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...which is NOT me (I'm 42), but I AM a gay man....I teach in a college, my partner teaches here as well - we are in the same department, and we're as open as can be, the kids all know about us, come to our house, etc. I don't know if I'd classify it as "complacency", per se, as these kids just flat out DON'T CARE about our relationship. That sounds misleading...not that they don't care about us as people, or about the health of our relationship, it's just that the fact that we're two men instead of a man and a woman is seemingly not important to them. They're gender-blind. The fact that WE consider ourselves married is good enough for them. The Prop 8 decision and the similar action in Florida (which is where we are) came as a surprise to them because it just never OCCURRED to most of them that anyone would have a problem with two people being together voluntarily. Which gives me great hope that in about ten years all this hubbub will be a moot point, because these kids will be out in the world making decisions and voting in full force.
Granted, I teach in a music department, so these kids are less apt to have a problem with gay people anyway, BUT as I said before I am in Florida, North Florida to be exact which is the SOUTH in the worst sense of the word, and a big Southern Baptist stronghold.
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