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Edited on Sun Feb-24-08 02:01 PM by Cerridwen
board, confirmed.
There is a thread up in GD that pushed every militaristic, flag waving, mom and apple pie, DU button and gave many DUers (those who aren't "too sensitive") the warm fuzzies (*read below before thinking I'm slamming anyone here or in general, please). I'm one of those "too sensitive" people so I scanned it then passed it by hoping it would die a slow painful death. It has 145 recommends.
An interesting piece of the puzzle was revealed when I went back and read through, rather than scanning, the OP. His sig line; a nice little slap at the hairy, scary feminists it was. No one seemed to notice so I "gave that a pass" thinking none of the posters who replied and recommended had noticed his sig line.
I went back this morning to re-read the original thread and responses. There, lost in the booyahs! and welcome to DU, and you speak for me replies, I find that at least one poster who replied did, in fact, notice the OP's sig line before replying. Rather than viewing it as a "red flag", our prolific writer/poster gives the OP kudos and a warning that his sig line will cause some "static" and goes on to warn the OP to look out for the "prop wash." I mean, hey, what's a little feminist bashing amongst friends, huh? I mean it's not like the OP actually came out and called feminists, feminazis or anything. Besides, he was speaking for so many people as he baited the mom and apple pie trap; surely we can forgive a little misogyny, right? You see, it's not that our prolific writer/poster isn't aware of anti-feminist words, it's just that they aren't something with which to be concerned; except that they cause "static" and in this case, "prop wash."
I, and my words, have been called many things over the years; this is the first time I've been told my words are "prop wash."
*Here's the part mentioned above: Many of us here have highly sensitive BS meters especially when it comes to anti-feminism and/or anti-women words and messages. What happened in that original thread and the subsequent thread in which the OP was exposed, can be a valuable lesson (if we wanna use it as such) as to why it's a good idea to trust our instincts (BS meters) when a message "just doesn't sit right" with us.
I, myself, should have posted something in/about the OP's first thread calling bullshit. I didn't, thinking others would notice the subtle undercurrent. Many didn't, or at least, if they did, they chose the route I took which was to not bring attention to it. Time for me to get "loud" again and create as much "static" as my time on DU allows.
The OP to which I refer, also provides a good opportunity to read and see if you can pick out all the slimey things under the surface; a chance to re-calibrate our BS meters, if you will.
Wow, this went off on a tangent. Oh well, I've spent time formulating my thoughts, I'll leave it.
In the meantime, yet another DU "legend" has shown his ugly, wink and a nod feelings about feminists.
edit: forgot one word which made all the difference LOL
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