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your right to say it.
An old quote, surely, but one with as much meaning today--and perhaps even more meaning today--than ever.
Let's face it folks: many good people here at DU have their own opinions on an infinite number of issues, topics and life in general. These opinions on individual topics can run the gamut from almost pure conservatism to the farthest point on the left. We might grate at some of these opinions and disagree wholeheartedly with them, but we hopefully remember that in a free state that free speech is something we all cherish, and have to keep in mind when we share discourse with others.
The only other time that DU was so belligerent was during the primaries when individual loyalties to candidates caused a furor and pitted one DUer against another. After the primaries, things calmed down, and we came together to elect the person selected to run for the Democratic ticket. We were united again in our goal to oust the wrong wing out of the west wing.
But now, it seems that there are many, many malcontents here who want their opinion to be the ONE and have no regard to those who have opposing opinions. They argue constantly, are incessant in their aggression against those who have made their own (opposing) opinions clear and have no regard for these opinions. They are trying, whether consciously or unconsciously, to break up the camaraderie we have established here at DU, and throw us into disarray. They might not be coservatives, but they ARE an enemy. Anyone who can not accept the opinions of others, who can not get along with others here at DU are not the kind of people we need here.
They ARE disruptors, even if they place a "D" next to their name. They aren't real "D"s--they are DINOs as much as Zell Miller, as much as Mary Landrieu, and as much as any other sack of shit who says they are Dems and fail to act like them. And perhaps, after all, that "D" next to their name stands for "disruptor" anyhow.
Remember when we were children and the teacher used to tell parents that "John" doesn't play well with others, or "Sue" is aggressive toward other children? Well, "John" and "Sue" are now here at DU, and there are no parents to deal with anymore--just us. And if we can not actively, together, turn this around, and either get rid of the disruptors or shame them into acting more reasonable or more in keeping with good social behavior, then we are the losers. We will lose more people as they get frustrated in trying to share their views, we will lose longtimers because they(we) remember when DU was something we all breathed a sigh of relief at finding--a place of support when the world began to turn dark.
A couple of weeks ago I had to deal with a couple of DUers who were aggressive in such a manner, and if I hadn't allowed some cooling down time in between posts and my replies, I would have simply said they were fucking bitches and gotten banned because I could no longer deal with the snotiness and the hatred coming out of them. One of them was so vehement in their nastiness that I was prepared to tell them that the charges they alleged against me might not have been true, but that THEY were the worst kinds of assholes on the planet--the ones who were all high and mighty and were not really welcomed at DU, not because they didn't share the kinds of opinions we all have here in general, but because they were simply despicable people.
What's it gonna be? Do we allow these people to repeatedly hammer us down without so much as a warning to them for their nastiness, or do we get warned and possibly banned for telling them to go fuck themselves?
I think we need to make a new proclamation. I think it's time that these social misfits be taught that not playing "nice" is a factor and a trait that most of us here don't share with these assholes. As liberals, we DO give a damn about others, and while we may NOT AGREE, we respectfully defend their right to say it. We DON'T go around telling people who don't share our opinions that they are wrong, and try to show our own "moral superiority" when in fact those that tout such shit are the ones who are knee deep in their own version of it.
It requires a concerted effort on ALL of us who give a damn about DU and our presence here, to show these people the door in as respectful a way as possible, but not to give in to their nastiness, their bullshit and their power plays. It requires that we memorize the rules of order here, and report any of these people who are striving to tear us apart. It means that there will be NO stone unturned in showing that those who remain nasty NEED to get the fuck off DU.
If we can't stop these people, our haven here will end, and only these assholes will remain, to continue to turn one person against another, to make sure their opinions are the rule of the land and we will lose ultimately. Whether they are "D"s or not, assholes are still assholes, regardless of which face they turn to the world, and we need to put them in their place, and not allow them to shut us out from one of the few places online where we feel at home.
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