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Edited on Sun Sep-17-06 12:46 AM by Lisa
As a Western/Prairie Canadian (I think you said she was from Alberta originally?), no doubt she has noticed a lot of differences. I was waiting for the bus in my hometown of Hamilton (the next city over from Toronto) when a young woman blurted out to me that she was amazed by how quiet Ontarians are. She was from Winnipeg, and was used to complete strangers making conversation as they stood in line. (When I did eventually visit Winnipeg, I found out that this is indeed true -- several people said hello to me, in my first few minutes downtown.)
I suspect that the young men didn't even think of offering her a seat -- it's not that they saw her and decided to be rude, but they could have been looking right at her and she just didn't register. I confess that even after living on the west coast for more than a decade, I still have times when I zone out on the bus and just don't notice that there is someone who is elderly, handicapped, or carrying a burden who would appreciate a chance to sit down. (And even in Victoria, a city where people routinely thank the driver as they get off the bus, they had to put up a sign reminding riders to give up their seats.)
There's a rather funny anecdote about an experiment carried out on a TTC bus in the 1950s or 60s, by the actor Christopher Plummer, and one of his pals. (I forget the other man's name, but it's described in Max Ferguson's autobiography.) The two guys pretended they were a couple of yokels visiting Toronto for the first time, and kept reminding each other that they had to get off at Grosvenor. As the bus neared the stop, they blissfully stared out the windows of the bus, remarking loudly that if they didn't meet their friend at Grosvenor, they would miss out on the chance to do all the exciting things they had planned that day. Apparently the other passengers began to clear their throats, shuffle their feet agitatedly, etc., but nobody actually piped up and told them that they should get off! Plummer charitably said that he felt it proved that Torontonians are NOT as callous and unfeeling as other parts of the country claim they are, because when they finally wound up their prank and got off the bus, still in character, the other passengers were too embarrassed to look them in the eye!
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