42 PM Response to Reply #168 |
177. biology is not destiny; difference of ability is not difference in humanity |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #168 |
180. responsibilities you should have ? for starters expect to open your own door |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:08 PM Response to Reply #180 |
184. Great, we both agree. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:32 PM Response to Reply #73 |
167. There's a difference between 'respect' and 'servility.' |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:41 PM Response to Reply #167 |
169. I think most definitions depend on where you see the issue. |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. it is sexism against both men and women |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:36 PM Response to Reply #170 |
175. I was replying to the 'servility' comment that nut made. |
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geniph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
74. Whoever gets to the door first should open it and hold it, |
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FooFootheSnoo (304 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
77. I don't think it's sexist |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
78. NO and it's not wrong |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:55 PM Response to Original message |
80. I open the door to whomever is following after |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
81. No. Nor is it wrong for a woman to open a door for a man. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
82. Solely because they're women and it's the "polite" thing to do? Absolutely. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:55 PM Response to Reply #82 |
94. Nice attitude. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 06:40 AM Response to Reply #94 |
104. Deleted message |
Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:58 PM Response to Reply #82 |
126. How old are you? |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:08 PM Response to Reply #126 |
134. Then what on earth IS feminism? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #134 |
140. As much as I often disagree with Maddy McCall, she is ABSOLUTELY right on this. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:10 PM Response to Reply #140 |
141. Then what am I to do? |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:26 PM Response to Reply #141 |
144. "...just mindless platitudes from the likes of Thomas Kinkade." |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #144 |
152. You like that Rabrrrrrr jab? |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:49 PM Response to Reply #141 |
151. Well, see, that's the other thing you'll realize once you hit 25 or so: |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:54 PM Response to Reply #151 |
153. Why do they exist? I think they're vestiges of ridiculousness. |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. Much of what we consider proper etiquette/manners is illogical |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:38 PM Response to Reply #134 |
149. I dunno - it is like respect for your elders kind of thing |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:00 PM Response to Reply #149 |
155. But that's just it--I don't expect you to show respect to me by opening a door. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:40 PM Response to Reply #155 |
161. I can dig that - but then there are statistics |
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Red Right and BLUE (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:51 PM Response to Reply #155 |
162. Just what decade did you grow up in? |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:19 PM Response to Reply #162 |
165. You're lucky, then, because I see it all the time. |
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Red Right and BLUE (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #165 |
186. Oh. |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:16 PM Response to Reply #165 |
187. Generation Y and their parents are thugs who elected Bush |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-04-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #187 |
190. oh brother |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:28 PM Response to Reply #155 |
166. You know - part of that is pretty weird :) |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:54 PM Response to Reply #166 |
171. See, I find that "old way of thinking" horrible. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:22 PM Response to Reply #171 |
173. And therein is the answer |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:30 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. Precisely. We are not all Ken and Barbie, |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
83. Short answer, no. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
84. Well, it's something my mother taught me to do |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
85. The young and able should be right on it regardless of gender.I've done that... |
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133724 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
87. My life changed on 9-11 |
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nealmhughes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:35 PM Response to Original message |
91. Yes, and men, too. |
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bread_and_roses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
93. It is an act rooted in sexism, as posters upthread note |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
97. Not at all |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Feb-01-07 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
99. If I think about it, I'll (hold) open the door for anyone.... |
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gristy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:18 AM Response to Original message |
101. Well, I'm going to be different |
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Nicole (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
102. No, not at all |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:26 AM Response to Original message |
103. Seems like small thing, but it's wrong on all levels ! |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 06:46 AM Response to Reply #103 |
105. I agree. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #103 |
142. oh boy |
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magellan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:37 AM Response to Original message |
107. No, I like it when a man opens a door for me |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 07:51 AM Response to Original message |
110. You could ask "Is it wrong for a younger person to open doors for senior citizens?" |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
113. So what does this have to do with politics? |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
114. Not wrong or sexist at all. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
117. Does it have to be right or wrong? |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
118. You are confusing cultural practices with ideology. |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
120. It's just politeness! |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
127. Not sexist. It's polite. |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
128. It's a very nice thing to do. |
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kimsterdemster (237 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
129. either gender... |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
130. this is SEXISM ... against MALES |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 09:43 PM Response to Reply #130 |
133. Whoa, dude! Bitter much? |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:10 PM Response to Reply #130 |
136. Yes, it does hurt. |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:06 PM Response to Reply #130 |
163. "Thinking men"? I hear what you're saying, but, dude, |
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rzr77 (45 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:17 PM Response to Reply #163 |
172. You (and many others) are missing the point of this thread |
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ForrestGump (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #172 |
182. You don't know me well enough to call me |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-04-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #130 |
191. Jeebus Christ |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
135. I am taller, stronger, and more able to open doors. |
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KoKo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Feb-02-07 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
137. No...but if they don't offer...it pisses me off and silently I think they |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
139. One of the really great things about living in the south. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-04-07 12:44 PM Response to Reply #139 |
188. It's Something I've Gotten Used To |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
145. No, I do it all the time. |
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Zodiak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
146. I've taken a slap in the face for it. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
147. Where is the OP, what "other board" did he drag this in from, why the hell is this at the top of GD? |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
148. If a man wishes to go out of his way to hold a door open for a |
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progressivebydesign (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
150. Nope. I'm a female and I open doors for everyone.. it's MANNERS. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
157. i open doors for men and women... |
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Red Right and BLUE (774 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
158. I like it. |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
160. good manners are never out of place ... so NO |
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kerry-is-my-prez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
164. I'm a woman and I open doors for men and anyone who happens to come by. |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
176. Sexist or not |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
178. I often step aside |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
179. Doesn't bother me - in fact, while I'm pregnant, it's actually |
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oblivious (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
181. I think you should make this a poll. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
183. It's polite to open doors for others. It is sexist to do it based simply on gender. |
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MyNameGoesHere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-03-07 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
185. yes no maybe |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-04-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
189. No, it's not wrong. But be "natural" about it ... |
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