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Edited on Sat Nov-18-06 07:28 PM by ismnotwasm
I'm in the middle of reading, or re-reading several feminist books, the latest being "Transforming a Rape Culture" This one is a perfect example of your point. There are "feminists" out there on the internet at least, who deny rape culture. I don't feel it's a radical notion, but your average women takes rape for granted. She's born a potential victim, must protect her self at all times from rape, and NOTHING, no looks, money, profession, country, culture, dress, age makes her exempt from being a potential victim. So since rape is so common, so pervasive that it's taken as a natural way of life women deal with it in bizarre ways--blaming the victim for instance. It's like Stockholm Syndrome.
Beauty culture also damages women. I was just discussing this with a young women I know who is in nursing school. She was mentioning certain types of behavior of women in her class who would be considered not as attractive as others that she found very disturbing. I told her "become a feminist" She blinked at me. I started explaining that from the time we are born, are value is inseparable from our "looks" a plain women is valued less that an attractive one. Those considered less attractive and you can read "sexually attractive to men" in that are bombarded with images and messages telling them they have less value. These women too, become very damaged and may respond in bizarre, or unhealthy ways. Conversely, a sexually attractive women is valued for how she looks FIRST. I've met culturally beautiful women who have overcome this, and gone on to to great things, but overcome it they have to do.
The bottom line and root cause aside from ignorance and I don't care if this is considered "radical" or not (I find it amusing, and gratifying except it's so sad, to be considered a radical feminist in this day and age)is Male demand for sexual access at all times. This can cross genders as well, but women take the brunt of it. Males have a sense of entitlement to sexual access, for example "I'm not getting any" "Women can get laid any time they want" bullshit thinking you find. Women who can't, don't, or refuse to believe this end up in a damage loop.
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