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Edited on Thu Sep-21-06 01:42 PM by TechBear_Seattle
As others have already pointed out, sex isn't the only means of getting or transmitting HIV.
While someone who is not sexually active at the moment doesn't need to be tested every couple of months, it is still something you should do at least once a year. Also, I don't expect that you will be inactive for the rest of your life (at least, I certainly hope you don't deny yourself that kind of closeness and pleasure); when you do resume sexual activity, you really should get tested regularly every three months regardless of genders or what you and your parter(s) do together.
As for insurance: you probably don't want to get tested by a regular physician anyway (a record of regular testing can and has led to discrimination by insurance companies.) In most cities, there are clinics that will provide testing that is as anonymous as state laws will allow, either for free or on a sliding scale. The health departments of many rural counties offer similar services. In terms of economics and privacy, there is no excuse not to get tested.
While there is no cure for HIV, there are a number of treatments available. Federal programs exist (for the moment, despite the best efforts of the Talibangelicals in Congress) to cover most, if not all, of those treatments. Likewise, HIV care is covered by state Medicaid programs, and there is often local assistance, both government and private, to help defray medical and non-medical costs. As long as HIV disease is being treated, you can continue to work and have an active life.
Let me explain why this is a big issue for me. I came out as gay in the early 80s, when HIV was first coming to national attention. Many of my first gay friends and mentors ended up dying from it. Between 1984 and 1990, I attended 17 funerals for friends who had died from HIV, with eight in 1986 alone. In the last 20 years, I have done volunteer work in hospices; I know exactly how advanced HIV infection ravages the body and mind. And right now, one of my cousins is living strong despite her having HIV: she got it ten years ago from an ex (now late) boyfriend who never told her about his heroin habit. Because she was getting tested regularly, she was able to start a course of treatment that has kept her alive and reasonably healthy, and which will let her see her grandson graduate high school, despite working as a file clerk at slightly above California's minimum wage at a company that does not offer insurance.
All this has moved me to be a safer sex educator, an advocate who has spoken to county health boards on the need for free, anonymous testing, even a laboratory test subject in stage 1 trials for an HIV vaccine. (Stage 1 means that it was the first time the vaccine was tested on humans. I found out after the trial that I was in the group to get the actual vaccine and not the placebo.) While the vaccine wasn't successful to go on to stage 2 tests, it did point to other avenues of research that have led and will continue to lead to a vaccine, perhaps even a cure.
HIV is a horrific way to die. As your immune system collapses, you end up with half a dozen different types of cancer dissolving your internal organs, leaving you too weak to sit up and too nauseous to eat. Fungi can start choking off your vocal cords, leaving you unable to speak. Bacteria fill your lungs with thick fluid. Viruses chew up your brain and leave big, gaping holes that impare your ability to think, to dream, to communicate, to remember a time when you were strong and whole. You end up a mindless 80 pound skeleton in a bag of rotting skin. It is a kind of death that I would not wish on anyone, not even Bill O`Rielly or Rush Limbaugh. Certainly not on fellow DUers.
With regards to HIV, ignorance is NOT bliss: it is a death sentence. If you are not aware that you have HIV, you can not treat it, and early identification and treatment is the only way to fight the disease successfully. A person who does not begin treatment until they are symptomatic has about one quarter the chance of survival as someone who is diagnosed while they are asymptomatic.
While you are totally and completely not sexually active, you don't need to worry about practicing safer sex. If that ever changes, though, or if you are ever in a situation where you might contract HIV (get stuck with a syringe needle, exposure to medical waste, blood transfusion, etc.) PLEASE don't make excuses for not getting tested, as there are no excuses. Please.
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