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That is all we are. A walking fuckhole. Something to be done. to be nailed. to be fucked.
We are an object. Nothing more, and a whole lot less in some instances.
Look at the biology:
A penis "gives". It is the penetrator. The penis is 'aggressive' as far as its biological function.
A vagina 'takes'. It is the space which is penetrated. The vagina is 'passive' as far as its biological function goes.
I think that there lies almost a jealousy as far as vagina goes. I think Frued had it all wrong--it's not penis envy, it's vaginal/clitoral envy.
Having sex is not a guarantee of an orgasm for women. We can't just jack off and come 4 minutes later. As 'passive' as our vagina is, it's got an intellect of sorts. It's not the sex organ, it's the receptor of HIS sex organ. Our clitoris, however, is a source of contemption for many men. They feel inferior if they cannot get a woman off by vaginal penetration alone.
Many men have issues with women who use vibrators to achieve sexual arousal and/or orgasm. They have issues with women whose sole sorce of orgasm comes from clitoral stimulation (oral, tactile, using an object like a vibrator, etc).
It demeans the use of their penis. The penis *IS* their sexual organ and is the biological opposite of the vagina (so to speak). There seems to be a very deep insecurity in men with regards to the fact that women aren't just ORGASM MACHINES like men are. That we take time, patience, and practice to get things right.
It's almost as if they're jealous of the power of the clitoris, and how it will NOT bow to the allmighty power of the penis. They say they don't care if their partner doesn't have an orgasm, or if she fakes it, but they DO. THey feel defeated, less manly if the all mighty aggressive penis cannot force orgasm from a woman. To know the clitoris is to understand that a woman IS different from a man in almost a higher-intellectual way.
I've known men who have had an orgasm during the plain light of day just because a breeze hit them the wrong way, or they rubbed against a bench in a certain way. They take no prodding, no cajoling, no tenderness. Erection + stimulation = orgasm.
As powerful as they see the penis, it's really rather weak. It's like a child that gets excited over the sight of a mound of candybars and at the same time ignores the mound of $20 bills next to it. They're excited by the simple things. They can have an orgasm with little or no effort. The penis is a simple creature with little to no selectivity. They are jealous of the clitoris and how it holds higher power over our orgasm than the penis does.
Just some random rambling on a wednesday afternoon.
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