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Tom Yossarian Joad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:51 PM
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Anyone interested in a "Living in the Shadows of the Gifted People" Forum?
Kind of a self-help group for those of us assigned to lives of mundacity and underachievement.

We could get together and commiserate about how the more gifted among us become the Bill Gates and George Soros's of the world while we are stuck in normal jobs doing the bidding of the prodigies of the world?

::silly:
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ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:52 PM
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1. I'm up for it!
Sign me up
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:54 PM
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2. That's pretty elitist. Like I could even see their shadows!
You and you're "I'm so much better than you because I can see the shadows of gifted people" attitude make me sick@!
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unschooler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:54 PM
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3. I know you're kidding, but a lot of "gifted" (high IQ) people have mundane
lives, too. The Gates and Soros types are not distinguished by their intelligence but by their drive.
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azurnoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:57 PM
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5. And in Gates case
complete and total lack of ethics, and no his foundation changes nothing.
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Cleita Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:18 PM
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40. Good point.
Being "gifted" doesn't mean you or your kid is going to be successful in life. That's drive and a good modicum of luck.
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Tyler Durden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:55 PM
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4. Be nice.
A 167 IQ and 50 cents gets me a cup of coffee in the break room down from my miserable cubicle.

And I did spend my grade/mid/high school years getting the snot kicked out of me for blowing the curve.

I've never made a decent buck off of my IQ.
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warrens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:57 PM
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6. I think I'd rather complain about how my high IQ has messed up my life
Thankyewverymuch...
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Tyler Durden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:00 PM
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8. You and me both, chum.
Want to hear the story about the two jocks in 8th grade who grabbed me in the gym shower and held me while a third pissed on me? They took turns and I was clothed at the time.

This was for aceing a History exam that most of the class failed. I didn't appreciate their humor much.
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annabanana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 12:58 PM
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7. "If only you'd APPLY yourself"
Having been told that by every guidance counselor encountered throughout your school years. . a requirement for admission.
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pitohui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:02 PM
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9. that is funny
my husband is gifted and i can assure you that he is not bill gates or george soros, but maybe i could tease him a little by joining such a group :-)

on the other hand, it reminds me a bit of hank and peggy hill, you know the one where peggy thinks she's a genius, not that she doesn't always think she's a genius :-)
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teriyaki jones Donating Member (336 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:05 PM
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10. Yep, high IQ without matching ambition
equals lifelong underachievement. While my sister, who has a barely average IQ but amazing drive, is hugely successful. She had more to prove, I guess.

That's my sour grapes 2 cents on the issue.
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:06 PM
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11. Your idea here seems amazing, you are gifted. Now we kick you out
of the group you formed :)
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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:10 PM
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35. Yeah, he is too smart. We may have to open this up to Freerepublic members
in order to sustain enough members.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:08 PM
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12. Maybe If It Were "Dancing in the Shadows ..."
Or is the whole idea to not be doing much of anything?
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cigsandcoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:08 PM
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13. Can it be called "The Mundanes?" n/t
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:34 PM
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20. Please don't make me laugh about this
The threads on this have been rather horrifying... especially the use of "Mundanes." It smacks a little too much of "Mudbloods."

However, your post cracked me up. I think that's a terrific name for such a group!
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cigsandcoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:57 PM
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27. God, you'd have to laugh.
I about choked when I read that this morning, and was only thankful I was not too bound by my "obscured vision and slower, less complex thought processes" to understand the complexities of the discussion.

The mundanes, indeed.
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aint_no_life_nowhere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:15 PM
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14. I can snuff out candles with my farts at 20 paces
Does that make me talented and gifted? Or is that just mundane underachievement?

