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I swear I come in here for more than asking help, really. :blush: But I'm in a bind, I am really torn and in some desperate need for guidance.
Almost a year ago, my Goddess led me out to AZ. I was in a bad place financially, spiritually, emotionally--all kinds of stagnant, living at home with unsupportive family--and asked her for a way out. So I came out here and moved in with friends. This is some serious karmic stuff...we've been together through many lives and through many ups and downs in them. I've learned a lot about myself and have grown exponentially spirit-wise. I am a level 2 Reiki practitioner now among other things.
But here's my dilemma. Saturday, housemates are signing a lease on our house. They asked me to make a commitment to our family and such and sign on. The problem is a) Mercury Rx makes me EXTREMELY hesitant to sign anything, but our landlord is being insistent and we can't put it off. Mercury is also my ruling planet (I'm a Gemini). I've also been terribly, desperately homesick the last couple of months and it's only been getting worse. Some of this might be influenced by metaphysical attack (we've been under almost constant for like the last month). I love them to death but I don't know if I can do another year out here. The pros are the fact that I'm making way more money out here than I was back east ($12/hr doing data entry) and there is more job opportunity for someone with my lack of education and experience (I have my Good ENough Diploma, and want to go back to school). I'm also free to explore my spirituality here, there is more open space, have altars, etc. be out about my sexual orientation also and not have to deal with the fundie parental unit. OTOH, I have less freedom here because I can't drive and public transportation in the Phoenix area is a joke compared to NYC. I'm basically at the mercy of the bus system and my one housemate that can drive. I also find that I miss the culture more than anything...hopping on the train and going to the museum, and the vibrance and pulse of the city. It's just too mellow out here for me, I find.
I feel like I'm being pressured into signing this lease but I don't know. On one hand there is a lot of opportunity for me out here spiritually, materially, etc. and going back to NY would mean going back to my mom and what I fear is stagnation (my one extremely sensitive housemate did a tarot reading and the cards basically told me that I'd be living at home until 35 and would not grow spiritually at all if I went back). OTOH, I've lost the ability to pursue most of my hobbies and I feel like I'm losing too much of myself out here, kind of throwing the baby out with the bathwater. What I need is outside advice...sometimes someone looking from the outside of a situation can see things more clearly or have different insights. Tarot or astro is appreciated greatly. My birth info is 5/30/81, 1:30pm, in Brooklyn, NY.
Sorry if this is long and rambling but lord am I in an emotional mess right now. :cry:
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