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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 12:39 PM Original message |
I have a very complicated situation with my husband |
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teenagebambam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. Well, here's what my mother might say.... |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 01:06 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Thanks! I can use all the smiles I can get. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
3. I guess I should have posted a little more info |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 01:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. I don't know if there are any 'right' or singular formulas for situations like this. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 10:49 PM Response to Reply #6 |
34. Funny you should use the word "muse". |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 02:22 AM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Be sure to tell him that this is NOT very a-MUSING! |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 05:48 PM Response to Reply #39 |
49. "a-MUSING"...that made me smile. Thanks. |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 06:43 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. Well, unfortunately most of us are not conscious enough of ourselves |
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Shallah Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 04:46 PM Response to Reply #3 |
12. It is up to each individual to actualize him/herself. I fail to see how bending and breaking vows |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 11:01 PM Response to Reply #12 |
35. Gosh, you guys are dead on!! |
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Shallah Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 01:32 AM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Sex isn't just a friendly handshake even if your husband wants to make like it is |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 05:26 PM Response to Reply #38 |
47. I guess I didn't explain my wedding ceremony clear enough. |
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WhiteTara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 09:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
32. don't forget to pray |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
4. It sounds to me like he's using another part of his body to do the thinking |
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LiberalEsto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
5. Sounds like b.s. to me |
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Coyote_Bandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
7. Grow spiritually? |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #7 |
36. Yes, sometimes I am naive. |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
8. The Mistress |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 05:19 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Hey Dover |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. It's the first chapter of a book |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 06:32 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Thank you very much. |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. You're welcome. |
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Hestia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 09:38 AM Response to Reply #14 |
27. There is a website that allows you to log into websites that need |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
9. Challenging times. When they told us about love... |
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saracat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
10. Personally, I don't buy that his spirituality is the part of him that is "growing". Spirituality |
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Dover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
11. A woman associate of mine was in a somewhat similar situation. |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 07:42 AM Response to Reply #11 |
26. that's a beautiful example of communication's power |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
13. Your husband needs to read some Jungian work about the anima |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
18. Don't listen to me. |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 07:46 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. LWolf, I'm sorry that you have been hurt so deeply. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 11:35 AM Response to Reply #19 |
28. Thatnk you for your kind thoughts. |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 07:51 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. I can't even imagine, LWolf |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 11:36 AM Response to Reply #20 |
29. I have done |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
21. I definitely agree with the other posters here |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
22. Welp, he claims to know what he wants here. It's up to you to decide what you want. |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jul-31-08 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
23. Based on some of my own experience..get out now...while you still have some |
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SheilaT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
24. It's not complicated. |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 07:29 AM Response to Original message |
25. watch Eyes Wide Shut with him, understand the wisdom of Jealousy and emptiness of Lust |
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Why Syzygy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 02:10 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. Great post! |
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midnight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 10:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
33. I think that everthing that has been posted here is worthy of |
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Metta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
31. Ya don't have to have sex to be spritual. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-01-08 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
37. Update to the saga that is currently my life. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 04:20 AM Response to Reply #37 |
40. You don't have to console him |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 05:56 PM Response to Reply #40 |
50. Great quote! |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 08:25 AM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Based on this post, I feel I must recommend |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 12:16 PM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Of course I don't know all of the details... |
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Why Syzygy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 02:32 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. This was exactly my impression. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 03:59 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. This is exactly what I was going to say, word for word. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #42 |
51. Nope, unfortunately you were not wrong |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 07:55 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. I'm sorry, yankeeinlouisiana. I was hoping that I was wrong. |
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PinkTiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
43. You won't like what I say, probably, but here is my take on this: |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 06:12 PM Response to Reply #43 |
52. I still trust him and I am still willing to believe in him |
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PinkTiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 08:06 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. OK, I get it. |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. Very good point |
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PinkTiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-03-08 01:10 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Thanks Hope. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 09:21 PM Response to Reply #43 |
60. That pretty much sums it up for me. |
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PinkTiger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-03-08 01:09 AM Response to Reply #60 |
64. Thanks. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
46. Upon reading and re-reading the thread, I have a possible different conclusion. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 05:40 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. No you haven't been too forward. |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 06:34 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. I was just re-reading your post and I think you may |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
57. OK, here's the question. Would he be OK with you acting the way he is? |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 08:15 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. Oh my goodness, Dream |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 08:39 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Yeah, it had to be asked. It's the next logical question. |
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Grateful for Hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 09:28 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. Hi Dream |
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yankeeinlouisiana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-02-08 10:25 PM Response to Reply #57 |
63. If I asked him that question he would say, of course I |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-03-08 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
66. There is not one bit of this that is "spiritual" in my opinion. |
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