Or do I need my own separate group?
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wryter2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:19 PM
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15. Can we have an underachiever forum?
I'd post there if I ever got around to it.
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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:12 PM
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36. Sounds like a lot of work.
:beer:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:21 PM
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16. How about a procastinators forum. Maybe I'll start a thread tomorrow
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:27 PM
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17. What does "mundacity" mean?
I looked it up and I can't find it.
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AlienGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:34 PM
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19. Combination of mundaneness and mendacity?
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:46 PM
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26. So it's a portmanteau then
I thought only giftated people came up with those.
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cigsandcoffee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:04 PM
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31. A wha..? A what? Portuh... Port... Wha?
(brow furrowing)
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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:14 PM
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37. You are clearly too smart to be here
nt
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:30 PM
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18. Only if I can be President...
as I am the most understated, unknown, underachiever of all time.
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porphyrian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:38 PM
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21. So, intelligence is the category it's acceptable to discriminate against..
...on DU? I don't really care whether or not there is a gifted peoples' forum or not, I just think it's funny that this is the issue everyone feels they can turn into bigotted assholes over irrationally. I guess tolerance has to end somewhere, and it apparently ends when you're more intelligent than most people and have the nerve to point it out.
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patcox2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:01 PM
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29. No, arrogance is the quality its okay to discriminate against.
If you had seen the post he is referring to, and weren't not so much offended as disgusted by how some smart people are so stupid when it comes to interacting with other people, you would understand.
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RagingInMiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:01 PM
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30. It's not intelligence per say
But the fact that anybody can just claim to be "gifted" or more intellectually superior than the others. And in establishing that image, they expect everybody else to just take their word for it.

Well skeptism and intelligence are not too far apart.
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:16 PM
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38. hey, it is just a user-name
and it was meant to be a joke/riddle (as in Wile E. Coyote's business card), but I do not expect anybody to just take my word for it. I am ready for a duel - differential equations at 20 feet. :P
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:22 PM
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41. It's "per se" ... not "per say" (sic)
If you were 'gifted' you'd know that. :evilgrin:




:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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Lilith Velkor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:39 PM
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22. ...
:nopity:
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Ganja Ninja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:41 PM
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23. No grammar cops allowed right? n/t
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azurnoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:43 PM
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24. Almost reminds me
of a science fiction story clled Null-P about humanity breeding for the most average person and the end results. Wm. Tenn was the author.
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yorgatron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:45 PM
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25. sign me up!
i've always said,the smartest thing you can do is figure out how dumb you are.
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Skidmore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 01:59 PM
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28. And all this time, I just thought it
it was overcast. You mean it wasn't a cloud standing between me and the sun?
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patcox2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:05 PM
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32. I feel sorry for those who are superior to me, they need our understanding
Its hard to be brilliant in a world full of idiots, that was clear from the posts on the gifted group thread, thats why I proposed a group for "self-pitying underachievers," it got locked, but here it is again anyway:


We need a group for self-pitying underachievers, and for those who think they are underachievers but who are actually performing exactly at their level of intellect. A place where we can put our elbows out congratulating ourselves on how brilliant we are while looking down our noses at the "dull normals" who are such an inconvenience to us. We can also spend time rationalizing our own failure by blaming it on our very brilliance, engaging in the "starry starry night" self-congratulatory brand of self pity, as we whine to each other "this world was never meant for one as brilliant as me."
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patcox2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:08 PM
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33. You've got it wrong, the truly gifted are too brilliant to succeed!
Their brilliance is a detriment in this world filled with mediocrity. Or at least its good for the ego to imagine thats why it is you are a failure, anyway.

Sociopaths almost all feel that that way, BTW; they feel they have special, but unrecognized talents which go unfairly unrecognized. This allows them to develop their pathological form of selfishness in which noone else matters, and all of their bad behaviors are justified by the injustice done to them.
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Finder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:10 PM
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34. Isn't that the lounge? lol
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alcibiades_mystery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:16 PM
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39. We need a "Me and My Friends Used to Beat Up the Gifted Kids" Group
That's right. Not "My friends and I." No sirree. Me and my friends.

And, judging from the gifted clowns thread, they never even got that ultimate revenge they were pining for as they nursed those fat lips! Quelle dommage! :rofl:
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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:23 PM
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42. How about the "Living in the shadows of the gifted people brains
that are hanging out" Forum. Those brains are so HUGE they leave big shadow.
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Skinner ADMIN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jul-17-06 02:23 PM
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43. Locking
ENOUGH!
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